I said it

Vieope · 12-13-2004, 05:55 PM

Let me say it again, we are made for each other. We are the same age, same goals in life and I know her since I was 10 years old.
I don´t think I am doing anything wrong, I am just pursuing love.

**Dale Mabry** · 12-13-2004, 05:55 PM

Would you forgive him?

Vieope · 12-13-2004, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irontime

Oh, of course he will

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Well, if my fiancee dumped me for a blatantly gay Brazilian I would have to take issue with it.

**Dale Mabry** · 12-13-2004, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vieope

Let me say it again, we are made for each other. We are the same age, same goals in life and I know her since I was 10 years old.
I don´t think I am doing anything wrong, I am just pursuing love.

Shody excuse.

Vieope · 12-13-2004, 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Would you forgive him?

Yes, if the story was exactly like mine. He is older than her, he has money and that is what makes him a perfect husband. They don´t know each other for more than a year I guess. While I am not rich yet, I can´t provide her the same luxury but in long term it will be better for everybody I am sure.
I guess

irontime · 12-13-2004, 05:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vieope

Let me say it again, we are made for each other.

If you two were made for each other than why is she engaged to somebody else? This kinda suggests that she does not share your same view point

**Dale Mabry** · 12-13-2004, 06:00 PM

U got some stiff competition then.

How much older is he? If you say 2 years I am going to slap you.

Vieope · 12-13-2004, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

U got some stiff competition then.

How much older is he? If you say 2 years I am going to slap you.

10 years or more. Please slap me anyway.

Vieope · 12-13-2004, 06:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by irontime

If you two were made for each other than why is she engaged to somebody else? This kinda suggests that she does not share your same view point

Because I was enjoying another life for the last couple of years and back then I refused any type of serious relationship with her. I never thought she would think about marriage so soon. We are 23 btw.

myCATpowerlifts · 12-13-2004, 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crono1000

did you pee on her yet?

your so fucking weird i love it
i know its in your sig, but thats funny

Vieope · 12-13-2004, 07:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by myCATpowerlifts

your so fucking weird i love it
i know its in your sig, but thats funny

Don´t forget that I nominated him peelosopher. So I get free pee insights any time I want.

QuestionGuy · 12-13-2004, 09:56 PM

dont get me wrong man but i think you are making a mistake, she is always going to wonder what "if" i married the other dude, and plus he is not gona let her go that easy, if she would let her fiance go that easy, what will it take for her to let go of you lets say 10 years from now man, you are in love i understand but you gota think about this, there is a man who loves her and who can provide for her and who never yet broke up with her, you on the other hand probobly have, since you had "on-off relationships with her" it just doesnt go in my head that she is engaged to him but doesnt love him anymore...im sorry but it doesnt sound right what you two are doing here, you probobly have a crush on her but yet he is ready to marry her which is a whole different story, now dont get pissed or get me wrong... but i dont know im such a nut about "love" that it makes me sad of whats happening here, good luck with her man.......................lol, you gota hook me up with one of those crazy brazilian chick's man i heared great stuff about them, I had a girfriend from brazil in highschool i just wish i knew back then what i know now (sex experience).... good night man, and again good luck.........................

BoneCrusher · 12-13-2004, 11:01 PM

Forget question guy. If he knew what he was talking about he'd have better syntax and call him self answer guy. Don't kill me QG ..

Vieope you love this woman. You want to marry this woman and be her bitch forever. You want to give her your "testículos" as a wedding gift. If this is what you want than do it and good luck to you my friend.

You feel that your love for each other is morally correct?You make excuses for your actions to explain it away. Just know that if I was her mistake (English speakers unite!)I'd hunt you down and show you that nobody takes the woman I am wanting to spend my life with from me without receiving much pain. If this woman was my mistake (English speakers unite!)and you tried to stop my fuckup (English speakers unite!)I'd stop you.

**Mudge** · 12-13-2004, 11:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vieope

Nah, he is a nice guy though and I am sure he will understand.

"I decided all of the sudden I want her back, you cool wit dad Homie G?"

You give him a lot of credit, and it sounds like you dick her around a bit man. If you were on and off so much why are you so confident you two belong together? Just something fo you to think about.

Its up to her what she wants to do bro.

thatguy · 12-14-2004, 12:13 AM

Here's my 2 cents:

She knows how you feel now. If you pursue it too much further, there is a chance of destroying both friendships, which I am sure you don't want to do. If I were him, I'd be pretty pissed, and she could get afraid to hang out with you for fear of making things more complicated.

It's time now for her to make her own decision, IMO.

Luke9583 · 12-14-2004, 05:12 AM

Good point thatguy

Vieope · 12-14-2004, 08:26 AM

Morally correct? I don´t even use these words together.
Boned, my balls are intact. She knows I love her but not in the desperate way I describe here. I am pretty cool in person, online is that I am a mess like that.
Yes Mudge I have a big fault in that as well, since I refused her in the past but all those defects lose importance in the context of her being unavailable. It is way better that she decides to be with me now than after being married and end it or the most likely scenario of her sticking to a bad marriage just because of the family she just created.

