Thread: Guys, how hard is it to ask girls out???

For myself it's been a bit nerve racking. I just entered the dating seen a year and a half ago after the break of a eleven year relationship(childhood sweetheart). So for me its been about not having experience in it.

My advise to every guy out there is to just go for it! No is just another word and should be treated as such. You'll be surprised how receptive the ladies are when you show initiative.

It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

wait for the girl its 2005 not 1905 if the girl wants the cock she'll throw winks, smiles, whatever, you just have to say hi, start a convo, be funny/sweet if you can, show that are confidence and don't try too hard, and most of all, do not act like a moron (i always find that part the hardest ) eventually if she likes you enough, she'll tell you. thats how i go by things; it works really well. Be like, "hey wanna hang out sometime?" can i get your number?" whatever your line is, do it. "wanna get some food?" "wanna get some coffee?" if you are in the gym and see her everyday working out talk to her every so often and then be like, "wow, you're really dedicated! i would love to have someone like you as my training partner you would always keep me going, do you think i could get your number and we could train together sometime?" i dunno that sounds retarded but it works. they know is a line but if they are interested thats their in and they'll play off it and if not, they are stupid bitches and you don't wanna date them anyway

and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy.......hey...that works on two levels

Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy.......hey...that works on two levels

thank god those are there.

.....wait....3 levels......ah screw this i need sleep......

Crashman signs off at 8:32am

Originally Posted by rockgazer69

were you nervous?

n what did you go through to get over being afraid to?

advice for other guys?

It's easier asking a girl you are dating to give you head for the first time than asking one on a date for the first time.

Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

and don't be a pussy a girl would rather have a dick than a pussy......

not this girl!!!lolol


sorry, it was just too easy!

It's in the eyes if she likes me. I see it there and I'm good ... if not I'm a chicken shit. I always go for what I want but sometmes ifeels like it would be easier to walk into the local cop shop and yell out a bomb threat than ask a pretty girl out. The nicer I think she is on the inside the harder it is too.

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

It's in the eyes if she likes me. I see it there and I'm good ... if not I'm a chicken shit. I always go for what I want but sometmes ifeels like it would be easier to walk into the local cop shop and yell out a bomb threat than ask a pretty girl out. The nicer I think she is on the inside the harder it is too.

This is so true. Well said.

Just do it....
If i see a young lady that I'm interest in,
I just approach her and start up a conversation
(the social atmosphere where we're
at will dictate the initial talk)

You will always MISS 100% of the SHOTS
that you don't take - The Great One ( Wayne Gretzky )

Originally Posted by crazy_enough

not this girl!!!lolol


sorry, it was just too easy!

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

It's easier asking a girl you are dating to give you head for the first time than asking one on a date for the first time.

Originally Posted by crazy_enough

not this girl!!!lolol


sorry, it was just too easy!

if you're asking about the first time, yep I was nervous. After that, it was easy. I've been lucky. Most times in the bar, the lady has come to talk to me. Being a good dancer probably helped out a lot.

Now I am a wingman. I talk to other ladies at a table while my friend chats it up with the lady he likes.

I think it's all about being confident and not coming off as a guy looking for a score. Save the cheesy lines and just be yourself. If you seem interesting and can avoid the 'uncomfortable dead time', you'll do just fine.

I have a friend use this a way to know someone. On your way out of a bar or wherever, and you see a lady you'd like to get to know better, give her your number and tell her you'd like to get to know her better over coffee sometime - and leave it at that. My friend says he has more successes than failures and he says the ladies love the 'mystery' of your quick chat.

For me it would depend on the situation. If it was a bar setting and I was approaching a total stranger, it would be nerve racking and stressful. If I was at a party or meeting a friend of a friend, getting a conversation going would be very easy. Now that I am married to MtnBikerChk, talking to women is extremely easy because I know nothing could possibly come of it.

It is not a problem at all, sometimes I get nervous but I usually do fine. Something that is always a problem for me is the first kiss on someone, I always wonder if it is the time or the place appropriate.

Originally Posted by Vieope

It is not a problem at all, sometimes I get nervous but I usually do fine. Something that is always a problem for me is the first kiss on someone, I always wonder if it is the time or the place appropriate.

If the first kiss was on their lips and not always on their ass then the time or place shouldn't be an issue!

Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

wait for the girl its 2005 not 1905

I've probably been asked out just as much as I have done the asking. That hasn't always been a good thing.

Originally Posted by rockgazer69

were you nervous?

n what did you go through to get over being afraid to?

advice for other guys?

will you go out with me

Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

will you go out with me

Sorry Stu. She has eyes for Darth Vader's son.

Originally Posted by largepkg

Sorry Stu. She has eyes for Darth Vader's son.

I'm too nervous to ask her out

Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

will you go out with me

well it's very nice of you to ask. i would love to if i were single but i have a single girlfriend.... here she is now... shae, this is stu. stu this is shae. shae get your hand off his ass! jesus i can't take you anywhere...

Originally Posted by Fade

It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

I was thinking along the same lines. The asking is the easy part. The difficult part is scheduling the date around my wife's schedule.
















You all DO know I'm kidding, right?

Originally Posted by Fade

It's real hard for me....actually it's out right impossible...I'm married to Butterfly.

LMAO...

Originally Posted by Luke9583

I'm too nervous to ask her out

OK, here we go.

RG, Hi it's Large. I have a friend (Luke) who likes you. He is a bit nervous to talk to you but I can assure you he's a great guy. I think the two of you would make pretty babies. So, what do you say? Will you go out with him?

Originally Posted by ALBOB

I was thinking along the same lines. The asking is the easy part. The difficult part is scheduling the date around my wife's schedule.
















You all DO know I'm kidding, right?

Yeah cuz no one will go out with you

Talking to them is the easy part. Finding them is a little more complicated. I don't really go to bars anymore, but *most* bar girls are beer-bellied sluts anyway.

If I see someone who I think is worth talking to, I go for it. I always start off as friends.. If she's interested, it's not hard to tell & I go from there.