An old friend in a VERY horrible situation...Help.

**Afriend** · 09-10-2004, 04:12 AM

Hi Everyone, I'm not a new member. I am an old one and i'm in quite the dilemma and need your opinion of what to do. i just needa get this off my chest and talk to someone. Unfortunately i'm embarrassed to say who i am because some may think differently after hearing this.

****Warning the word "fuck" comes up alot towards the end of this thread sorry prince(Robert)******

so here i go....

ya, i got a girl who likes me/said she practically loves me and that i like very very much. I have an underage GF(17) and i'm over age (19) and her parents are crazy(not in the sense of strict but in the sense of not all there in the head) so if i break up with her i go to jail for a long long time (but thats only one problem). Well, i've hooked up with this girl we'll call her Betty. Betty is my age (over age) while being with my gf (we'll call her Suzie). It happened a couple of weeks ago and was something i wished for since the day i saw her(love at first sight type thing). and if you didn't notice this is where i become a fuck up. (thats not the problem either well it's one of em as well) for a side note it gets worse. It seems that my best friend liked this girl alot. Me, my friend "bob" and "roger" all met this girl at the same time she was in our college class. "bob" took some classes at my JC to transfer to his university and we took them together while he was home from school for the summer. Well, Unknown to me Bob had sex with her about a month ago. But thats not all Bob doesn't know we (Me and betty) hooked up. You'd say it couldn't get worse then that? Wrong! Betty,tells Bob every time they see each other to leave her alone that she likes me. well cause Bob is my best friend he tells me that he trusts me never to hook up with her totally sucks having to lie to your best friend.

Re-cap:
can't dump gf. betraying best friend. next on the list: "her real personality was discovered"

ya so i fall deeply in like with this fake person that i thought she was to find out she was so plastic a fake (well judging from how she acts around her best friend) and what she does (attitude wise) thats the real her.(Assumption). But a key thing that helped with that Assumption is the way she now treats Bob. It's like if Judge Judy and that guy from American Idol had a baby and raised it to be mean to Bob all it's life and well the other thing thats she is a beauty queen of a couple county's and ya i'm using the stereotype on this one. And usually thats a true one. But once again my heart is filling me with doubts.

Another Problem: She is all my school classes. so giving her a ride to school the other day Roger was; she makes us late and Roger and her get in a big escalating fight which ends up with roger throwing on the e-brake at 60mph and telling her to get the fuck outa the car and on the corner where she belongs. Well that not going over too well(with her i didn't really care i was pissed too i was late to an honors class on the first day com'on!) i convince him to keep her in the car and we head to class. Then she stands in the parking lot throws a tantrum and says she's not going to class well i'm in an honors class screw her tantrum i went to class along with roger. (ya i know that sounds mean but schools my life and top priority right now so it's what i had to do) She calls her brother in law and leaves.

Us (the three amigos) being cool guys a month or 2 before we got this girl a job at our gym. Where i spend every minute of everyday, so she goes in there and tells the story of what happened to my close personal friend. which he, in turn, tells me. but what does he tell me?
One of the things she said was "if that mother fucker fucks me over i'm gonna fuck him over with his gf" well we all knows what happens if "me" gets fucked over with his gf "me" go to jail.

since, i can't really fuck her over at this point without being fucked. I devised a plan thats in play right now. well starting today, i told her i broke up with my gf and came clean with her about the cheating (well right now i'm in the process of it)(roger and that close personal friend are playing along(they hate her)). so she can't fuck me on that front cause she thinks that everything has already been said and can't call my gf and try to fuck me over.(she doesn't know her but she's been looking through my phone book for her name but me being a little ahead of the game deleted Suzies number because i have it memorized)ok, next thing i'm still leading her on saying i'm gonna still be with her for about a week till Bob leaves to go back to university. In that time i'm getting hold of her phone and deleting Bob's # so she can't get a hold of him and fuck me over there i know this sounds juvenile but it's the only way i can do it with hurting as little people as i can.

(but before we go on i like to state that i did cheat on my gf. yes, but i'm going to break up with her on my own terms very soon without stirring up alot of dust and keeping me away from bars(yes i know you think i'm a evil person, i'm am sorry for that. this has happened and people make mistakes mine just seem to pile on top of each other.))

But, finding out one day Bob and her had sex. I brought it up jokingly; she swore to me that she didn't have sex with Bob. which was a flat out lie cause, i've questioned Bob and Bob doesn't lie period and especially to me. I can trust him i know that sounds hard to believe but thats a person you trust and he's never let me down or lied to me before.(and he gave me accurate details about what she does.... and thats as far as we'll go there). So now i'm bringing up how she lied to me and that i can't trust her and that will be the reason i can't date her.(but this will not happen until Bob leaves(1 week university))

so both fronts are covered but just for some self gratification and seeing how she knew everything that was going on and tried to turn friends against friends. I have something else in store, remember that close personal friend i told you about that told me everything? well he's my instructor and the gym manager and were firing her so the problem will disappear. and she can't do this to anyone else. (well he was going to fire her anyway cause she sucked at working but he really wants to even more now)

well the plans pretty dam good, but my heart is still with her and may be the monkey wrench and i still have feeling for her even through all this

would this just be time to swallow my feelings and go on as planned?

