Thread: I really don't understand women....

Originally posted by Pitboss
I really don't understand women

Women.......
you can't live with 'em,
and they can't pee out the window of a high speed car on the highway

hey pitboss-
where u from in socal?

i'm moving to either the OC or Muscle beach, just havent decided yet

Originally posted by Flex
hey pitboss-
where u from in socal?

i'm moving to either the OC or Muscle beach, just havent decided yet

In the LA area.

You should have vented on her, and not just in here. Make her understand your way of thinking.

Should have just slapped her around a bit. lol jk

Originally posted by aggies1ut
Should have just slapped her around a bit. lol jk

Just because you like to be smacked around, doesnt mean other women do!

There are honest and straight forward girls too They just live in Sweden

Originally posted by Jenny
There are honest and straight forward girls too They just live in Sweden

and then there are those honest and straight forward women who happen to all ready be in a commited relationship.


I'm just bitter. Never had my heart broken and just having a hard time adjusting to being alone.... rejected... etc, etc..

Aww, PB.. She's out there you know, she's just hiding really well One of these days she'll pop out of a cake

Get that chin up!

And get your ass back in the gym

Originally posted by Pitboss
I had been asking this girl out for a little bit.. I guess she more or less ....let me know she wasn't interested.

Then one day I'm sitting at the bar next to her and she telling someone how she hasn't been out on a date in months. That no one asks her out... blah, blah, blah.

Oh yeah?? I can do you one better that!!

I had been asking out this one girl for some time who happened to be a friend of a friend. Again not overly zealous, but enought for her to know. She kept avoiding the question enought to let me know I was wasting my time.

Then one day we're all sitting at a sports bar and she starts talking about how she just wants to get laid and how there's just not any men around period and if she saw just one man she'd jump his bones. And Im sitting right in front of the bich too!!

I didnt know what the fvck to say. No one did. But I didnt end up doing anything, I just took it like a gentleman. Then the bich wants to know why I wont talk to her anymore. Fvck that!

Originally posted by Metal V Player
Then one day we're all sitting at a sports bar and she starts talking about how she just wants to get laid and how there's just not any men around period and if she saw just one man she'd jump his bones. And Im sitting right in front of the bich too!!

I didnt know what the fvck to say. No one did. But I didnt end up doing anything, I just took it like a gentleman. Then the bich wants to know why I wont talk to her anymore. Fvck that!

Oh that happens.... damn probably once a week with me. It's like all the girls I work with..

A) forget I am there
B) forget I am a man
C) hell if I know

Originally posted by Jenny
Aww, PB.. She's out there you know, she's just hiding really well One of these days she'll pop out of a cake

Get that chin up!

And get your ass back in the gym

Thank you

But I had found her. After alot of soul searching I realized what I had and what I wanted. But by then it was too late. I was the one putting everything into the relationship and she just gave up.

I'm not giving up on relationships or love. But I have temporarily given up on women and their ideas of what love really is.

Originally posted by Pitboss
I'm not giving up on relationships or love.

Well I did. I gave up for over 10 years. Best 10 years of my life too. Not that Im suggesting you do that. To each his own.

some single parents are actually apprehensive about dating and relationships

pardon my bluntness, but you guys sound like you are already friends with these chicks, you can't do the friend thing. Let them know that you wanna get naked with them, and if they arent' down then why are you even continuing to listen to them, let alone pining over them. stick and move, ya feel me? you gotta be aggressive and obvious about what the deal is, you can't just be all friendly and there for them thinking they will get what you are up to. what have you got to lose? Take control of the situation, and if she ain't into you then move on, fucc all that other shit. All that love and relationship BS comes after the dating and the sex, don't get to ahead of yourselves and put expectations on things before you know the deal! Oh and dammit, you are forgetting rule #3 which is VERY VERY important........... Never date single mothers!!! that is your biggest mistake right there. now go do your thang playa, hassle these hoes maYn.

Originally posted by gr81
pardon my bluntness, but you guys sound like you are already friends with these chicks, you can't do the friend thing. Let them know that you wanna get naked with them, and if they arent' down then why are you even continuing to listen to them, let alone pining over them. stick and move, ya feel me? you gotta be aggressive and obvious about what the deal is, you can't just be all friendly and there for them thinking they will get what you are up to. what have you got to lose? Take control of the situation, and if she ain't into you then move on, fucc all that other shit. All that love and relationship BS comes after the dating and the sex, don't get to ahead of yourselves and put expectations on things before you know the deal! Oh and dammit, you are forgetting rule #3 which is VERY VERY important........... Never date single mothers!!! that is your biggest mistake right there. now go do your thang playa, hassle these hoes maYn.

