Reply With QuoteSounds like u already have an idea of what to do.
I wouldn't bring her friends into this. That would put them into a bad position.
How old are you / her?
She sounds like she may want to play the field? You should bring that up. (are we dating or dating exclusively?) Maybe you shouldn't be so available to her.
Things to think about.
Relationship advice PLEASE HELP!!!!!!@#!
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05-14-2004, 12:08 AM #1...And justice for all.
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Relationship advice PLEASE HELP!!!!!!@#!
Ok, ive been going out with this girl for about 3 months and i really like her, but i dont like what ive been seeing lately.
When we first started going out she was great. I couldnt believe it. I've like this girl for almost a year and i finally got to start a relationship with her.... and she was into me bigtime.
But lately shes been acting distant and all weird. So just the other night i was gonna call her up and basically tell her i couldnt go out with her anymore if she was going to be acting like she wasnt into me anymore. Then she calls me up, more cheery than ever and is like "hey where have you been i called you a million times" and then she invited me out to go camping with her. Ok. Well there i had an instant change of heart and decided not to say what i was going to say. I saw hope in the relationship again.
But i just got off the phone with her friend and she has been saying that at work she always sees this guy and she talks about how hot he is and blah blah. And that this has been going on for several weeks without me knowing. But thats not the bad part. The bad part is, whenever she says something about this guy, her friends are like "but who do you really like?" (hinting at me of course) and sometimes she'll say me, but lately shes been saying him a lot. When i heard this, i acted like i didnt care, then i got so FUCKING mad and just threw myself into rage. This is probably the worst combination because i am really suceptible to jealousy and she is a girl that is easily manipulated by other guys.
So basically: i cant figure out if she likes me or not, cuz if she was so into that other guy, why would she invite me to go camping next weekend. wouldnt she want to get away from me, not get closer??
I cant let this wait longer than 24 hours i HAVE to do something about it or im gonna end up getting fucked over emotionally (i know that sounds wussy, but its true). I'm thinking of basically meeting up with her and telling her that shes been acting really strange lately, then tell her that her friend told me about that other "guy thing" and basically end it right then and there. And if she really does like me she will say something or disagree or cry or give me some sort of sign. but if she doesnt like me she'll show no emotion and ill know what i did was right
OMG GUYS/GIRLS please give me some advice, insight. I could really use it
thx
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05-14-2004, 12:20 AM #2Super Hero in Training
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05-14-2004, 12:29 AM #3Voodoo Doll ELITE MEMBER
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What relationship? n if she cries n begs it only means you busted her ass acting like a slut n she doesnt want to admit she is 1. move on. there are a lot of ladies out there lookin for a guy that'd give a relationship the attention you've shown this issue. enjoy the hunt.
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05-14-2004, 12:31 AM #4...And justice for all.
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its not a serious relationshipe we are just boyfriend/girlfriend (yes dating exclusively) but like i said ive liked her for almost a year, but that wont stop me from dumping her if shes going to be acting like an idiot
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Or you could tell her look I know you're crushing on this guy but this weekend I'm going to make sure the only man on your mind at work monday is me... then do it
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05-14-2004, 12:40 AM #6...And justice for all.
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dump her? you dont think shes still into me at all?
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Well only she really knows n even if she's losing interest you could romance her n hope it fires back up. If you like her enough to work at it this weekend. What kind of camping alone? w parents?
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05-14-2004, 12:45 AM #8...And justice for all.
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its not this weekend, its next..... but see fuck i donno man. I think im just gonna stick to my gut instinct and kind of half dump her. if she still likes me she'll fight for me. if not, so be it
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Why not just tell her how you feel. You are into her and you like her a lot but you can't stand that she is wishy washy and half way dreaming about some other guy, let her figure things out.
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half dump her? the man is supposed to fight for the woman we love that shit. Romance her during the week not in a whiney do you still want me way but cocky self assured baby that bozo could never rock your world like I'm gonna do next weekend way. build up some excitement
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05-14-2004, 12:54 AM #11...And justice for all.
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yeah i know exactly what youre talking about dude but i think it may be too late for that. remember she isnt some hard-to-get chick who i met at the bar and im just lovin the chase, ive known her for a year and been in the serious relationship for 3 months....
im kinda almost trying to test her you know..... fuck i donno man?
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how old are you?
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05-14-2004, 12:56 AM #13...And justice for all.
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okay forget her n find a lonely , bored older woman thats up half the nite on the pc n give her something bettere to do.
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05-14-2004, 12:59 AM #15...And justice for all.
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i take it from that last comment that this thread has lost all seriousness heh
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better oops . I guess in a year you'd have known how she'll react to things. In the next few years she'll probably just be a memory no matter how this prob works out anyway. even love is a toss away convenience nowadays
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05-14-2004, 01:05 AM #17...And justice for all.
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yeah ill just dump her... one less stupid thing to worry aobut
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No I'm just saying you aren't seeming too hell bent on hanging on to her. If she's hot 4 this guy n you half dump her theres her excuse to go for him if you let her know you want her to be into you 100% she has to make a choice do you really know what you want are you secretly wanting your freedom?
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yeah but if shes into this guy bigtime, then im just delaying the inevitable (sp sorry im fucking tired), and if its not him, then its gonna be some other guy.... like i said she gets manipulated easily, and we only see each other on the weekends so theres plenty of opertunity for me to get screwed
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i am so not looking forward to my daughters broken heart times.... I wish I could help but seems you two aren't gonna find easy answers here
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and no i dont want my freedom like i said i still really like her
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ah damn..... well thanks for trying man... i still dont know what im gonna do.... do you think i should approach her about this unknown guy? her friend said she wouldnt mind me mentioning because i deserve to know
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I know from my brothers that guys hurt too over things n gettin screwed isn't always what it's about...
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I'd tell her how you really feel along with all the things you love about her and how you want things to be give her a chance to make an informed choice maybe she just needs to know
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i meant screwed as in cheated on/denied etc.
yeah i think i am just gonna be like "why the fuck you all hot over some other guy, make up your mind me or him right now" or is that too wussy
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No more like " how bad do you have it for this clown...so bad I can't take your mind off it? " I'm telling you confidence is very sexy fake it till it takes hold he ain't nothin your the man has what she needs... be sweet, playful, cocky, not angry or assholeish "ooo I hear you have a day job crush..."
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k but i need a way to make her know that im not fucking around and that if shes just wasting my time dragging this shit out i dont even wanna bother
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trust me man i know how the cocky-funny thing works with women, but if i act all happy horseshit on her ass it'll be way easier for her to be like "yeah we should end it"
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tell her not to string you point blank that you want love n if she doesnt to tell you now in a sincere non threatening way
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well serious but not psycho your avatars a little scary
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