**Jo-Anna** · 09-10-2004, 08:07 AM

Ok I read it.

Summary: you cheated, you lied, you got caught!

Advice: Get out of all of it honestly. Admit being a jerk and learn from it. Move on and don't be a jerk in the future. If you confess they will have nothing left to hold over your head. And your friends will forgive you if you mean it (Never to be done again!!).

**Dale Mabry** · 09-10-2004, 08:40 AM

What she said. And from now on, nip this shit in the bud before it snowballs like it did.

**nikegurl** · 09-10-2004, 11:30 AM

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

What she said. And from now on, nip this shit in the bud before it snowballs like it did.

**I Are Baboon** · 09-10-2004, 11:37 AM

Sorry, but I got confused and lost interest halfway through paragraph one.

But I will offer this advice anyway: Tell her you like her shoes.

**BoneCrusher** · 09-10-2004, 01:01 PM

Bro ... you're 19. ALL romance is catastrophic at 19. Any plan you make to extricate yourself from this misadventure is all good. You learn your relationship skills from 16 to early 20ish ... hopefully. Some never do but that is a diff' thread.

College is a blast. Wild crazy stuff will come at you outta the blue. I had a fine female nail me in the library study room so I would help her get an A in poly-sci ... she attacked me! Of course I always help a lady in need soo ...

Your 19 and need to take it easy on the heavy stuff. Have fun with life and do not tag the girl on the milk carton anymore.

My advice? You’re a 19 year old dude. Enjoy the 19 year old sex. That is the only year you get to be 19. LIVE it mayn. The rest will work itself out.

**maniclion** · 09-10-2004, 01:48 PM

I never had girlfriends at your age, they were all booty-calls, get 3 or 4 at a time and your set, you shouldn't commit until you've done some "experimenting".

**chiquita6683** · 09-10-2004, 02:37 PM

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

Sorry, but I got confused and lost interest halfway through paragraph one.

But I will offer this advice anyway: Tell her you like her shoes.

yeah, you were like..... ok this girls underage and im 19, the rest i didnt even read.

but i am so sure that this seems like a huge deal to you and its really traumatic and bothersome, like everything is at that age. i also read what dale mabry wrote "nip this thing in the bud" or something like that. sorry, my attention wasnt good enough to read your story but it was to read the thread

**Mudge** · 09-10-2004, 03:40 PM

Originally Posted by Afriend

well cause Bob is my best friend he tells me that he trusts me never to hook up with her totally sucks having to lie to your best friend.

"I trust you to never hook up with a girl that has no interest in me."

Right.

betraying best friend.

You betrayed your girlfriend and your "honor," not your friend who has NOTHING with some other girl.

well the plans pretty dam good, but my heart is still with her and may be the monkey wrench and i still have feeling for her even through all this

Sorry but, your heart or your dick? I see nothing in here about love at all, nor do I see a reason for it to exist.

**Crono1000** · 09-10-2004, 03:46 PM

ok, i tried to read it but it makes no damn sense. So u cheated and u got caught.. and you're 19... so... how is this different than any other 19 year old problem. Go cheat, it's what u do it's in your jeans... I mean "genes"

**Afriend** · 09-10-2004, 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by Jo-Anna

Ok I read it.

Summary: you cheated, you lied, you got caught!

lied, cheated, didn't get caught.

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

What she said. And from now on, nip this shit in the bud before it snowballs like it did.

you sir are correct.

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

But I will offer this advice anyway: Tell her you like her shoes.

Hmmm never looked at her feet before.

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Bro ... you're 19. ALL romance is catastrophic at 19. Any plan you make to extricate yourself from this misadventure is all good. You learn your relationship skills from 16 to early 20ish ... hopefully. Some never do but that is a diff' thread.

College is a blast. Wild crazy stuff will come at you outta the blue. I had a fine female nail me in the library study room so I would help her get an A in poly-sci ... she attacked me! Of course I always help a lady in need soo ...

Your 19 and need to take it easy on the heavy stuff. Have fun with life and do not tag the girl on the milk carton anymore.

My advice? You’re a 19 year old dude. Enjoy the 19 year old sex. That is the only year you get to be 19. LIVE it mayn. The rest will work itself out.

you win the award for best answer and i think your advice will be fallowed

.

Originally Posted by maniclion

I never had girlfriends at your age, they were all booty-calls, get 3 or 4 at a time and your set, you shouldn't commit until you've done some "experimenting".

that comes in second.

