When is it reasonable to cheat?

**AKIRA** · 10-13-2006, 07:52 PM

i am not asking if you would cheat or have, but what would you say constitutes a good reason to cheat?

Ive got a lot of lying bastards at LS1.COM about cheating on their wives and it got me thinking...if one is too much of a chicken shit to break up with a bitch of a wife or girlfriend, what elements would have to occur to make a fellow faithful chap to say, "well, when you put it that way.."

This goes for women as well.. Shit, we all know women who have asshole bfriends whom they cheat on, but never leave (or stay away from).

**BigDyl** · 10-13-2006, 08:01 PM

Never son, now go cry and eat a raw root vegetable.

**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 08:11 PM

a good reason would be when girl B is hotter.

**Jodi** · 10-13-2006, 08:25 PM

You should never cheat. Break up with your SO if you feel the need to cheat. And if you can't break up with that person and cheat anyway, you are a loser.

**AKIRA** · 10-13-2006, 08:37 PM

Originally Posted by Jodi

You should never cheat. Break up with your SO if you feel the need to cheat. And if you can't break up with that person and cheat anyway, you are a loser.

That reasoning has been beaten to death. Someone will always have a excuse.

An excuse that is typically heard is "cuz she cheated on me." Sure hes a puss for staying in and sinking to their level, but I am sure someone has heard some other bone head excuse that might make a moment's entertainment.

**Vieope** · 10-13-2006, 08:46 PM

Originally Posted by Jodi

You should never cheat. Break up with your SO if you feel the need to cheat. And if you can't break up with that person and cheat anyway, you are a loser.

That would be the ideal thing to do. But sometimes people dont have time, you meet someone charming, smart, things can happen really fast and it can happen to anyone.

**Jodi** · 10-13-2006, 08:48 PM

Originally Posted by Vieope

That would be the ideal thing to do. But sometimes people dont have time, you meet someone charming, smart, things can happen really fast and it can happen to anyone.

Oh that's bullshit.

Obviously if you out meeting someone else or allowing yourself to meet someone else than you should have already broken up with the SO.

**Vieope** · 10-13-2006, 08:57 PM

Originally Posted by Jodi

Oh that's bullshit.

Obviously if you out meeting someone else or allowing yourself to meet someone else than you should have already broken up with the SO.

I doesnt need to be something like a date or going to a bar, one day you are working or doing something else and you meet someone. Three hours later you are getting dressed again.

**AKIRA** · 10-13-2006, 08:59 PM

Hell yeah..especially for those of you who believe in fate.

**Pipboy** · 10-13-2006, 09:20 PM

100% with Jodi.

**Tatyana** · 10-13-2006, 09:34 PM

Originally Posted by Vieope

I doesnt need to be something like a date or going to a bar, one day you are working or doing something else and you meet someone. Three hours later you are getting dressed again.

Yes because you know, I was just minding my own business in the supermarket the other day, and WHAMMO, this penis just fell into my vagina!

I wish

What I find highly cowardly and repugnant is those people that pre-bound, line someone else up before they end the previous relationship.

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**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by Tatyana

What I find highly cowardly and repugnant is those people that pre-bound, line someone else up before they end the previous relationship.

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That's life. Some things aern't right, but everyone still does it.

**Tatyana** · 10-13-2006, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by viet_jon

That's life. Some things aern't right, but everyone still does it.

I don't.

And I will not date anyone that is doing this.

Actually puts me off them.

T

**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 09:42 PM

Opps....i shoulda said most people do.

Originally Posted by Tatyana

I don't.

And I will not date anyone that is doing this.

Actually puts me off them.

T

and how would you know if someone is doing this?

**Tatyana** · 10-13-2006, 09:48 PM

There is this one guy I know from a BBing board who has been trying to 'start a relationship' with me for ages now.

He did say he had left his girlfriend, but then keeps posting stuff about his GF.

I told him that I wouldn't date him if he was still involved. He referred to it as 'licking the wounds'.

I have to tell him now he has no hope in hell of ever dating me.

In all honesty I have been caught out before.

There are often signs though that are quite obvious. It does help that I keep my knix on for quite a long time, so my judgement is not impaired by all the loved up biochemistry that kicks off.

When the biological wiring is involved "love" is blind.

I just think it is a matter of respect.

