I'm leaving my wife

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 04:55 PM

Hey all, you know who this is. Working evening tonight. Let me get to it and get this off of my chest. I cheated on my wife several times in the past 6 years. Horrible I know. I won't even try to explain. Well, I'm telling her tonight. I can't take living a lie any longer and I feel like over the past 6 years I've been dying inside. Well, I'm finally dead. And it's not right for her not to know what she's been married to. I have nothing anymore, so I'll tell her and then I guess I'm gone. Hate to let those of you who knew and respected me down, but I can't live a lie here either. This has been my only family. God, I can't believe my life has come to this. I'll be on for a bit before I have to move on to the next building, guess I'll be telling her around 10:30.

bulletproof1 · 10-25-2004, 04:58 PM

damn dude good luck. we will be thinking about you.

SPIKE1257 · 10-25-2004, 04:58 PM

Been there, done that.. Do you have any children ?

**P-funk** · 10-25-2004, 04:59 PM

Good luck Rock. Hang in there bro, this is some heavy shit. If she accepts this and gives you a second chance will you take it? Or do you want to break away from this relationship as well?

Vieope · 10-25-2004, 05:04 PM

That is so sad Rock
Take the second chance since you love her.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by bulletproof1

damn dude good luck. we will be thinking about you.

Thanks man, I need it. I feel so fucked up right now. But I'm concerned how she'll take it. Not being mad at me, but in herself if that makes sense.

ponyboy · 10-25-2004, 05:09 PM

OMG...that is rough...our thoughts will be with you. Good luck bro.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:10 PM

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Originally Posted by SPIKE1257

Been there, done that.. Do you have any children ?

No, no children. Alot of memories and a cat.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by P-funk

Good luck Rock. Hang in there bro, this is some heavy shit. If she accepts this and gives you a second chance will you take it? Or do you want to break away from this relationship as well?

Thanks buddy. I don't know if I'll take a second chance or not. I don't think that'd be fair to her in the long run and as much as I love her, we've grown so far apart. I really don't know.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Vieope

That is so sad Rock
Take the second chance since you love her.

I don't know V. Because I love her I don't think I want a second chance. She can do much better than me you know?

Sapphire · 10-25-2004, 05:12 PM

Good luck Hun.... I hope she can forgive you.

and youtwo move on together...

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by ponyboy

OMG...that is rough...our thoughts will be with you. Good luck bro.

Thanks PB. Been a long time since I've heard from you, sorry it had to be in this thread.

**P-funk** · 10-25-2004, 05:12 PM

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Originally Posted by rock4832

Thanks buddy. I don't know if I'll take a second chance or not. I don't think that'd be fair to her in the long run and as much as I love her, we've grown so far apart. I really don't know.

I hear ya man. It is a sticky situation. Keep your head up.

SPIKE1257 · 10-25-2004, 05:18 PM

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Originally Posted by rock4832

No, no children. Alot of memories and a cat.

That's cool. It's a whole different ballgame with children.. Still this is a difficult situation you're in. I know my ex had a rough time with this. Good luck.

Jenny · 10-25-2004, 05:18 PM

I'm very very sorry to hear this

After meeting you both and seeing you together it is very sad to hear. Well, Lisa is a wonderful lady and I do hope she'll be able to cope with this. Good luck Dave.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Sapphire

Good luck Hun.... I hope she can forgive you.

and youtwo move on together...

Thanks Saph. I don't think that's the direction this is going in but thanks for your well wishes

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Jenny

I'm very very sorry to hear this

After meeting you both and seeing you together it is very sad to hear. Well, Lisa is a wonderful lady and I do hope she'll be able to cope with this. Good luck Dave.

Thanks Jenny. She is a wonderful lady. I think it'll be hard on her but it'll be better for her in the end. She's tough too. I still can't believe this though.

Vieope · 10-25-2004, 05:21 PM

Don´t do it today. You are very sad, you are not thinking straight. It may get a lot worse. It is a modern world with modern rules for marriage. You two may overcome this.

Jenny · 10-25-2004, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by rock4832

Thanks Jenny. She is a wonderful lady. I think it'll be hard on her but it'll be better for her in the end. She's tough too. I still can't believe this though.

Neither can Justin and I. I would never have thought this was under the surface.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:23 PM

Let's see. I don't know what'll happen tonight or this week or whatever. I'm sure she'll stay in the apartment and keep the car. So I have nowhere to stay, no transportation and no way to get to work. I'm a bit worried about that too to be honest.

**Prince** · 10-25-2004, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by rock4832

we've grown so far apart.

this is like a pet peeve with me... how do two people grow apart?

makes no sense.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vieope

Don´t do it today. You are very sad, you are not thinking straight. It may get a lot worse. It is a modern world with modern rules for marriage. You two may overcome this.

No, I feel tonight is the night. I need to free myself and I need to be a man and finally be honest. Lisa and I are not very modern.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Jenny

Neither can Justin and I. I would never have thought this was under the surface.

Our relationship problems come and go obviously, but yeah, I've had this under the surface for quite awhile. You can forget about it or pretend it didn't happen sometimes, but it always comes back.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio

this is like a pet peeve with me... how do two people grow apart?

makes no sense.

