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Old 09-07-2005, 10:14 PM   #1
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Angry Anyone still shy with approaching girls?

I fucking am.

God knows why. I have gotten some real knockouts and I can talk pretty good. Its just that first thought of the first approach. Nothing to worry about or be scared of, but I still hesitate.

UGH, fucking sucks.



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I just chicken-ed out from talking to Carmen Electra...so yeah. Plus, she is married anyhow.
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stuff 2 large tube socks in the front of your pants and they will approach you.
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Old 09-07-2005, 10:43 PM   #5
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I fucking am.

God knows why. I have gotten some real knockouts and I can talk pretty good. Its just that first thought of the first approach. Nothing to worry about or be scared of, but I still hesitate.

UGH, fucking sucks.

same here - i have the exact same problem.



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I am afraid that they turn out gay. My gaydar is broken.



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Old 09-07-2005, 10:51 PM   #7
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same here - i have the exact same problem.
stuff 2 large tube socks in the front of your pants and they will approach you.
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Old 09-07-2005, 10:56 PM   #8
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I'm terrified of women!!!
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stuff 2 large tube socks in the front of your pants and they will approach you.
haha they will be scared off thinking i have the mumps



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I'm terrified of women!!!
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haha they will be scared off thinking i have the mumps
you were your pants around your neck???
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I'm sure they feel the same
I wish I could be more like you!
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I am in hell, its leg day and I have real bad gas!!!!
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you were your pants around your neck???

in some cases mumps swell up your balls to the size of tennis balls.



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in some cases mumps swell up your balls to the size of tennis balls.
I guess you learn something new everyday
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sounds like the entire gym is in hell then
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it just turned midnight here, I've been waiting all night to go!!
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I just chicken-ed out from talking to Carmen Electra...so yeah. Plus, she is married anyhow.
Married? Yeah, to that "im pretending not to be gay" muscisian? Reminds me of Prince. She NEEDS to be stolen. I love her.

I cant put a finger on why I hesitate. It goes form fear of rejection all the way to "im too good for her." Just a bunch of stupid excuses.



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stuff 2 large tube socks in the front of your pants and they will approach you.

In truth, almost every girl I have gotten has come to me. Its nice and it makes you feel kind of good, but theres no sense of accomplishment. She did all the work! Plus, not all girls go to guys.

The times I do approach girls, I guess if I dont get the same reaction that I get when the past girls approached me, then I feel that the girl I approached sucks, is gay, has a bfriend, is not interested, etc. My girl friends say its cuz I am intmidating or something. Shit, thats nice to hear, but what good does it do me if its true.



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Married? Yeah, to that "im pretending not to be gay" muscisian? Reminds me of Prince. She NEEDS to be stolen. I love her.

I cant put a finger on why I hesitate. It goes form fear of rejection all the way to "im too good for her." Just a bunch of stupid excuses.
Yeah Carmen is beautiful, and seems to have a great personality. Dave Navarro is a lucky guy, and if he is gay, then that is just wrong.

But it is weird how some of the most beautiful men in the world get turn downed by girls. You can't know what "type" of man a girl is looking for without talking to them and "giving it a shot". Most guys think if they get turned down, then they must be ugly or a dork, etc. When in reality, they just may not be her type. I work with a bunch of SINGLE beautiful girls (only one has a boyfriend)...and you know why? Guys don't ask them out. I would think any guy that is somewhat attractive and respectful asked out 10 beautiful women, he could get a date with at least one of them.
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But it is weird how some of the most beautiful men in the world get turn downed by girls. You can't know what "type" of man a girl is looking for without talking to them and "giving it a shot". Most guys think if they get turned down, then they must be ugly or a dork, etc. When in reality, they just may not be her type. I work with a bunch of SINGLE beautiful girls (only one has a boyfriend)...and you know why? Guys don't ask them out. I would think any guy that is somewhat attractive and respectful asked out 10 beautiful women, he could get a date with at least one of them.
Yeah thats true. I was told that some really hot friends of girl friends of mine dont get asked out much. But to tell you the truth, the real hot girls that I would be too shy to approach look like snobs. Yeah, they look good and all, but some dont seem approachable. Like they are already with the best person in the world, themselves.

I will also respond to your other comment about "beautiful men." I am not sure if Id use that word, but yea I know exactly what ur talking about. And these girls that pass them up, end up with lil dorks. Its as if they settle for less, cuz the lil dorks will never have another girl that good looking again and that gives the girl control. But that just sucks.

Me? I would say I am picky. But I am realistic. For instance, ehres a perfect example. Theres a girl who works at my Golds. Shes cute as hell, but not my "type." But 2 days ago, she started talking to me. And just cuz of that, she looks all the better. I guess I respond to niceness in a positive way. However, it seems some girls dont react that way and thus, stick to their "type."



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I'm pretty shy. I've never approached a girl I didn't know before. I've always met girls casually.. friends of a friend. It's worked for me so far.



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Old 09-08-2005, 06:43 PM   #26
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Met this one girl in english class freshman year, was shy about asking her out, and we've been dating for two years coming up on the 19th... Gotta say that was the only good part about Mrs. Moraga's freshman english class, lol.



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