Man, am I pissed

**SJ69** · 07-06-2005, 06:49 AM

Me and my wife haven't had the best week (btw I don't think she's cheating)
So the other day she finds a can of Skoal (chew) which I quit doing and promised her I'd stop, so I fell off the wagon, ok my bad.
BEFORE this happened I bought her a dozen roses, detailed her van, planned a nice romantic night, all kinds of good shit.
So all I get for the next couple days (including the romantic night) is the COLD shoulder. Then last night, after I tell her we can loan her sister $200 she gives my a big hug and kisses me a few times, so I go to kiss her ear and neck and she says nope, not right now and, get this, and it's a quote ---->
"You should feel lucky that I'm kissing on you...
So I think, but don't say
WTF, LUCKY??? LUCKY?? Fuk that. I should feel lucky? Are you crazy? Fuk that, now it's HER turn for the cold shoulder. She really thinks that she can use sex like that? I've been super horney lately and giving her ALL kinds of attention, and now she thinks I'm a charity case? That I get what I get because the somehow controls that? She thinks the sex is just for ME? Hell no, I don't even need that shyt, I just grab a bottle of lotion and pretend, because I ain't kicking it up until she comes to me looking for it in a BIG way.
Late last night she wears something sexy and says I'm going to bed are you comming? Last couple times I tried to get some she said she was tired, so I say "No I'm going to stay up and watch TV, but yeah, you must be tired from working soo much."
Man am I pissed!!
Sorry about the rant.

**Witmaster** · 07-06-2005, 06:54 AM

OK, so.... have you tried to actually TALK to her about this situation or are you botteling it up and venting here?

**SJ69** · 07-06-2005, 06:58 AM

Originally Posted by Witmaster

OK, so.... have you tried to actually TALK to her about this situation or are you botteling it up and venting here?

This just happened last night. But I don't see where talking comes into play here, it her ATTITUDE, she needs an attitude adjustment. I could tell her that I don't need sex from her, but that would make stuff worse, better that she just learns not to take me for granted.

**Witmaster** · 07-06-2005, 07:11 AM

Ok, I mention this because I recently went through a very similar experience with my wife.

My wife and I were in a, sort of, "drought" in our relationship. I felt very unappreciated for the things I would do around the house for her (much like you expressed). This was going on for some time and all I would do was bottle it up and fume over the situation. Finally, I cleared my head and decided to take positive action to address our "problem".

I basically explained to her that I was very concerned with the (lack of) intimacy and reciplical affection in our relationship. I explained to her that, although I wasn't perfect, I had consistantly been making every effort to do the "right things" around the house for both her and I. I told her that I needed to know specifically WHY she felt the need to ostricize me from her affections. I sincerely expressed my desire to see things improve between us, and to rekindle the passion that we seemed to lack.

Now.... Long-story-short... We had a great discussion. We sincerely discussed issues we each were dealing with. I learned some things about myself that I needed to improve on. She realized things that she needed to change in her life.

What I'm trying to say is, this our situation would have never improved as well and as quickly had I not taken the responsible approach and CALMLY discussed it with her.

LISTEN to each other. You'll be amazed the progress you make.

Good Luck

**I Are Baboon** · 07-06-2005, 07:13 AM

Women. Can't live with 'em, pass the beer nuts.

**SJ69** · 07-06-2005, 07:36 AM

You're probably right Witmaster, but right now I'm too pissed to talk, I know I'll end up saying some bad stuff.
I just can't believe that she thinks I'm going to continue to fawn all over her, while she decides if she ready to do me a favor and let me make love to her.
And to make it worse, I've been all over her for the past month, not just bc I'm horney, but bc she's been having an image problem. So I'd say things like "your soo hot baby" "I can't wait until we make love" Half the time I'd say these things just to make HER feel better, and she was loving it.

**Witmaster** · 07-06-2005, 07:42 AM

Good call. Wait and clear your head. Let the emotions subside.

Just remember, the single most sensitive organ responsible for a woman's arrousal is located between her EARS, not her legs!!

**irontime** · 07-06-2005, 08:04 AM

Have you tried smacking her?

**GSXR750** · 07-06-2005, 08:21 AM

You guys scare me. Im about to be engaged.

**Witmaster** · 07-06-2005, 08:22 AM

You'll be fine. Just keep copious amounts of Liquer in stock and don't delete your internet porn links.

**SJ69** · 07-06-2005, 08:29 AM

Originally Posted by GSXR750

You guys scare me. Im about to be engaged.

Just don't put yourself in a position where she thinks you need sex more than she does.

**Dale Mabry** · 07-06-2005, 09:50 AM

Why buy the cow when it ain't giving any milk?

I would say cut her off from sex and just download porn, porn doesn't talk back.

**ponyboy** · 07-06-2005, 10:13 AM

Get her all revved up telling her you're thinking about something sweet and tasty, start nibbling on her ear lobe and then as she thinks you're about to give her some lean over and whisper...

"How about a sandwich?"

**SJ69** · 07-06-2005, 11:18 AM

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Why buy the cow when it ain't giving any milk?

I would say cut her off from sex and just download porn, porn doesn't talk back.

**SJ69** · 07-06-2005, 11:24 AM

Originally Posted by ponyboy

Get her all revved up telling her you're thinking about something sweet and tasty, start nibbling on her ear lobe and then as she thinks you're about to give her some lean over and whisper...

"How about a sandwich?"

That's part of my problem, I'm not that cruel.

**Dale Mabry** · 07-06-2005, 11:50 AM

Originally Posted by ponyboy

Get her all revved up telling her you're thinking about something sweet and tasty, start nibbling on her ear lobe and then as she thinks you're about to give her some lean over and whisper...

"How about a sandwich?"

Add to it...

"So get your ass in the kitchen and make it, boeeyotch."

**oaktownboy** · 07-06-2005, 12:00 PM

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Why buy the cow when it ain't giving any milk?

I would say cut her off from sex and just download porn, porn doesn't talk back.

I should make a therad dedicated to classic quotes.

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