andyo

Thanks, J'bo, I understand what you are saying. Just let it go while I am ahead?

To achieve Success is certaily tough..but keeping it, much tougher!

nikegurl

it's so hard to see this when you're in it....but just allow for the possibility that there's someone much better out there for you who won't cause you this kind of stress/worry. (and when you find her - be as nice as you are now.)

If you want to achieve things that others can't...

You have to do things that others won't.

irontime

Hotter than me?? Not in that town.

If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)

nikegurl

you were overruled.

If you want to achieve things that others can't...

You have to do things that others won't.

J'Bo

no no i meant the SPECIAL pics

....and thats my $.02

nikegurl

uhoh...what did i do that you found out about?

If you want to achieve things that others can't...

You have to do things that others won't.

J'Bo

nuttin
you just told me that you would pm me your boobies

....and thats my $.02

nikegurl

i think that was fitgirl? (me, i have no boobies)

If you want to achieve things that others can't...

You have to do things that others won't.

J'Bo

no i think you were gonna send me some too

....and thats my $.02

Flex

its definitely true.

a few of my buddies from college, 4 to be exact, treated their gf's like absolute garbage. insulting them while others are around (even in a joking way is kinda a dickmove), cheated on them and just doing all this other shit that made them "chase" and like the guy even more.

on thke other hand, me and a few of my other buddies, who treated our gf's like princesses, got shit on by the girls......

You're a funny guy, Sully, I like you. Dat's why I'm going to kill you lahst.


* Got juice?*Need Motivation?*How to Train*
*Arnold vs. Ronnie vs. Haney vs. Sergio*
*YEAH BUDDY...LIGHT WEIGHT!*Ahhnold*

Flex

listen to my sex therapist (Dr. J'bo), she knows what she's talking about

You're a funny guy, Sully, I like you. Dat's why I'm going to kill you lahst.


* Got juice?*Need Motivation?*How to Train*
*Arnold vs. Ronnie vs. Haney vs. Sergio*
*YEAH BUDDY...LIGHT WEIGHT!*Ahhnold*

oaktownboy

very true

Chuck Norris once lost his keys and couldn't remember where he put them. So he tortured himself for half an hour until he gave up their location.

J'Bo

Flex.
you need to pm me hun and give me your update.
dr J'bo needs to hear whats going on under the sheets

....and thats my $.02

oaktownboy

dr j'bo..has a nice ring to it

Chuck Norris once lost his keys and couldn't remember where he put them. So he tortured himself for half an hour until he gave up their location.

J'Bo

thanks.
i do personal exams you know

....and thats my $.02

oaktownboy

please doctor..take ur time

Chuck Norris once lost his keys and couldn't remember where he put them. So he tortured himself for half an hour until he gave up their location.

andyo

Flex, I am gonna give her one last shot, as she is in emotional hell right now with that stalker.

I am gonna play her game too, and not call her and see who bites first.

Otherwise I am better off without her!
BTW, why is she afraid to talk to me about her stalker probs, she freaked on the phone like I said but with no explanation.

To achieve Success is certaily tough..but keeping it, much tougher!

oaktownboy

we can't understand women..simple as that don't feel bad bro

Chuck Norris once lost his keys and couldn't remember where he put them. So he tortured himself for half an hour until he gave up their location.

Flex

thats good you're giving her another chance. i realize she's prob. in an emotional state right now, but IMO you should just ask her straigth up "whats going on b/w us". I broke up w/ my ex. 6 months ago, didnt talk to her 1 time for 4mo, and outta the blue she calls me and we kinda talk once in a while now.

dude, honestly, like Oak said, we can't understand girls. we're 100% test, their 100% estrogen, 2 different worlds.

Women............you can't live with 'em, and they can't pee out the window of a high speed car.

p.s. i'll still kill the stalker for $50

You're a funny guy, Sully, I like you. Dat's why I'm going to kill you lahst.


* Got juice?*Need Motivation?*How to Train*
*Arnold vs. Ronnie vs. Haney vs. Sergio*
*YEAH BUDDY...LIGHT WEIGHT!*Ahhnold*

Flex

well, im back up at school, so the tiger is outta the cage again

You're a funny guy, Sully, I like you. Dat's why I'm going to kill you lahst.