That is the most ignorant thing I've ever heard. Roger's not looking for that. He's been there and done it and could do it again. He is looking for a serious relationship which you know nothing about. I suggest you keep you mouth shut!

PB ... don't try and understand women.

Originally posted by dg806
That is the most ignorant thing I've ever heard. Roger's not looking for that. He's been there and done it and could do it again. He is looking for a serious relationship ...

How someone starts a serious relationship ?

Gotcha beat.

I hinted at going out with this girl a couple of times while I was talking to her, not on a date but with friends. She avoided the question altogether and pretty much let it be known she didn't want anything to do with me so I just said F it. I pretty much just ignored her after that and then one night when I saw her out, she asked me why i never asked her out. I told her I pretty much did but she avoided the question. So she asked me out and I said no, I have no time for that sitcom "I like you when you don't like me" bullshit. It seems as though they want what they can't have, especially when they are young. I avoid young girls (Under 23) altogether.

Originally posted by Dale Mabry
I avoid young girls (Under 23) altogether.

me too

Originally posted by Pitboss
I'm not giving up on relationships or love. But I have temporarily given up on women

OK, I retract my invitation to use our guest room. I'm tired of sleeping with my ass to the wall and a sock in my mouth just to avoid being PB raped.

Originally posted by Dale Mabry
Gotcha beat.

I hinted at going out with this girl a couple of times while I was talking to her, not on a date but with friends. She avoided the question altogether and pretty much let it be known she didn't want anything to do with me so I just said F it. I pretty much just ignored her after that and then one night when I saw her out, she asked me why i never asked her out. I told her I pretty much did but she avoided the question. So she asked me out and I said no, I have no time for that sitcom "I like you when you don't like me" bullshit. It seems as though they want what they can't have, especially when they are young. I avoid young girls (Under 23) altogether.

Word to that Dale. I'll tell ya, the sweetest revenge I ever got was about 5 years out of highschool. I was in college and had already been working out and free fighting for some time, so I was in pretty darned good shape. A girl in one of my classes convinced me to dance at her birthday party and afterwards I decided to do that on the side to make extra money. Well the girls in highschool never even gave me the time of day, but imagine my surprise when I get called to do a bachlorette party chock full of a lot the old highschool girls. Most of them had got fat by then too. YESSIR, they had to PAY me for my time then!

Originally posted by Flex
hey pitboss-
where u from in socal?

i'm moving to either the OC or Muscle beach, just havent decided yet

Hey Flex - Gold's Venice is the coolest place on earth. OMG - it's amazing. I'm back at Powerhouse now b/c I moved a bit too far from it in July but in a few months I'm probably going to rejoin and make the commute. Powerhouse is great but after training at Gold's Venice - I can't seem to let it go.

Originally posted by dg806
That is the most ignorant thing I've ever heard. Roger's not looking for that. He's been there and done it and could do it again. He is looking for a serious relationship which you know nothing about. I suggest you keep you mouth shut!

oooh cut me I bleed. was I rude at all to him in any way? no. I was just merely saying that no matter what the situation, women do like like passive guys, and they don't fucc their friends either. those two pieces of advice directly apply to his situation do they not. gawd damm you run your fat mouth alot, even for a cop. I didn't say anything that isn' true and I was polite about it, unlike your bitch ass. learn some manners piggy.

neither do i
just get over it man
no use trying to figure them out now

Originally posted by nikegurl
Hey Flex - Gold's Venice is the coolest place on earth. OMG - it's amazing. I'm back at Powerhouse now b/c I moved a bit too far from it in July but in a few months I'm probably going to rejoin and make the commute. Powerhouse is great but after training at Gold's Venice - I can't seem to let it go.

NG???? Did you move to LA area?? Which Powerhouse?? I work out... hhmm well when I do work out I hit the one in Chatsworth.



Hey guys and gals thanks for your input.

The interesting thing to note is how age can effect the posted reply.

PB.

Well it seems like there are also men out there that just want to be friends.

I agree with GR81 in that she was probably just venting to you because she thought of you as a friend.
Sometimes i vent to my girlfriends about not getting any action, doesnt mean i want to get it on with them.

Just my .02

I just finished dealing with a "boy" that was unable to talk and let me know what was up. Its just called immaturity and they usually have an innate ability to push people away.