Just be careful that you are not putting out the wrong message. Most guys will assume that if a girl comes on to them that they can get in a quick one-nighter and move on with their lives.
Ok, so lately my topics have been about sex and dating . . . men. So here is another one. Lately i have noticed that I have been doing the approaching, does that make me a "man-eater" or something? I guess I can't wait around for these guys to ask me out can I?? If I see a cute guy then I will find a way to approach him and BAM . . I have a date!
Just be careful that you are not putting out the wrong message. Most guys will assume that if a girl comes on to them that they can get in a quick one-nighter and move on with their lives.
If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)
so guys can do it, just girls can't?
No I'm not saying that. Just don't act (for loss of a better word) slutty.
Make sure that they know your intentions are to go out for a date and that's all they'll get for the night.![]()
If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)


ask them to lunch or something non evening first, coffee at a bookstore maybe.
Don't look back ~ You're not going that way!
Excellent idea.![]()
When I worked at a bar and women approached me to do anything in the evening I would always assume that I would be having sex with them later. And I was usually right. Asking them to do something during the day time would greatly reduce that notion.
If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)
Unless, of course, your intentions are to get laid, then you're sure to succeed.Originally Posted by irontime
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NEVER write a check with your mouth that you can't cash with your ASS!!
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I can run faster mad than you can scared
"All right brain... I don't like you and you don't like me. So let's just do this and I'll get back to killing you with beer" ~ Homer Simpson
Um... maybe this is my misinterpretation but Anna said she finds a way to 'approach' guys, this doesn't mean she is coming onto them in a provocative manner and acting slutty and I don't think 'most' guys would assume that she was after a one nighter just from that.Originally Posted by irontime
To me 'approaching' can be anything, even just opening up the lines of communication... hell, thinking back I think I've initiated just about all of my relationships but then I'm an impatient fucker!![]()
HAHA! Exactly!!!Originally Posted by Witmaster
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Well ya, if that's the case then you can usually just motion for a guy to come over and grab his nuts. You'll succeed every timeUnless he's taken.
If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)
Originally Posted by BritChick
Just speaking from experience. But then again most of my experiences came from working in a bar and that's what the women were after
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If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
- Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)


It's not slutty for a girl to be a playa, unless you're letting several guys run trains on you. Women have just as much right to be manizers as men have to be womanizers. I've been a womans boy toy before, she only called me when she wanted to fuck and that was it. She was a professional and just didn't want to make time in her life for a full on relationship, I respected her for that cause I know guys who do the same.
Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012
thanks for all your answers!
I guess guys do think about sex ALL the time, because I am not looking for sex, just a date .. I want to get to know someone first, plus its always good to have friends
Yes, guys think about sex all the time, and any guy that says he doesn't, don't trust him.Originally Posted by AnnaDTX


And don't shake his hand because he probably just got done stroking one out.Originally Posted by SPIKE1257
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Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012
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