When they start out having the same interests, moral values and plans for their lives together. And then one person starts changing and believing different things and having different interests.

PreMier · 10-25-2004, 05:27 PM

Wow.
I wish you the best of luck David. Still will be around IM, no?

SPIKE1257 · 10-25-2004, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by rock4832

Let's see. I don't know what'll happen tonight or this week or whatever. I'm sure she'll stay in the apartment and keep the car. So I have nowhere to stay, no transportation and no way to get to work. I'm a bit worried about that too to be honest.

I don't want to seem selfish, but you need to get those things straight before you walk.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by PreMier

Wow.
I wish you the best of luck David. Still will be around IM, no?

Hey Jake. If I can get to work then yeah probably if people still want me here, LOL.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by SPIKE1257

I don't want to seem selfish, but you need to get those things straight before you walk.

That's been in the back of my mind, but I don't really have friends I can stay with and we won't be in a financial situation where i can afford those things anytime soon. So it wouldn't be fair to keep lying just to have those things. Does that make sense. I'm willing to do whatever I need to to get by.

**dg806** · 10-25-2004, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio

this is like a pet peeve with me... how do two people grow apart?

makes no sense.

Ask my wife that question??? Why would she leave after 15 years with 2 kids? Rock, good luck brother.

Rocco32 · 10-25-2004, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by dg806

Ask my wife that question??? Why would she leave after 15 years with 2 kids? Rock, good luck brother.

Thanks DG! I really appreciate it.

10-25-2004, 04:55 PM	#1
Rocco32 UNLEASH THE BEAST Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 22,329 Photos: 18	I'm leaving my wife Hey all, you know who this is. Working evening tonight. Let me get to it and get this off of my chest. I cheated on my wife several times in the past 6 years. Horrible I know. I won't even try to explain. Well, I'm telling her tonight. I can't take living a lie any longer and I feel like over the past 6 years I've been dying inside. Well, I'm finally dead. And it's not right for her not to know what she's been married to. I have nothing anymore, so I'll tell her and then I guess I'm gone. Hate to let those of you who knew and respected me down, but I can't live a lie here either. This has been my only family. God, I can't believe my life has come to this. I'll be on for a bit before I have to move on to the next building, guess I'll be telling her around 10:30. I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...

10-25-2004, 04:59 PM	#4
P-funk Patrick Super Moderator Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: AZ Posts: 31,701	Good luck Rock. Hang in there bro, this is some heavy shit. If she accepts this and gives you a second chance will you take it? Or do you want to break away from this relationship as well? E-Book: Take Charge! Everything You Need To Know To Write Your Own Training Programs Online Consulting/Program Design Reality Based Fitness Podcast Check me out on Twitter! Subscribe to our free monthly newsletter! "In the beginners mind there are many possibilities, in the experts there are few." -Buddha's Little Instruction Book

10-25-2004, 05:09 PM	#7
ponyboy Training Trainer Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Running around somewhere Posts: 2,608 Photos: 1	OMG...that is rough...our thoughts will be with you. Good luck bro. Today I can do what others will not so that tomorrow I will do what others cannot. The difference between winners and losers is that winners do things that losers don't want to do.

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Sapphire P/RR/S groupie Join Date: May 2003 Location: anywhere my love Chris is... Posts: 4,449 Photos: 4	Good luck Hun.... I hope she can forgive you. and youtwo move on together... Sapphire "Thank goodness that perfection is something I will never reach, which will keep me striving till the day I die" ...... GOPRO http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/at...chmentid=17570 http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/at...chmentid=17638 http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/at...chmentid=17567 http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/at...chmentid=17622

10-25-2004, 05:23 PM	#20
Rocco32 UNLEASH THE BEAST Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 22,329 Photos: 18	Let's see. I don't know what'll happen tonight or this week or whatever. I'm sure she'll stay in the apartment and keep the car. So I have nowhere to stay, no transportation and no way to get to work. I'm a bit worried about that too to be honest. I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...

10-25-2004, 04:58 PM	#2
bulletproof1 Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: * Posts: 2,428	damn dude good luck. we will be thinking about you.

10-25-2004, 04:58 PM	#3
SPIKE1257 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: New York Posts: 1,532	Been there, done that.. Do you have any children ?

10-25-2004, 05:04 PM	#5
Vieope Monochromatic Bunny Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: drinking coffee.. Posts: 14,967 Photos: 10	That is so sad Rock Take the second chance since you love her.

10-25-2004, 05:18 PM	#15
Jenny Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,728	I'm very very sorry to hear this After meeting you both and seeing you together it is very sad to hear. Well, Lisa is a wonderful lady and I do hope she'll be able to cope with this. Good luck Dave.

10-25-2004, 05:21 PM	#18
Vieope Monochromatic Bunny Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: drinking coffee.. Posts: 14,967 Photos: 10	Don´t do it today. You are very sad, you are not thinking straight. It may get a lot worse. It is a modern world with modern rules for marriage. You two may overcome this.

10-25-2004, 05:27 PM	#25
PreMier happy sumo Elite Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 21,962 Photos: 2	Wow. I wish you the best of luck David. Still will be around IM, no? P-side Inc. "the post-workout high is more profound than any drug-induced rush imaginable." -Dante B.

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