Thats sad...But Hawaii is great,what part of hawaii is she going to?
The cheapest airline I know that goes to hawaii,is ATA,Iknow Southwest don't go there.
I have a friend with three kids leaving an abusive situation. Her plan is to move from Austin to Hawaii in mid January. Anyone who has a way to get her a reduced fare for herslef and her three kids please share it. She really needs to get her kids as far away as she can from their situation. Thanks!!!
Thats sad...But Hawaii is great,what part of hawaii is she going to?
The cheapest airline I know that goes to hawaii,is ATA,Iknow Southwest don't go there.
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Good luck winter is expensive, all of those who live in the tundra come here around that time to thaw out. I hope she expects to take a hit in the wallet when it comes to a job too most jobs are paid less than their mainland equivalents.
Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
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Why Hawaii?!?
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...


Why not Hawaii?Originally Posted by rock4832
Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012
Because it's expensive. She could just hop on a bus for $40 and go to the other side of the continent.
And because I wanna go to hawaii dammit!
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...


no doubt...if she can't afford a plane ticket she has no business moving to HawaiiOriginally Posted by rock4832
I train differently than most, my beef is with gravity the weights on the bar are just the medium...Thanks to Wall Street your slice of the American Pie has been reduced to a crumb.
Not very practical. Maybe she should go to a shelter. I've heard there are some very nice ones for abused families.
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...


A shelter may help her relocate. Does she have family or friends in Hawaii? Maybe she is so afraid of this guy she needs to be that far away to feel safe.
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if a shelter can't help her they may be able to help her find someone who can.
Don't look back ~ You're not going that way!
Bingo.Originally Posted by LAM
Not to sound insensitive but it sounds more like someone wants a cheap vacation. People getting outta abusive situations usually don't pick an exotic island as their getaway and plan for it 2 months down the line.
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...
Actually she is a trained chef with a good background. Her job searches have been great. It looks like her pay scale will be around $20 an hour full time doing cattering gigs. This is happening so quick for her she just had no time to plan it out financially. She is selling all her stuff to raise the cash. She has lived In Hawaii before and knows what she is getting into. As far as distance goes, why not? It is expensive to move anywhere far off. She might as well go to a place she knows and is comfortable with. Austin Texas has the highest cost of living in the state combined with a low payscale for her field. She is worse off here than she would be in Kona. The single most important factor to me in going all out to help her get this done is the way going there has lit up her soul. She can smile again with the thoughts of that light at the end of this tunnel.
So if you know of a way to get some kind of voucher pass it on for a worthwhile cause.
Thanks ... Larry.
No rock this is real. No scam. She has already talked about going to a shelter. I told her she could come stay with me and she most likely will. Add in that 1 of her kids has serious issues that makes him hard to handle. I have a good background in behavior management with disabled children and have helped out some but the whole shelter deal would be very hard regarding her kids. She just needs to get all the way out of this part of the country to avoid future problems and she feels Hawaii is her best answer.Originally Posted by rock4832
Last edited by BoneCrusher; 12-05-2004 at 12:33 AM.
The extended version of the situation makes more senseGood luck with that, maybe someone works for the airlines and can get buddy passes.
I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain...
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