Thread: Losing my mind

what branch of service is he in

Army.

It won't be worth it, until he gets out your going to have a very tough and lonely life. I don't know you by any means but I've been in the Military for 6yrs now and seen hundreds of situations like this and they most of time don't work. Put the house in his name or rent it out, keep ur job, stay near your family until he is in a more stable situation.

After he's done with this, he will be out for good. Sometime between December and February. I've already bought the house.

You more than likely won't pay any mind to my advice above so go to
www.military.com and go to the forums there, they have a lot info and asistance programs setup for spouses.

So what your saying is that you won't have a job and neither will he. Is there and specific reason your moving there and he's not going to just move to where your at? If he is not going to be in the service what is his plan? Sounds like you kinda jumped the gun here, it's ok though this house could be a money maker for you. Find good renters and with realestate market these days you will not loose money.

No, as of right now, I don't have a job. I have several interviews lined up, so I don't think it will be a problem. It is a little unnerving though to know I have a mortgage waiting for me and no job. He still has some school to finish up when he gets out of the military, unless he can get some done over the next few months while he's in. So no, officially he will not have a job either when he gets out. The job market is a lot better where I'm moving to than it is here, so I should be making more than enough money myself to take care of things.

I'm just really stressed and freaking out right now, so I thought I'd come here to vent a little. Thanks for your concern though, and the information. I'll check out the website.

Ok, going to give my notice now. Maybe the nausea will go away after that.

I'm also freaking out for different reasons...

Originally Posted by sdupdike

No, as of right now, I don't have a job. I have several interviews lined up, so I don't think it will be a problem. It is a little unnerving though to know I have a mortgage waiting for me and no job. He still has some school to finish up when he gets out of the military, unless he can get some done over the next few months while he's in. So no, officially he will not have a job either when he gets out. The job market is a lot better where I'm moving to than it is here, so I should be making more than enough money myself to take care of things.

I'm just really stressed and freaking out right now, so I thought I'd come here to vent a little. Thanks for your concern though, and the information. I'll check out the website.

Ok, going to give my notice now. Maybe the nausea will go away after that.

By any chance are you over weight. If so sue McDonalds for making you fat. The settlement will hold you over until your man's out of the Army.

If that doesn't work let me know and I'll think of a few other ways to hold you over

Originally Posted by Tough Old Man

By any chance are you over weight. If so sue McDonalds for making you fat. The settlement will hold you over until your man's out of the Army.

If that doesn't work let me know and I'll think of a few other ways to hold you over

Jodi's going to "virtually" hold you over her knee if you don't play nicely with others you Ornery Old Coot.

Don't do it.

Originally Posted by maniclion

Jodi's going to "virtually" hold you over her knee if you don't play nicely with others you Ornery Old Coot.

True Story

think of a point in time prior to now when you were very worried about something n know you made it thru that and can make it thru this. i stopped worrying so much by just thinking of how many things in the past i was so upset over n how they always turned out fine anyway.

Originally Posted by BigDyl

Don't do it.

She already bought a house.

First time I see a woman with a car in the avatar.

Originally Posted by Tough Old Man

By any chance are you over weight. If so sue McDonalds for making you fat. The settlement will hold you over until your man's out of the Army.

If that doesn't work let me know and I'll think of a few other ways to hold you over

i sued dominoes pizza and frito lay they gave me free gym memberships

Originally Posted by Super Hulk

i sued dominoes pizza and frito lay they gave me free gym memberships

We see it didn't help you.