Thread: How do I get over a breakup?

Originally Posted by Pipboy

Going through one with my girl now. After what she did to me it was time to cut her loose. (Health forum). Unfortunately, her shit is still in my house. It's packed up, but it's still here until tuesday night.

Nights are hard. When the friends have gone to bed I can't sleep. I can't induldge in my favorite sin foods because I lack an appetite. My old activities aren't doing the trick. I can't even enjoy a good book or a favorite show.

How do I pass the time to get her off my mind?

#1. purt her stuff at the curb.....it's not your problem.
#2. just go do stuff...go out have fun, hang with old friends...make some new ones.

Originally Posted by Pipboy

Going through one with my girl now. After what she did to me it was time to cut her loose. (Health forum). Unfortunately, her shit is still in my house. It's packed up, but it's still here until tuesday night.

Nights are hard. When the friends have gone to bed I can't sleep. I can't induldge in my favorite sin foods because I lack an appetite. My old activities aren't doing the trick. I can't even enjoy a good book or a favorite show.

How do I pass the time to get her off my mind?

go do some grudge F****G

Start hanging out with other girls.

Time. It takes time.

Sure... you can fill your days and evenings with a host of actiities but only time will heal a wounded heart.

There is no "quick fix".

Hangeth thou in there.

Originally Posted by Witmaster

Time. It takes time.

Yeah man, it takes time. 5 years is a long time to be with someone when you're only 21. It'll help if you rid your place of all her belongings, and seeing how she cheated on you, that means throwing her stuff out or peeing on it.

Be strong and don't contact her. A clean break is a lot easier than letting it drag on.

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

Be strong and don't contact her. A clean break is a lot easier than letting it drag on.

Yes that is true. It took me about a year to get over my first love. I was with her for a little over 2 years. I hated those weekends when you would stay up and think about her.

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

Yeah man, it takes time. 5 years is a long time to be with someone when you're only 21. It'll help if you rid your place of all her belongings, and seeing how she cheated on you, that means throwing her stuff out or peeing on it.

Be strong and don't contact her. A clean break is a lot easier than letting it drag on.

You are kind. I would destroy all the belongings

He's right though. Clean break. Time will heal. It doesn't happen overnight. Look into some St. Johns Wort and Kava Kava. Another good one would be Rhodiola Rosecea. They will help with the depressed state and help you relax a bit.

Pick up a sport or hobby. Why not go out and hang with your friends?

IN all honesty, hearing our advice is going to easier said than done to you, but youre gonna have to BELIEVE the advice. Believe this pain will go away. Believe that none of these worries, dark nights (or days), and mopey thoughts are important.

However, besides time, I didnt get over any of them easily. However, I noticed that talking with GUYS was better than girls. It seems a girl's advice, although is accurate and 100% true, its not what you need to hear. Guys, on the other hand, will offer you a fast, clean solution. "Fuck her." "screw that bitch, who needs her." "Lets get you laid." It makes a snow ball effect. That, along with time, builds up a tolerance to your pain or helps you forget the pain.

Other than that, I stayed with my friends a LOT. It involved a lot of drinking, partying, but laughing. Fighting, arguing, but smiling. I even had nights, that werent even fun and Id wish 'she' were with me, but I must say, as much as youd want her there, a part of you will be glad she isnt.

Feed that feeling!

All I can say is dont spend time alone, you'll just dwell on it. Hang out with your buds, meet other women.

I was with my ex for freakin many years, it took a while to get over it. All it takes is another hottie to make you forget about her.

i highly recommend getting your game on as soon as possible. in other words other women. you need to trust that she is really not the only other girl in the world you can or will love. even just finding other girls to talk to will help but laugh n n flirt don't whine about her. open yourself up to new possibilities.

Originally Posted by Jodi

You are kind. I would destroy all the belongings

He's right though. Clean break. Time will heal. It doesn't happen overnight. Look into some St. Johns Wort and Kava Kava. Another good one would be Rhodiola Rosecea. They will help with the depressed state and help you relax a bit.

Does that shit really work?

I mean, do we have any members with first hand feedback?
And does it work right away or must you build it up like prozac?

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Does that shit really work?

I mean, do we have any members with first hand feedback?
And does it work right away or must you build it up like prozac?

I've tried St. Johns before, I definitely noticed it in my system. I like Valerian Root as well, I take that now at night when I'm restless.

Originally Posted by Pipboy

How do I pass the time to get her off my mind?

Just do what you should have been doing for the last 5 years... Meeting, dating and having fun with lots of girls. (and not getting serious with any of them)

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Does that shit really work?

I think angry pirating the next chick he hooks up with would work better.

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Does that shit really work?

I mean, do we have any members with first hand feedback?
And does it work right away or must you build it up like prozac?

Yeah the shit really works. I wouldn't ever recommend anything to people that I have not tried and had good results with before myself.

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

I think angry pirating the next chick he hooks up with would work better.

I agree 100%

Grow a sack and start playing the field...

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

I think angry pirating the next chick he hooks up with would work better.

Garrh!

I had to look up what an angry pirate was and I haven't laughed so hard in days. rofl.

I think I need to angry pirate my ex.

Step 1.)Gather girlfriends belonging in a garbage can. (metal)
Step 2.)purchase one gallon of gasoline.
Step 3.)pour gasoline on belongings.
Step 4.)Call EX and tell her to come by.
Step 5.)wait outside by trash can.
Step 6.)when Ex arrives and approaches you, stike match and throw in can.
Step 7.)Give finger.
Step 8.)walk in house. (without her)
Step 9.)Lock Door.
Step 10.)Never talk to her again.

Originally Posted by CRASHMAN

Step 1.)Gather girlfriends belonging in a garbage can. (metal)
Step 2.)purchase one gallon of gasoline.
Step 3.)pour gasoline on belongings.
Step 4.)Call EX and tell her to come by.
Step 5.)wait outside by trash can.
Step 6.)when Ex arrives and approaches you, stike match and throw in can.
Step 7.)Give finger.
Step 8.)walk in house. (without her)
Step 9.)Lock Door.
Step 10.)Never talk to her again.

A little out there but destroying her stuff wll probably get some rage out of your system... im not kidding; it's not conventional but i know it'd make me feel better. Break it, smash it, trash it, have a good long cry, and DO NOT talk to her. Ever again.