Guys, how hard is it to ask girls out???

Little Wing · 01-14-2005, 08:58 AM

were you nervous?

n what did you go through to get over being afraid to?

advice for other guys?

largepkg · 01-14-2005, 09:16 AM

For myself it's been a bit nerve racking. I just entered the dating seen a year and a half ago after the break of a eleven year relationship(childhood sweetheart). So for me its been about not having experience in it.

My advise to every guy out there is to just go for it! No is just another word and should be treated as such. You'll be surprised how receptive the ladies are when you show initiative.

Fade · 01-14-2005, 09:52 AM

It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

CRASHMAN · 01-14-2005, 09:53 AM

wait for the girl

its 2005 not 1905 if the girl wants the cock she'll throw winks, smiles, whatever, you just have to say hi, start a convo, be funny/sweet if you can, show that are confidence and don't try too hard, and most of all, do not act like a moron (i always find that part the hardest

) eventually if she likes you enough, she'll tell you. thats how i go by things; it works really well. Be like, "hey wanna hang out sometime?" can i get your number?" whatever your line is, do it. "wanna get some food?" "wanna get some coffee?" if you are in the gym and see her everyday working out talk to her every so often and then be like, "wow, you're really dedicated! i would love to have someone like you as my training partner you would always keep me going, do you think i could get your number and we could train together sometime?" i dunno that sounds retarded but it works. they know is a line but if they are interested thats their in and they'll play off it and if not, they are stupid bitches and you don't wanna date them anyway

and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy.......hey...that works on two levels

Luke9583 · 01-14-2005, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy.......hey...that works on two levels

thank god those are there.

CRASHMAN · 01-14-2005, 10:23 AM

.....wait....3 levels......ah screw this i need sleep......

Crashman signs off at 8:32am

**Dale Mabry** · 01-14-2005, 10:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockgazer69

were you nervous?

n what did you go through to get over being afraid to?

advice for other guys?

It's easier asking a girl you are dating to give you head for the first time than asking one on a date for the first time.

crazy_enough · 01-14-2005, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy......

not this girl!!!lolol

sorry, it was just too easy!

BoneCrusher · 01-14-2005, 10:45 AM

It's in the eyes if she likes me. I see it there and I'm good ... if not I'm a chicken shit. I always go for what I want but sometmes ifeels like it would be easier to walk into the local cop shop and yell out a bomb threat than ask a pretty girl out. The nicer I think she is on the inside the harder it is too.

largepkg · 01-14-2005, 10:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

It's in the eyes if she likes me. I see it there and I'm good ... if not I'm a chicken shit. I always go for what I want but sometmes ifeels like it would be easier to walk into the local cop shop and yell out a bomb threat than ask a pretty girl out. The nicer I think she is on the inside the harder it is too.

This is so true. Well said.

DFINEST · 01-14-2005, 10:54 AM

Just do it....
If i see a young lady that I'm interest in,
I just approach her and start up a conversation
(the social atmosphere where we're
at will dictate the initial talk)

You will always MISS 100% of the SHOTS
that you don't take - The Great One ( Wayne Gretzky )

Luke9583 · 01-14-2005, 10:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crazy_enough

not this girl!!!lolol

sorry, it was just too easy!

DFINEST · 01-14-2005, 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

It's easier asking a girl you are dating to give you head for the first time than asking one on a date for the first time.

naturaltan · 01-14-2005, 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crazy_enough

not this girl!!!lolol

sorry, it was just too easy!

naturaltan · 01-14-2005, 11:05 AM

if you're asking about the first time, yep I was nervous. After that, it was easy. I've been lucky. Most times in the bar, the lady has come to talk to me. Being a good dancer probably helped out a lot.

Now I am a wingman. I talk to other ladies at a table while my friend chats it up with the lady he likes.

I think it's all about being confident and not coming off as a guy looking for a score. Save the cheesy lines and just be yourself. If you seem interesting and can avoid the 'uncomfortable dead time', you'll do just fine.

naturaltan · 01-14-2005, 11:10 AM

I have a friend use this a way to know someone. On your way out of a bar or wherever, and you see a lady you'd like to get to know better, give her your number and tell her you'd like to get to know her better over coffee sometime - and leave it at that. My friend says he has more successes than failures and he says the ladies love the 'mystery' of your quick chat.

**I Are Baboon** · 01-14-2005, 11:11 AM

For me it would depend on the situation. If it was a bar setting and I was approaching a total stranger, it would be nerve racking and stressful. If I was at a party or meeting a friend of a friend, getting a conversation going would be very easy. Now that I am married to MtnBikerChk, talking to women is extremely easy because I know nothing could possibly come of it.

Vieope · 01-14-2005, 11:17 AM

It is not a problem at all, sometimes I get nervous but I usually do fine. Something that is always a problem for me is the first kiss on someone, I always wonder if it is the time or the place appropriate.

largepkg · 01-14-2005, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Vieope

It is not a problem at all, sometimes I get nervous but I usually do fine. Something that is always a problem for me is the first kiss on someone, I always wonder if it is the time or the place appropriate.

If the first kiss was on their lips and not always on their ass then the time or place shouldn't be an issue!

**I Are Baboon** · 01-14-2005, 11:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

wait for the girl

its 2005 not 1905

I've probably been asked out just as much as I have done the asking. That hasn't always been a good thing.

Stu · 01-14-2005, 12:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rockgazer69

were you nervous?

n what did you go through to get over being afraid to?

advice for other guys?

will you go out with me

largepkg · 01-14-2005, 12:20 PM

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Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

will you go out with me

Sorry Stu. She has eyes for Darth Vader's son.

Luke9583 · 01-14-2005, 12:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by largepkg

Sorry Stu. She has eyes for Darth Vader's son.

