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how should i go about turning a female friend into a girlfriend?
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07-08-2003, 04:17 PM #1Registered User
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how should i go about turning a female friend into a girlfriend?
or even just a girl i have sex with?
i'm in the friend zone because i never made the move a couple years ago when she wanted me because i was hopelessly insecure. Now i want her more than ever and just don't know how to go about it. We don't hang out a lot and i rarely call her, so it's not like we're close friends, but she seems genuinly pleased to talk to me and to see me whenever it happens.
So, what do i do?"fuck it all, and fucking no regrets"
James Hetfield
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07-08-2003, 04:23 PM #2Going nowhere fast! ELITE MEMBER
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Now rollin' with the Raider
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07-08-2003, 05:08 PM #3Un~Bulking ELITE MEMBER
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Thank you Dr. Tan.
Hey man, there's this little thing called communication....it is the basis for every relationship on the planet. Just talk to her, the worst thing she could do would be to add you to J'Bo's 'immature men' thread.
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07-08-2003, 06:27 PM #4Fit Freak ELITE MEMBER
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Why not just ask her out for drinks and be open...talk to her...if she like you like you say I'm sure it'll be fine...even if she only wants to be friends...if you're thinking like this it'll only get harder the longer you wait..JUST DO IT...NOW
Searching for the right balance...
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07-08-2003, 06:59 PM #5Registered User
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the answer is alcohol
"I believe in the brotherhood of man, all men, but I don’t believe in brotherhood with anybody who doesn’t want brotherhood with me. I believe in treating people right, but I’m not going to waste my time trying to treat somebody right who doesn’t know how to return the treatment."
Malcom X Speech, Dec. 12 1964, New York City.
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07-08-2003, 07:13 PM #6Super Moderator SUPER MODERATOR
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IMO, if she is receptive - be straight, ask if she'd like to go out sometime. I'm a casual person, it could be playing pool for all I care, but find out. If you let the opportunity pass you up, you may regret it (I have SEVERAL of those).
Motivation Bench form Charles Poliquin When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. Lao-Tzu
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one problem, if it is one, is that she's, in her words, "seeing this guy". I know it's not long into it and i know it's not serious yet but it might be kinda thorny, so i hafta be mistake free on this one.
"fuck it all, and fucking no regrets"
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07-08-2003, 09:19 PM #8Registered User
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as the ladies man would say "just do her in dah butt"
ok so that was a little immature....couldnt help it
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07-09-2003, 01:14 AM #9You Lack Intensity!!!! ELITE MEMBER
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its too late, you are in the friend zone buddy, haha
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07-09-2003, 08:02 AM #10Registered User
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Screw it, take her out. I was friends with my boyfriend for 4 years before we got together. How did he do it? He just kissed me one night, and once I got over the shock, we havent stopped since
2 years and counting.
Good luck - suck it up and go for it!
... Im gettin' there!
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07-09-2003, 08:07 AM #11Un~Bulking ELITE MEMBER
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Hey, the 'friend zone' is the best place to be. Relationships based on unrealistic/trite romantic themes alone don't last.Originally posted by gr81
its too late, you are in the friend zone buddy, haha
I married my best friend.
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SEE!!!
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07-09-2003, 08:11 AM #13Registered User
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julie and dm= that is beautiful
i believe that being friends in the first place would be a wonderful start to a long lasting relationship.
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aww, J'Bo -
... Im gettin' there!
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07-09-2003, 08:22 AM #15Un~Bulking ELITE MEMBER
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Well, if you're friends first, communication is rarely a problem....everything else just falls into place. Of course, this is not to say that everything will be perfect all the time......
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i have a new found respect for dm
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07-09-2003, 08:41 AM #17Un~Bulking ELITE MEMBER
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Aw shucks, Jenny!
Well, after sixteen years I've learned a lot. And believe me, not all of it was easy.
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