* Got juice?*Need Motivation?*How to Train*
*Arnold vs. Ronnie vs. Haney vs. Sergio*
*YEAH BUDDY...LIGHT WEIGHT!*Ahhnold*

Flex

They are very thourough i just dont like when she has me cough again and again and again so she can play w/my marbles (hahaha jk hun)

i'll hit cha w/a pm pretty soon. i need some more advice from the Loooooooooooove doctor

You're a funny guy, Sully, I like you. Dat's why I'm going to kill you lahst.


* Got juice?*Need Motivation?*How to Train*
*Arnold vs. Ronnie vs. Haney vs. Sergio*
*YEAH BUDDY...LIGHT WEIGHT!*Ahhnold*

irontime

Just go screw one of her friends, then she'll definitely bite

If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)

andyo

Hey all, here is what happened tonite.

After a long convo on the phone, I made the tough decision that we should seperate and give her some space that she wants so much.

She did'nt seem all that upset, but I will wait it out and I bet she'll come running back, and by then who knows what will be gouing on?

To achieve Success is certaily tough..but keeping it, much tougher!

oaktownboy

don't call her..do what IT did fuck one of her friends..

Chuck Norris once lost his keys and couldn't remember where he put them. So he tortured himself for half an hour until he gave up their location.

DrChiro

I agree with Mayo...just be friends and do your own thing..if it grows into something more cool...if not ....screw it, you made a new friend.

Realationships should be easy in the beginning...the hard stuff comes later when the awe wears off and you really decide if you are compatible with someone on all levels...if it's that hard in the beginning its not worth it usually.

On the other hand she may have been hurt in the past somehow and is just scared of commitment ....if you really see a good person in there then just make her feel comfortable and unpressured and see what happens. (did that help or did i just add to the confusion?)

My opinions may have changed, but not the fact that I am right.

When one door closes another door opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the ones which open for us.

NickB

Instead of making a new thread I'll merely post here

I just broke up with my girlfriend and im ready to get back out there. There's a really cute girl that I seem to like and I got her AIM name from doing a group project together.

Anyways, I wanted to get to know her a bit and go out and what not. Would it be too bold of me to just message and start talking to her even though she gave me the name purely for work? I don't want to seem ... wierd.... by talking to her out of the blue. She doesn't know me except from class.
If I should start talking to her; What are some good questions/topics to use to break the ice and get the ball rolling?

I'm inept at the entire courtship process. Extremely inept. (As if this question totaly didnt give that fact away)

andyo

Well, we are gonna meet up tonite and discuss our options, part of me says that she is a wonderful gal who just does'nt know what she wants or who,

But it has been 5 months, and maybe I should be the one slowing down, but I don't want to lose her. Do you get that? or am I just in a hard spot?

To achieve Success is certaily tough..but keeping it, much tougher!

andyo

BTW, nickb, me too, I have even done modeling and such and am still very shy when it comes to girls. Go figure

To achieve Success is certaily tough..but keeping it, much tougher!

John H.

Hi Andyo. ALWAYS be yourself and who you are. Be truthful to yourself. I do not think it is a good idea to show "all your cards" in any relationship. There needs to be mystery in every relationship. Someone knowing everything about you seems to me breeds contempt from some... Nothing wrong with being honest with people and you always hope they will be with you too but that is not how it actually is... You feel real close to this person and that is fine but the same will have to be with them too in order for it to work. There has to be give and take too. On both sides. Do not get into a "trap" just because YOU feel for this person - they may not really feel the same for you too. I say this NOT to harm you in any way but in order for YOUR LIFE and the life of any children you bring into this world YOU MUST MAKE DAMN SURE it is going to work out for everyone or else you will be admitting yourself to a life of misery. Do not get caught into that trap because many end up doing just that. Be as sure about all things as possible but remember too that life does have its "chances" and "pitfalls".... Take Care, John H.

irontime

Look at the big picture here buddy, it has only been 5 months and you are completely stressing out. If she can do this to you in 5 months think what a pain in the ass she'll be even longer. Sure it is tough to get over her, but eventually you'll find one you love even more and she'll feel the same about you. But this chick seems to be tugging you back in whenever she feels that she is going to lose you. I say fuck that, in 5 months you should be able to know pretty quick if you still want to be with that person, not this bullshit. Do yourself a favor, go find a nice girl and have some fun in the meantime.

If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)