Thread: Once a cheat, always a cheat?

Its a daunting question...but at somepoint in your life (if your lucky or unlucky, however way you wish to view it)..at somepoint you may have the choice to become an adulterer. There you go...i said it! A situation which has become very common over the last decade or so...especially here in the uk...and i would have thought definatley so in the states. So have you had the chance to go behind your girls/guys back, had an affair with a married woman/man. Why are more and more people choosing this road rather than end one relationship before they start another. You have to ask yourself if you are having an affair, would you like it being done to you? Is it the fact that its more exciting...the fact that your shagging someone else and getting away with it? Has it become that easy to do it...

Do you guys in the states have that private investigator series CHEATERS on TV, i cant remember what its called...i think its american anyway. The one where he's hired to catch out partners that are cheating...It is lame! But the reality is thats what really happens....

So i put it to you guys/gals....how many of you would cheat, have cheated and for what reasons is acceptable....Wud it not be easier to end a relationship or maybe easier to have 3 men/women on the go? Think really hard and answer honestly..........And yes I have cheated but Im not proud of it....My excuse used to be a typical blokes thing..."I couldnt help myself, it was like being in a sweetshop and guy at the counter said help yourself"..or "Its a natural guys instinct to not turn down a woman regardless of whether your in a relationship" or everyones favourite "I was pi**ed babe, i didnt know what i was doing...hell i was so drunk it could've been a guy babe!"...Ive been a true Ar**hole to women in the past.

Is it right or wrong?......is it unforgivable?......is everybody doing it and no-one has any idea there doing it?

Konan.

Here's a weird one...

I have never cheated in relationships I've had w/my women...

But I have numerous times been, "The Other Man", in other couples relationships...

(But I am too old for even that drama now)