Originally Posted by LiftHardGainBig

Sup guys,
I go to a University that (like most) has a ton of parties. These parties are the easiest way to get laid, but it makes it sooo much easier if I'm drinking. I'm usually pretty shy and drinking really takes a ton of that away, plus girls will talk to ya more often if you are drinking (like everyone else). So anyway drinking is not exactly considered good for you, and besides that, i keep my diet in check 99% of the time. My question is, What is a good way/trick to go to these parties and not drink? I've asked on another board before and had a few replies but none of them worked out. It'll make this post longer but I'm gonna post what happened with them. One person told me to bring a bottled water in a vodka container and drink that all night telling people that its water. I did as told. Then girls would come up to me and ask if they could have some vodka... what do i do now? give them water, or act like a stingy asshole and tell them no?!??! Another guy said just to simply say you dont drink. That didnt work either cuz then ur the dorky type in some ppl's eyes. Anyways sorry for the long post and i appriciate help.

Originally Posted by njc

Even though I was always drinking I would always look up to those who weren't....as should everybody.