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**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 10:19 PM

Originally Posted by Tatyana

There is this one guy I know from a BBing board who has been trying to 'start a relationship' with me for ages now.

He did say he had left his girlfriend, but then keeps posting stuff about his GF.

I told him that I wouldn't date him if he was still involved. He referred to it as 'licking the wounds'.

I have to tell him now he has no hope in hell of ever dating me.

In all honesty I have been caught out before.

There are often signs though that are quite obvious. It does help that I keep my knix on for quite a long time, so my judgement is not impaired by all the loved up biochemistry that kicks off.

When the biological wiring is involved "love" is blind. Agreed.

I just think it is a matter of respect.

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ewww.....internet dating!!! i had one bad experience and never looked back!!!

the way I see it, you really don't get to know the person you think your "knowing". And when you actually meet them, hell breaks loose.

**Jodi** · 10-13-2006, 10:21 PM

Dante and I met on internet, PFunk and GG met on the internet and Jenny and Eggs just got married recently. Granted IM is not a dating forum

**The Monkey Man** · 10-13-2006, 10:22 PM

Originally Posted by Tatyana

There is this one guy I know from a BBing board who has been trying to 'start a relationship' with me for ages now.

He did say he had left his girlfriend, but then keeps posting stuff about his GF.

I told him that I wouldn't date him if he was still involved. He referred to it as 'licking the wounds'.

I have to tell him now he has no hope in hell of ever dating me.

In all honesty I have been caught out before.

There are often signs though that are quite obvious. It does help that I keep my knix on for quite a long time, so my judgement is not impaired by all the loved up biochemistry that kicks off.

When the biological wiring is involved "love" is blind.

I just think it is a matter of respect.

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You can come stay with me in the west if you like???

I have room and can only say nice things about you
(I like your positive threads)

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**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 10:25 PM

Originally Posted by Jodi

Dante and I met on internet, PFunk and GG met on the internet and Jenny and Eggs just got married recently. Granted IM is not a dating forum

Pfunk and GG????? no way!!!! nvr knew that....

**Jodi** · 10-13-2006, 10:26 PM

LOL, yeah and they even now live near Dante and I.

**TJ Cline** · 10-13-2006, 10:27 PM

Cheating is for losers.

**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

Cheating is for losers.

cheating is for those who score dates.

**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by Jodi

LOL, yeah and they even now live near Dante and I.

this Dante?

**TJ Cline** · 10-13-2006, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by viet_jon

cheating is for those who score dates.

A real man has no need to cheat, he gets pussy when he wants it. Cheating is for losers who jump at any chance for any pussy.....those boys are pathetic and almost never get laid.

**Jodi** · 10-13-2006, 10:32 PM

Yes, that Dante.

**The Monkey Man** · 10-13-2006, 10:32 PM

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

Cheating is for losers.

Like any cheating... Don't you only lose when you get caught?

**viet_jon** · 10-13-2006, 10:37 PM

I'm just macho talking about this cheating stuff. I never cheated once in my life.

If I ever caught a girl that I really liked cheating on me, it would tear up my insides. So I would never do that to a girl.

There's many girls 'out there', so there's no need to juggle.

**TJ Cline** · 10-13-2006, 10:39 PM

Originally Posted by The Monkey Man

Like any cheating... Don't you only lose when you get caught?

Cheating on taxes or a job ect is ok....if you don't get cought.

**Vieope** · 10-13-2006, 10:42 PM

Originally Posted by Tatyana

Yes because you know, I was just minding my own business in the supermarket the other day, and WHAMMO, this penis just fell into my vagina!

I wish

What I find highly cowardly and repugnant is those people that pre-bound, line someone else up before they end the previous relationship.

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T

Even if it doesnt happen this fast to everybody. The truth is that when you feel like you are going to cheat, you stop caring for the person you are about to cheat. I know it is horrible but that is how most people do things.

**The Monkey Man** · 10-13-2006, 10:44 PM

I used to play the game and try to juggle three women at the same time...

I always got caught, then word got around

Then I had to play around with women who were already playing around,
so no one talked

Not too many meaningful relationships came from that period -

Now I'm just brutally honest, and if I don't like something, I say it
No secrets... and I expect the same

Its just easier that way - the game makes me tired and I have less energy for sex -

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