Thread: Is it possible to fall in love after its over?

I think in that cause it would be more infatuation than love, but it's possible.

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Just thinking today about this. Do any of you think its possible to fall in love or FINALLY love someone you were once with? For instance, lets say you fuck up and cheat, lie, or do something that pisses your partner off enough to end the relationship. Then youre alone, thinking about the mistakes you made. Then possibly you date someone else, but it doesnt work out cuz you are thinking of the "ex." At this point, is it possible to love that person?

On a personal level, I have lost someone here and there and after they are gone, sometimes, I value them more than I did before. I thought about it and wondered if it was just cuz I wanted something I couldnt have..but then again... Would pride cause one to think about someone all the time, prevents them from eating, prevents sleep, possible begging, possible tears, possible "promises," etc? Maybe. But at that point, it would sound more like someone got their heart broken to me...

Just some thoughts..

Sure it's possible but move on... Learn from it and apply it now. Don't make the same foolish mistakes with the next person. Never take what you do have for granted...

I used to talk to this girl that let me put it in the butt from time to time, and then we got in a huge fight about me just wanting her because she likes it in the ass and stopped talking. I miss doing her in the ass, thats for sure, but I bet I could get over it if another girl let me put it in the ass.

Originally Posted by gococksDJS

I used to talk to this girl that let me put it in the butt from time to time, and then we got in a huge fight about me just wanting her because she likes it in the ass and stopped talking. I miss doing her in the ass, thats for sure, but I bet I could get over it if another girl let me put it in the ass.

Bitch you don't loooove me...
You just love my doggystyle...

Originally Posted by gococksDJS

I used to talk to this girl that let me put it in the butt from time to time, and then we got in a huge fight about me just wanting her because she likes it in the ass and stopped talking. I miss doing her in the ass, thats for sure, but I bet I could get over it if another girl let me put it in the ass.

You ever considered dating Min0 lee?

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Just thinking today about this. Do any of you think its possible to fall in love or FINALLY love someone you were once with? For instance, lets say you fuck up and cheat, lie, or do something that pisses your partner off enough to end the relationship. Then youre alone, thinking about the mistakes you made. Then possibly you date someone else, but it doesnt work out cuz you are thinking of the "ex." At this point, is it possible to love that person?

On a personal level, I have lost someone here and there and after they are gone, sometimes, I value them more than I did before. I thought about it and wondered if it was just cuz I wanted something I couldnt have..but then again... Would pride cause one to think about someone all the time, prevents them from eating, prevents sleep, possible begging, possible tears, possible "promises," etc? Maybe. But at that point, it would sound more like someone got their heart broken to me...

Just some thoughts..

if u think about it the seven deadly sins all have the power to destroy us and pride is one of them. when i was in college i had a mentor who told me things that always turned out later to be proven true. like the one with the power in a relationship is always the one with the least to lose and that it is much easier to lose someone when there is not another woman (or man if u are a guy) involved. pride can make you cling to someone you don't really even want. i think you are asking some clever questions but only you can know what is truly in your heart. if it is pride let him go.

Originally Posted by bkc

You ever considered dating Min0 lee?

Figuring out Min0's sexuality is like figuring out where the Holy Grail is hidden. It's elusive, it's tricky, it's never what it seems, right when you think you have it figured out, something makes you even more confused, and once you actually figure it out you may regret that you ever did.

Originally Posted by rockgazer69

if u think about it the seven deadly sins all have the power to destroy us and pride is one of them. when i was in college i had a mentor who told me things that always turned out later to be proven true. like the one with the power in a relationship is always the one with the least to lose and that it is much easier to lose someone when there is not another woman (or man if u are a guy) involved. pride can make you cling to someone you don't really even want. i think you are asking some clever questions but only you can know what is truly in your heart. if it is pride let him go.

Great insight! I agree 100%. She is dead on correct...

Originally Posted by gococksDJS

Figuring out Min0's sexuality is like figuring out where the Holy Grail is hidden. It's elusive, it's tricky, it's never what it seems, right when you think you have it figured out, something makes you even more confused, and once you actually figure it out you may regret that you ever did.

So that's a maybe?...

In my estimation, most like what they can't have. I have always found that gals that have liked me don't like me once I like them.

This sums it up...

Our eyes met accross the crowded hat store. I, a customer, and she, a coquettish haberdasher. Oh, I pursued and she withdrew, then she pursued and I withdrew... and so we danced. I burned for her, much like the burning during urination that I would experience soon afterwards.

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

In my estimation, most like what they can't have. I have always found that gals that have liked me don't like me once I like them.

This sums it up...

Our eyes met accross the crowded hat store. I, a customer, and she, a coquettish haberdasher. Oh, I pursued and she withdrew, then she pursued and I withdrew... and so we danced. I burned for her, much like the burning during urination that I would experience soon afterwards.

Yep, yep... That's a part of pride as well...

PRIDE IS WHY THE DEVIL IS THE DEVIL......

Originally Posted by bkc

Great insight! I agree 100%. She is dead on correct...

thank you.

Originally Posted by gococksDJS

Figuring out Min0's sexuality is like figuring out where the Holy Grail is hidden. It's elusive, it's tricky, it's never what it seems, right when you think you have it figured out, something makes you even more confused, and once you actually figure it out you may regret that you ever did.

You read the Da Vinci Code, don't you?

NO!
move on

Originally Posted by musclepump

You read the Da Vinci Code, don't you?

Sure Langdon.

God, I am doing book remarks.

To answer the thread question. Yes, it is possible. Went through it, not good.

Originally Posted by AKIRA

On a personal level, I have lost someone here and there and after they are gone, sometimes, I value them more than I did before.

Are you stating or asking, is the saying "you dont appreciate something until its gone" is true?