Thread: Changing

Originally Posted by Vieope

Have you ever had to change something in your personality or lifestyle because of someone? Like a person you were dating or friends.

I'm not changing shit. If I did then you wouldn't have the real PT. Pretending to be something else always comes back to haunt you. So fuck it, what you see is what you get with me. You love me or you hate me, no in between. Mr. Foremanrules knows this about me. We have a lot of respect for each other as we just do what is natural when he comes to visit. If he pisses me off I let him know and vice verse. No pretending to be something we aren't.

word..why would u change yourself for someone else?

Originally Posted by oaktownboy

word..why would u change yourself for someone else?

Because changing can be a nice thing. Like stop smoking because your girlfriend asked you or start eating better because your friends support a healthy lifestyle.

Originally Posted by Vieope

Have you ever had to change something in your personality or lifestyle because of someone? Like a person you were dating or friends.

I had to change my personality for my own sake, not for anybody elses. I am who I am, because that is who I want to be.

I am constatnly improving myself and pushing myself to evolve for the better. I do it for me and for me alone, I dont mean to sound selfish, but it is my life.

I agree with oaktown and KelJu, why change for someone else? If you are gonna change it's gotta be because you want it, not someone else. If you sell out and change for someone else, you would just hate them in long run because they are trying to make you do something you don't want to.

"I live uptown
I live downtown
I live all around
I had money, and I had none x2
But I never been so broke
That I couldn’t leave town
I’m a changeling, see me change x2"

Originally Posted by Vieope

Have you ever had to change something in your personality or lifestyle because of someone? Like a person you were dating or friends.

I quit looking for a relationship after my 2nd relationship (wich was online) ended.

Best choice I made because I can now look for a career and work and not have a man in the way.