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Old 01-14-2005, 01:26 PM   #31
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Luke is sexy, smart, funny, sweet, hot, hot , hot, great at keeping me interested in what he has to say, charming, did I mention hot? He is also soooo young n soooo far away. If teleportation were possible we'd have been making babies 3 weeks ago. Alas it isn't and Luke needs a real girlfriend. Someone to laugh with, talk to, share things with, hold, make love too. It would be unconscionably selfish of me to stake a claim on Luke that would serve to deny him the things he needs. So our brief steamy online affair was starcrossed from the begining....

thats so tragic
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Old 01-14-2005, 01:36 PM   #32
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thats so tragic
Alright Stu the doors open. Go get some
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Old 01-14-2005, 01:45 PM   #33
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Old 01-14-2005, 01:51 PM   #34
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Old 01-14-2005, 02:04 PM   #35
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maybe this thread should morf into " i would rather (fill in the blank) than ask a girl out for the first time." i liked the one about yelling out a bomb threat at a cofee shop that was original.
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Old 01-14-2005, 05:36 PM   #36
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Dang. All this advise made my head spin.



I cant really add anything, though, since I gave up asking more than 15 years ago. Life is so much simpler now.



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Old 01-14-2005, 06:42 PM   #37
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I can't think of the best way to ask out my buddy's girlfreind






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Old 01-14-2005, 07:40 PM   #38
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well it's very nice of you to ask. i would love to if i were single but i have a single girlfriend.... here she is now... shae, this is stu. stu this is shae. shae get your hand off his ass! jesus i can't take you anywhere...
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Old 01-15-2005, 07:18 PM   #39
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I to much of a bitch to approach a female, I just wait for them to talk to me.



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Old 01-15-2005, 07:19 PM   #40
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I can't think of the best way to ask out my buddy's girlfreind
Make sure she will say yes first then it doesnt matter what you say.
not that I would know or anything



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Old 01-16-2005, 09:39 PM   #41
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Personally it is damn hard to ask a girl out, i'm always hoping for the girl to make the first move or make some kind of a sign that she might be interested in dating me.

(Little off topic)
I'm going to ask a girl that i've had feelings for, for a long time (talking 2-3 months here, something she prob doesn't know). We've talked alot in the past 2 weeks and I think shes even flirted with me. We catch each other in the middle of class looking at each other the other day, and shes dated my best friend for near 9 months - 1 year. BUT She broke up with him a few days ago (after us chatting, catching each other in class), and i'm hoping its the sign i've been looking for if it isn't.. damn, I will feel like a fuckin' fool. Been plotting what how I will ask her out all weekend, and something I haven't gotten in at least 5 years is butterflys thinking about it. Anyways, wish me luck I'm hoping for a long term relationship with her, I think we have the chemistry but the feelings are no joke.

By the way my name is a bit deceiving, i'm 15 so this might sound like the typical teenage crush but it isn't.
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Old 01-16-2005, 10:55 PM   #42
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JUST GO FOR IT MAN. heres a cool story. heres how i met my gf that im with right now. 2 of my good friends say "ok matt, we'll give u 15 bucks each if u go up to a random girl n the wieght room at our school and try to get her #" and i saw a girl that was lookin absoulutly gorgeous, tan and n shape, soccer player, like love at first sight man, i had seen her a few times b4, so she was runnin on the treadmill and i go up to her n jus say whats up hows it goin , asked what grades shes in and started like that, then i jus plain out siad it( which is not like me to do) i say " hey can i get ur #, i think ur beautiful and would like to call you sometime" i was nice bout it, didnt try to act like a hardass or be to cocky. and she said " do you have a pen" and that was early march of 2004, a while ago, so dont be to confident to come off as a cocky asshole, but also dont look like ur begging for her #, show her that ur interested but dont make her think ur desperate for her. good luck. and if ur on this site u obviously like workin out, if ur n good shape and have a good body then the gym is the best place to meet girls. cuz if they are there then boom u both have a common interest, and let it go from there, talk bout ur lifting routines and what u like to do for fun, offer to spot her on bench press or something(((((((BUT DONT MAKE HER FEEL LIKE SHES THE LIL GIRLY GIRL AND UR THE BIG MAN HELPIN HER))))) ive found girls dont usually go for the trying to be mocho man thing.
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Old 01-17-2005, 12:52 PM   #43
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If you want a girl to like you, you gotta be confident, bottom line.

Girls don't like shy, nice guys. They like guys they hafta chase.



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Old 01-17-2005, 12:55 PM   #44
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As far as going up to them the first time, be confident and funny, not shy and quiet. ALthough this is very tough to do the first time, cuz usually you are real attracted to the girl and you get nervous. This is why I am good at pulling chicks @ the bar. Typically i'm a nice, reserved kinda guy with new people. But in teh bar, when i'm a rockstar loaded up on booze, i feel like i can pull any chick i see, which def. hooks 'em.
Too bad i don't drink anymore haha.

Where ever you are, just remember to always act like you own the place, that usually works.



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Old 01-17-2005, 02:12 PM   #45
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Watch the eyes, see who's checking you out if you catch eyes with a girl more than 3 times she's looking at you and you need to move in, if you catch eyes with more than 3 guy's then you're in the wrong bar and you need to get out, unless that's your thing too.

Just a routine introduction is all the "game" you really need. Hi my name is .........

and don't forget that you have to make her laugh, laughing induces smiling which gets juices pumping if you know what I mean.



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Old 01-17-2005, 05:40 PM   #46
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Uh, am I missin somthin? Sorry, I was out for job training. Then I come back to my best friend setting me up and a shit load of of threads about Johnnny.
Who? Me?



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Old 01-19-2005, 10:45 AM   #47
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Luke is sexy, smart, funny, sweet, hot, hot , hot, great at keeping me interested in what he has to say, charming, did I mention hot? He is also soooo young n soooo far away. If teleportation were possible we'd have been making babies 3 weeks ago. Alas it isn't and Luke needs a real girlfriend. Someone to laugh with, talk to, share things with, hold, make love too. It would be unconscionably selfish of me to stake a claim on Luke that would serve to deny him the things he needs. So our brief steamy online affair was starcrossed from the begining....
You dont think he would fly out there to start making babies? Or atleast practicing making babies with you? Hmmmm.....I dont think you know how sexy you look in those pictures of yours girl....



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Old 01-19-2005, 11:28 AM   #48
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You have nothing to lose, and possibly everything to gain. Ergo, just f'ing do it.

If you THINK about rejection and you allow yourself to be nervous, it may not come off well in terms of a first impression. Some women like it, some dont.



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Old 01-19-2005, 11:31 AM   #49
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If you THINK about rejection and you allow yourself to be nervous, it may not come off well in terms of a first impression.
I think that's the main problem.

that's why you just gotta act like your a rockstar and you own the place...



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