Originally Posted by chiquita6683

yeah, you were like..... ok this girls underage and im 19, the rest i didnt even read.

but i am so sure that this seems like a huge deal to you and its really traumatic and bothersome, like everything is at that age. i also read what dale mabry wrote "nip this thing in the bud" or something like that. sorry, my attention wasnt good enough to read your story but it was to read the thread

cool.

Originally Posted by Mudge

"I trust you to never hook up with a girl that has no interest in me."

Right.

You betrayed your girlfriend and your "honor," not your friend who has NOTHING with some other girl.

Sorry but, your heart or your dick? I see nothing in here about love at all, nor do I see a reason for it to exist.

1st line: you are right.
2nd line: i don't really care. i wanna break up with her anyway.
3rd line: i don't either.....and it's my dick.

Overall: thank you for the post, you are right. (that is not sarcasim(neither is that))

Originally Posted by Crono1000

ok, i tried to read it but it makes no damn sense. So u cheated and u got caught.. and you're 19... so... how is this different than any other 19 year old problem. Go cheat, it's what u do it's in your jeans... I mean "genes"

Crono you get an F. " i am now dumber for having listened to that; i award you no points, and may god have mercy on your sole" -billy madison.

**kuso** · 09-10-2004, 09:01 PM

I just wanna know who you really are.

**Afriend** · 09-10-2004, 09:35 PM

Originally Posted by kuso

I just wanna know who you really are.

oh, you know... but i kinda don't want you to think different of me.

**cappo5150** · 09-10-2004, 09:42 PM

You wont go to jail for banging a 17yo. If youre over 21 you will.

**Crono1000** · 09-10-2004, 11:34 PM

yeah I wanna know who it is too. Whoever he confides in and pm's his confidential identity to with trust and secrecy, be sure to post it in big red letters so we know who it is.

**kuso** · 09-10-2004, 11:47 PM

Originally Posted by Afriend

oh, you know... but i kinda don't want you to think different of me.

IP check time?

**Crono1000** · 09-10-2004, 11:53 PM

kuso:
my email address is max3r@ufl.edu

j/k

**Burner02** · 09-11-2004, 01:17 AM

dam..I dunno which is worse...just finding out that I have been staring at that squishing her boobs in cronos sig for the past 5 minutes...or after 4.6 minutes..realize she is using bad form?

**Burner02** · 09-11-2004, 01:19 AM

Originally Posted by Crono1000

yeah I wanna know who it is too. Whoever he confides in and pm's his confidential identity to with trust and secrecy, be sure to post it in big red letters so we know who it is.

hey crono...you're about 19...aren't you???
trying to be deceptive?

tit's gonna kick yer ass! having a spicy latina woman with vengance on her mind..dam! R U N!!!

**Crono1000** · 09-11-2004, 01:59 AM

haha fuck u

i knew as soon as I posted in a thread about a 19 yr old I'd be the first accused

I assure u it's not me

besides, tit's older than I am!

**Burner02** · 09-11-2004, 02:01 AM

just making sure..

dam..caught myself looking at that girl in your sig again...she looks cold..

**Afriend** · 09-11-2004, 03:30 AM

Originally Posted by kuso

I just wanna know who you really are.

ya, lol i don't care if anyone thinks different now...

BOB SAPP STILL RULES!!!!

ok kuso should know...

**Afriend** · 09-11-2004, 03:31 AM

and i know someone saw that last post shhhh!!!! we'll turn this into a guessing game

**Burner02** · 09-11-2004, 03:42 AM

joe mama?

**Big Smoothy** · 09-11-2004, 03:57 AM

Original thread starter: please write in a legible manner.

Reading your tripe was too taxing for my brain. I know statistically, as an American, you are likely "functionally illiterate," but work on the writing skills.

**kuso** · 09-11-2004, 05:30 AM

Originally Posted by Afriend

ya, lol i don't care if anyone thinks different now...

BOB SAPP STILL RULES!!!!

ok kuso should know...

Sapp was just about retired by Sefo. I got to talk to both breifly after the fight too.

Oh.....I don`t know how to check IP addys with this new software

**Mudge** · 09-11-2004, 11:12 AM

Originally Posted by Afriend

1st line: you are right.
2nd line: i don't really care. i wanna break up with her anyway.
3rd line: i don't either.....and it's my dick.

Overall: thank you for the post, you are right. (that is not sarcasim(neither is that))

Be true to who YOU are at this point in life, at least thats IMO. Fakers suck.

**Crono1000** · 09-11-2004, 12:31 PM

i think it's cat

what do i win?

**Afriend** · 09-11-2004, 02:36 PM

Originally Posted by Mr_Snafu

Original thread starter: please write in a legible manner.

Reading your tripe was too taxing for my brain. I know statistically, as an American, you are likely "functionally illiterate," but work on the writing skills.

Ok.

**Afriend** · 09-11-2004, 02:36 PM

Originally Posted by Crono1000

i think it's cat

what do i win?

nothing!! cause you are wrong!

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