Thread: Thinking of trying to rekindle relationship

If she has your number and didn't call, she isn't really interested...

I would say she has already moved on. So, get some dignity and let it go. Unless you have a significant emotional bond forged through many years and common experiences there is little basis for a relationship once the initial trust is broken.

Being slightly harsh to wake you up.
-OD

Not sure what the "stalker incident" was but if it involved you, flowers may just send her over the edge and scare the piss out of her anyway.

I remember the initial thread, and seriously bud, it's time for you to move on.

Like LAM said, if she has your number and doesn't use it then you should take that as a subtle hint. Just be nice to her when ever you see her but do not take the next step to pursue it.

I hate to admit this, but I agree with IT.

I'm a romantic at heart but it sounds to me like maybe it was a moment of loneliness or desperation for her, to talk of meeting and such. If she doesn't come back yada yada then I think you'd best forget, its easier to get over someone you dont have contact with.

Who knows, you could send flowers and leave it at that - your "shot in the dark."

Dont be sad about it either, if she doesn't want it then it was never going to happen anyway. You may even tell yourself if it wasn't for this other guy maybe it could have been, and yes maybe - but honestly I know I'm not like that. I either am interested, or not, and I know relatively quickly, stress or not.

Keep your head up. I also like ITs wording, nothing to be bitter about here. I've been through something similar which went nowhere, but were still friendly because we are both grown up about it.

Originally posted by BUSTINOUT
I hate to admit this, but I agree with IT.

Ewwwww.................I've just lost a TON of respect for you.

Originally posted by ALBOB
Ewwwww.................I've just lost a TON of respect for you.

I knew I was going out on a limb.

I also remember the origional thread. I think Mudge gives great advice.

Where is andyo?

Definitely move on

If she wants to restart things with you, she'll come back. If she doesnt... then there isnt a good reason for you to wait around.

Anyways, I also agree on Mudges advice being good.

Hey all, I am still here, just trying to figure out what to do now that she DID call me back. She had a death in her immediate family and had to go the service.

We are having lunch tomorrow, what to do, what to do?

Tread lightly my man...tread lightly.

Nothing wrong with being her friend, you were nice to her and I'm sure she remembers that and could use some now. With women though it does not always mean more, I swear women are like a switch, either they want you or they DONT. There seems to be very little "I'm not sure" with women unless they say that which means "no thanks."