If..............

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:23 PM

your flat mate got off with your girlfiriend what would you do??

**Luke8395** · 02-23-2005, 06:25 PM

Did she know? This word choice isn't very US-freindly. Can you rephrase?

**thatguy** · 02-23-2005, 06:26 PM

Pay Flex $50 to set it straight.

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:29 PM

well couple of weeks ago i got in a compromising position with my flat mates girlfriend no shagging but "heavy petting" was involved. to be honest i didnt know much about i was slightly intoxicated (i dont even remeber) but she told him and know things are kind of fucked up

**Sapphire** · 02-23-2005, 06:29 PM

Break up with your gf... you can do better.

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by thatguy

Pay Flex $50 to set it straight.

i think killing him would be slightly unfair seeing as im in the wrong

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by Sapphire

Break up with your gf... you can do better.

not my gf

**PreMier** · 02-23-2005, 06:33 PM

You got off with your roomies GF.. Thats fuct up. Unless ofcourse your not friends with him.

**Chain Link** · 02-23-2005, 06:34 PM

Yeah.. please rephrase for Americans

Flat mate = g/f with no titties?

**PreMier** · 02-23-2005, 06:35 PM

Flat mate is his roommate I believe, or house mate. Basically he jacked off on his roomates GF's tits.

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by PreMier

You got off with your roomies GF.. Thats fuct up. Unless ofcourse your not friends with him.

he took it very well for a week but now hes started to get a bit moody

**Chain Link** · 02-23-2005, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by PreMier

You got off with your roomies GF.. Thats fuct up. Unless ofcourse your not friends with him.

Nevermind, makes sense now.. flat as in like a house... In other words- roommate.. gotcha

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by Chain Link

Yeah.. please rephrase for Americans

Flat mate = g/f with no titties?

flate mate/ house mate/ person that lives with you in your house

**PreMier** · 02-23-2005, 06:36 PM

Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

he took it very well for a week but now hes started to get a bit moody

So are you friends with him? Who told him, you or the girl?

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:37 PM

the girl hes not pissed at me but hes pissed at her

iv been living with him for 3 years

**PreMier** · 02-23-2005, 06:41 PM

I dont see the problem here if he's only angry with her. He may not trust you anymore though.. If my 'flat mate' did that, I would beat his ass, and dump the girl. Or watch

J/K

**Chain Link** · 02-23-2005, 06:42 PM

Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

the girl hes not pissed at me but hes pissed at her

Id probably feel the same.
It would really depend on the situation and people involved though.. having neither a roommate nor a girlfriend right now, I couldnt really say.

**Stu** · 02-23-2005, 06:44 PM

Originally Posted by PreMier

I dont see the problem here if he's only angry with her. He may not trust you anymore though.. If my 'flat mate' did that, I would beat his ass, and dump the girl.

exactly so would i, he hasnt dumped her an hes not pissed at me i don't understand it

**Luke8395** · 02-23-2005, 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

well couple of weeks ago i got in a compromising position with my flat mates girlfriend no shagging but "heavy petting" was involved. to be honest i didnt know much about i was slightly intoxicated (i dont even remeber) but she told him and know things are kind of fucked up

I asked out my Buddy's GF when I was drunk once

Where's still buddy's apologize, and stop drinking. That's what I did.

**musclepump** · 02-23-2005, 07:05 PM

If it happened to me there would definitely be some ass kicking to be done and some shit thrown on the lawn

**BoneCrusher** · 02-23-2005, 07:39 PM

Sounds like your "flatmate" is a bitch.

Back in the day as a younger man you'd be needing a good healthcare plan and I'd have introduced her girlfriends to Mr. Happy ... as many of 'em as I could anyway. Then you'd both be out of my life and I'd already have been moving on. Now at 45 I am just not interested in anything negative and would have thrown all your shit out side and ended it with her. No room for emotional clutter nor people that place no value in my humanity.

That thing you said about not remembering very much? Gotta call bullshit on that one. That is a lame ass excuse people use to cover up bad behavior ... and is always bullshit. You got drunk, allowed yourself to lose your self control and let your self do what you wanted to do with her, and claim memory loss. Not. Dude ... don't shit where you eat .

Good thing for you he's a bitch.

