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  1. 09-25-2004, 10:58 PM #1
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    Question came to a realization today - but i've got really bad timing....what should I do?

    Hey,

    So I was out with my boyfriend tonight and I realized that I'm not into this relationship anymore and we're just not clicking like we used. We aren't fighting or anything like that but I'm just not really interested in seeing him anymore (and my eyes seem to keep wandering around to other guys which is not a good sign...). Anyway, I know it's time for us to go our separate ways (or just be friends or whatever) but the problem is that it's our 1 year anniversary on Monday. What do you think I should do? Should I talk to him about it on monday or would that be totally bitchy of me? (that's the next time I'll see him face to face). Or is it worse to pretend everythings alright and wait it out until later? (and how much later should I wait?) I really truly do care about him and don't want to hurt him (well I know it's going to be hard but at least minimize the damage), it's just not working anymore between us and I see no point in carrying this out any longer, because the longer we wait, the harder it will be.
    Any advice you guys have would be great!
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  3. 09-25-2004, 11:24 PM #2
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    You need us to tell you to do what your heart has already told you to do so you feel less mean when doing what you are going to do. Just do it and move on. But do it before you move on ... not afterwords. Follow me?
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  4. 09-25-2004, 11:38 PM #3
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    hey BB, comin from a guy that has been on the opposite end of he situation like your bf is now, I can't tell you that you need to just be honest with him asap. tell him what you are feeling, don't lead on as if its something else. In the long run he is gonna respect you much more even thou it doesn't seem like it now. Much better than leading him on or lying to him or whatever crackpot ideas you women have. It took me a longtime to get over my gf doin that crap to me, all b/c she didn't wanna hurt me, yet somehow she just ended up cheating on me and yada yada yada.. be honest with him, if you have been together for a year then he deserves that, ya feel me? peace
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    I thought I just said that?
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    1 yr anniversary is a good time to make a clean break. One year is a fairly long relationship. Move on guilt-free.
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    I thought I just said that?
    wasn't stepping on your toes, just offering my two cents since I was in the exact same situation, except I was too young and niave too realize what the deal was.. its all good
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    dump him
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    Quote Originally Posted by BoneCrusher
    You need us to tell you to do what your heart has already told you to do so you feel less mean when doing what you are going to do. Just do it and move on. But do it before you move on ... not afterwords. Follow me?
    Beautifully well written.
    "If you're not part of the solution, you're the precipitate."
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  10. 09-26-2004, 09:57 AM #9
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    Luke ... *sniff ... thanks man. And great i was being sarcastic wit you dude. you got no need to be all mushy with me like that ... what will people think?
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  11. 09-26-2004, 04:22 PM #10
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    Hey,

    Thanks for your guys advice. I know in my heart what I should do I guess so I really didn't need to ask, but just sorta wanted to get if from a guys perspective...
    but yah, after one year I guess it's a typical thing to evaluate the relationship for most people and see if it's going anywhere. I just know it's definetely time to move on.
    Thanks again!
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    See? Was I right or was i right?
    I know in my heart what I should do I guess ...
    I should get paid for this stuff. Dear Abby made bank for the info we give out here each and every day for free.
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  13. 09-26-2004, 07:09 PM #12
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    Hey,

    No doubt hey, these days you gotta charge for everything you can!! haha, have you seen what lawyers charge for?!?

    Anyway, the damange has been done. He actually took it very well and we're going to try and remain friends. He could tell something didnt' quite feel right either and we both feel it's for the best.

    Just feels so much better to get it off my chest.

    Thanks!
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