I'm too nervous to ask her out

Little Wing · 01-14-2005, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

will you go out with me

well it's very nice of you to ask. i would love to if i were single but i have a single girlfriend.... here she is now... shae, this is stu. stu this is shae. shae get your hand off his ass! jesus i can't take you anywhere...

ALBOB · 01-14-2005, 12:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Fade

It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

I was thinking along the same lines. The asking is the easy part. The difficult part is scheduling the date around my wife's schedule.

You all DO know I'm kidding, right?

oaktownboy · 01-14-2005, 12:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fade

It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

LMAO...

largepkg · 01-14-2005, 01:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Luke9583

I'm too nervous to ask her out

OK, here we go.

RG, Hi it's Large. I have a friend (Luke) who likes you. He is a bit nervous to talk to you but I can assure you he's a great guy. I think the two of you would make pretty babies. So, what do you say? Will you go out with him?

01-14-2005, 08:58 AM	#1
Little Wing SEMPER~FIDELIS Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: United States Posts: 21,685 Blog Entries: 1 Photos: 191	Guys, how hard is it to ask girls out??? were you nervous? n what did you go through to get over being afraid to? advice for other guys?

01-14-2005, 10:54 AM	#11
DFINEST She hasn't found me yet Join Date: May 2001 Location: Maryland Posts: 2,053	Just do it.... If i see a young lady that I'm interest in, I just approach her and start up a conversation (the social atmosphere where we're at will dictate the initial talk) You will always MISS 100% of the SHOTS that you don't take - The Great One ( Wayne Gretzky )
	Drama is the result of an attempt to find wholeness & success in the midst of forces that have been birthed in chaos and nurtured in confusion. -- No More Drama

01-14-2005, 11:05 AM	#15
naturaltan Going nowhere fast! Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 9,938 Photos: 7	if you're asking about the first time, yep I was nervous. After that, it was easy. I've been lucky. Most times in the bar, the lady has come to talk to me. Being a good dancer probably helped out a lot. Now I am a wingman. I talk to other ladies at a table while my friend chats it up with the lady he likes. I think it's all about being confident and not coming off as a guy looking for a score. Save the cheesy lines and just be yourself. If you seem interesting and can avoid the 'uncomfortable dead time', you'll do just fine.
	just kick'in it in the ole Charger

01-14-2005, 11:10 AM	#16
naturaltan Going nowhere fast! Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 9,938 Photos: 7	I have a friend use this a way to know someone. On your way out of a bar or wherever, and you see a lady you'd like to get to know better, give her your number and tell her you'd like to get to know her better over coffee sometime - and leave it at that. My friend says he has more successes than failures and he says the ladies love the 'mystery' of your quick chat.
	just kick'in it in the ole Charger

01-14-2005, 11:17 AM	#18
Vieope Monochromatic Bunny Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: drinking coffee.. Posts: 14,863 Photos: 10	It is not a problem at all, sometimes I get nervous but I usually do fine. Something that is always a problem for me is the first kiss on someone, I always wonder if it is the time or the place appropriate.
	FURtherness

01-14-2005, 09:16 AM	#2
largepkg Senior Fucknut Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: S FLA Posts: 3,158 Photos: 2	For myself it's been a bit nerve racking. I just entered the dating seen a year and a half ago after the break of a eleven year relationship(childhood sweetheart). So for me its been about not having experience in it. My advise to every guy out there is to just go for it! No is just another word and should be treated as such. You'll be surprised how receptive the ladies are when you show initiative.

01-14-2005, 09:52 AM	#3
Fade I'm the daddy Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Houston, Tx Posts: 3,007 Photos: 5	It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

01-14-2005, 09:53 AM	#4
CRASHMAN SoCal. Stud Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: in a box on a corner near you Posts: 10,080 Photos: 2	wait for the girl its 2005 not 1905 if the girl wants the cock she'll throw winks, smiles, whatever, you just have to say hi, start a convo, be funny/sweet if you can, show that are confidence and don't try too hard, and most of all, do not act like a moron (i always find that part the hardest ) eventually if she likes you enough, she'll tell you. thats how i go by things; it works really well. Be like, "hey wanna hang out sometime?" can i get your number?" whatever your line is, do it. "wanna get some food?" "wanna get some coffee?" if you are in the gym and see her everyday working out talk to her every so often and then be like, "wow, you're really dedicated! i would love to have someone like you as my training partner you would always keep me going, do you think i could get your number and we could train together sometime?" i dunno that sounds retarded but it works. they know is a line but if they are interested thats their in and they'll play off it and if not, they are stupid bitches and you don't wanna date them anyway and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy.......hey...that works on two levels

01-14-2005, 10:23 AM	#6
CRASHMAN SoCal. Stud Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: in a box on a corner near you Posts: 10,080 Photos: 2	.....wait....3 levels......ah screw this i need sleep...... Crashman signs off at 8:32am

01-14-2005, 10:45 AM	#9
BoneCrusher Lift or Die Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,580	It's in the eyes if she likes me. I see it there and I'm good ... if not I'm a chicken shit. I always go for what I want but sometmes ifeels like it would be easier to walk into the local cop shop and yell out a bomb threat than ask a pretty girl out. The nicer I think she is on the inside the harder it is too.

01-14-2005, 11:11 AM	#17
I Are Baboon pedal pedal pedal Moderator Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Beerville Posts: 11,011 Photos: 10	For me it would depend on the situation. If it was a bar setting and I was approaching a total stranger, it would be nerve racking and stressful. If I was at a party or meeting a friend of a friend, getting a conversation going would be very easy. Now that I am married to MtnBikerChk, talking to women is extremely easy because I know nothing could possibly come of it.