Or maybe he is not a bitch ... maybe he is just secret guy. He may get even in other ways. The silent ones can be the very worst ones to deal with IMHO. He may thrash your car somehow ... there are a million ways to do that. He could screw your credit all to hell by sending in three letters to the credit reporting agencies stating you never paid off loans on goods and services. Your credit score would fall over night and take 4 to 6 months to fix. Maybe stash dope in your car then call the authorities and say you're a drug dealer. By the time you got done paying off a lawyer and getting out of that mess you'd be in hock up to your forgetful memory. The passive aggressive types can get brutal if ya piss 'em off enough.

He is pissed ... nobody can find out his flatmate got heavy with his girl and not get pissed. He's internalizing it for some reason. You broke a solemn vow with your bro and now you need to fix this with him ... if you can. Good luck there. You might get lucky and have a weak person for a roomy ... he may just let this pass.

Who's place is it anyway?

**Flex** · 02-23-2005, 07:52 PM

Originally Posted by thatguy

Pay Flex $50 to set it straight.

Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

i think killing him would be slightly unfair seeing as im in the wrong

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

maybe he is not a bitch ... maybe he is just secret guy. He may get even in other ways. The silent ones can be the very worst ones to deal with IMHO.

anyone else see the correlation?

sorry, Stu

$50 is $50

**Flex** · 02-23-2005, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by Chain Link

Flat mate = g/f with no titties?

Originally Posted by PreMier

Flat mate is his roommate I believe, or house mate. Basically he jacked off on his roomates GF's tits.

You guys are HILARIOUS

**gococksDJS** · 02-23-2005, 08:06 PM

If your anus was sore the next day it wasn't your flatmates girlfriend, it was your flatmate.

**DOMS** · 02-23-2005, 08:38 PM

Originally Posted by Chain Link

Yeah.. please rephrase for Americans

Flat mate = g/f with no titties?

The real question is, did he smoke a fag afterwards?

**Eggs** · 02-23-2005, 08:43 PM

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

That thing you said about not remembering very much? Gotta call bullshit on that one. That is a lame ass excuse people use to cover up bad behavior ... and is always bullshit.

Actually, I'm calling your bullshit on this one... I've blacked out quite a few times when drinking. Most of the time the stories the next day were only a little embarassing.

Its why I dont drink anymore.

**PreMier** · 02-23-2005, 08:45 PM

Clean your damn PM box man! Yes you eggs

**BoneCrusher** · 02-23-2005, 11:46 PM

Originally Posted by Eggs

Actually, I'm calling your bullshit on this one... I've blacked out quite a few times when drinking. Most of the time the stories the next day were only a little embarassing.

Its why I dont drink anymore.

You can call me eggs ... but I won't answer bra. Never met anyone who pulled that line that actually did black out. Just said they did to everyone and acted all puffed up when called on it. Yet in private they would laugh and come clean. One of the avantadges of having been a bouncer and bartender was talking to everyone ... I heard all the stories.

I've gotten drunk and woke up in my car parked in my neighbor's front yard with no recolection of how I get there. Thought I drove there ... but found out I was passed out in a bar chair while waiting for a game of pool. My friends put me in my ride and thought it would be funny to leave me parked in the neighbor's front yard.

Who knows maybe you're the first ... but I'm not buying it. No offense eggs ...

**thatguy** · 02-24-2005, 12:08 AM

I'd apologize and move on. If he can't move on, move out. You don't want BoneCrusher's prediction to come true.

Maybe he'll dump the girl and you'll get the best of both worlds. Then again, maybe he'll dump the girl and she'll do the same thing to you that she did to him. Who knows...

At any rate, there's not much you can do besides apologize and try your best to win his trust back. After that, the ball is in his court.

Just make sure from now on you keep your balls in your "court."

**Stu** · 02-24-2005, 03:33 AM

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

You can call me eggs ... but I won't answer bra. Never met anyone who pulled that line that actually did black out. Just said they did to everyone and acted all puffed up when called on it. Yet in private they would laugh and come clean. One of the avantadges of having been a bouncer and bartender was talking to everyone ... I heard all the stories.

I've gotten drunk and woke up in my car parked in my neighbor's front yard with no recolection of how I get there. Thought I drove there ... but found out I was passed out in a bar chair while waiting for a game of pool. My friends put me in my ride and thought it would be funny to leave me parked in the neighbor's front yard.

Who knows maybe you're the first ... but I'm not buying it. No offense eggs ...

You've never had memory loss on a night out?

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