Would any of you let the a person that you really care about to get married because it is the right thing to do? I can´t sit down and watch this.

Sorry to say this but you all should consider more passion and desire as a determinant factor to make your decisions. All great stories were motivated by it. You are free, do what you feel inside. Fly.

Btw I created these threads to get opinions and they are all welcome even though I might not agree, I still like to ponder about them.

busyLivin · 12-14-2004, 08:29 AM

this reminds me of the movie 'My Best Friends Wedding'

very similar...

12-13-2004, 05:55 PM	#31
Vieope Monochromatic Bunny Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: drinking coffee.. Posts: 14,830 Photos: 10	Let me say it again, we are made for each other. We are the same age, same goals in life and I know her since I was 10 years old. I don´t think I am doing anything wrong, I am just pursuing love.
	FURtherness

12-13-2004, 05:55 PM	#32
Dale Mabry Moderator Moderator Join Date: May 2003 Location: Elsewhere Posts: 13,845 Photos: 10	Would you forgive him?
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12-13-2004, 06:00 PM	#37
Dale Mabry Moderator Moderator Join Date: May 2003 Location: Elsewhere Posts: 13,845 Photos: 10	U got some stiff competition then. How much older is he? If you say 2 years I am going to slap you.
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12-14-2004, 05:12 AM	#46
Luke9583 Lucky Luke Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: idaho Posts: 5,379 Photos: 9	Good point thatguy
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12-14-2004, 08:26 AM	#47
Vieope Monochromatic Bunny Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: drinking coffee.. Posts: 14,830 Photos: 10	Morally correct? I don´t even use these words together. Boned, my balls are intact. She knows I love her but not in the desperate way I describe here. I am pretty cool in person, online is that I am a mess like that. Yes Mudge I have a big fault in that as well, since I refused her in the past but all those defects lose importance in the context of her being unavailable. It is way better that she decides to be with me now than after being married and end it or the most likely scenario of her sticking to a bad marriage just because of the family she just created. Would any of you let the a person that you really care about to get married because it is the right thing to do? I can´t sit down and watch this. Sorry to say this but you all should consider more passion and desire as a determinant factor to make your decisions. All great stories were motivated by it. You are free, do what you feel inside. Fly. Btw I created these threads to get opinions and they are all welcome even though I might not agree, I still like to ponder about them.
	FURtherness

12-13-2004, 09:56 PM	#42
QuestionGuy Registered User Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: Salt Lake City Posts: 2,183	dont get me wrong man but i think you are making a mistake, she is always going to wonder what "if" i married the other dude, and plus he is not gona let her go that easy, if she would let her fiance go that easy, what will it take for her to let go of you lets say 10 years from now man, you are in love i understand but you gota think about this, there is a man who loves her and who can provide for her and who never yet broke up with her, you on the other hand probobly have, since you had "on-off relationships with her" it just doesnt go in my head that she is engaged to him but doesnt love him anymore...im sorry but it doesnt sound right what you two are doing here, you probobly have a crush on her but yet he is ready to marry her which is a whole different story, now dont get pissed or get me wrong... but i dont know im such a nut about "love" that it makes me sad of whats happening here, good luck with her man.......................lol, you gota hook me up with one of those crazy brazilian chick's man i heared great stuff about them, I had a girfriend from brazil in highschool i just wish i knew back then what i know now (sex experience).... good night man, and again good luck.........................

12-13-2004, 11:01 PM	#43
BoneCrusher Lift or Die Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,545	Forget question guy. If he knew what he was talking about he'd have better syntax and call him self answer guy. Don't kill me QG .. Vieope you love this woman. You want to marry this woman and be her bitch forever. You want to give her your "testículos" as a wedding gift. If this is what you want than do it and good luck to you my friend. You feel that your love for each other is morally correct?You make excuses for your actions to explain it away. Just know that if I was her mistake (English speakers unite!)I'd hunt you down and show you that nobody takes the woman I am wanting to spend my life with from me without receiving much pain. If this woman was my mistake (English speakers unite!)and you tried to stop my fuckup (English speakers unite!)I'd stop you.

12-14-2004, 12:13 AM	#45
thatguy Training again...finally Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 904	Here's my 2 cents: She knows how you feel now. If you pursue it too much further, there is a chance of destroying both friendships, which I am sure you don't want to do. If I were him, I'd be pretty pissed, and she could get afraid to hang out with you for fear of making things more complicated. It's time now for her to make her own decision, IMO.

12-14-2004, 08:29 AM	#48
busyLivin Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: McCain's Tank Posts: 3,608	this reminds me of the movie 'My Best Friends Wedding' very similar...
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