Is your significant other in shape?

**AKIRA** · 10-22-2006, 03:19 PM

I am not talking about a girlfriend who just has a nice body, I mean someone who works out and eats right..at least enough to render favorable results.

I know some people show disgust to others who eat right. "How can you eat that shit?" Either way, sometimes we live with these people..and as one looks better as time goes by, the other looks worse. What do you do then? Get rid of them?

Id see no other choice.

**MyK** · 10-22-2006, 03:21 PM

monogomy is a socially constructed tool, used by women to trap you!

**Tatyana** · 10-22-2006, 03:24 PM

Originally Posted by MyK

monogomy is a socially constructed tool, used by women to trap you!

There is a school of thought that monogamy/marriage was a MALE invention, devised to be able to control female sexuality.

How many men do you know that can have multiple orgasms and continue to shag all night?

Maybe some young ones, yes, but this erection turnover or refractory rate does increase with age in men.

I think there are men and women that are a bit cagey about commitment.

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**Tatyana** · 10-22-2006, 03:27 PM

Originally Posted by MyK

monogomy is a socially constructed tool, used by women to trap you!

If you think about this logically, women really haven't had any social influence until the last erm, 30 -50 years, and marriage and monogamy are much older, so how could women have constructed this?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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**MyK** · 10-22-2006, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by Tatyana

There is a school of thought that monogamy/marriage was a MALE invention, devised to be able to control female sexuality.

How many men do you know that can have multiple orgasms and continue to shag all night?

Maybe some young ones, yes, but this erection turnover or refractory rate does increase with age in men.

I think there are men and women that are a bit cagey about commitment.

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1, the only one I care about!

**MyK** · 10-22-2006, 03:29 PM

Originally Posted by Tatyana

If you think about this logically, women really haven't had any social influence until the last erm, 30 -50 years, and marriage and monogamy are much older, so how could women have constructed this?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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please, I'd say women control the relationship in 80% of the cases!

but it depends on how they plan to use the man, either as a provider or as a lover!

**Pianomahnn** · 10-22-2006, 07:03 PM

/me checks right hand

Yup, in pretty good shape.

**Tatyana** · 10-22-2006, 07:10 PM

Originally Posted by Pianomahnn

/me checks right hand

Yup, in pretty good shape.

LOL!

Me too, no significant other

However I think the next time I hook up with someone I will have brain and brawn, dreamy!

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**viet_jon** · 10-22-2006, 07:31 PM

Originally Posted by MyK

please, I'd say women control the relationship in 80% of the cases!

but it depends on how they plan to use the man, either as a provider or as a lover!

So True!!!

my friends are all whiipppppppeedd!!!

guys need to man up..!!!!

**TrojanMan60563** · 10-22-2006, 08:35 PM

I don't think its natural to be with just one person your whole life...but I think its a great idea...with all the STDs and shit out there....besides if you care for someone the though of sharing them with another man/woman is not typically desired by either partner. I know if I were in a commited relationship I wouldn't be willing to share...and I have never met a girl that would be ok with sleeping with another girl.

**BigDyl** · 10-22-2006, 08:41 PM

Originally Posted by Pianomahnn

/me checks right hand

Yup, in pretty good shape.

/mode #Open Chat +b *@*Pianomahnn

**AKIRA** · 10-22-2006, 08:56 PM

Originally Posted by TrojanMan60563

I don't think its natural to be with just one person your whole life...but I think its a great idea...with all the STDs and shit out there....besides if you care for someone the though of sharing them with another man/woman is not typically desired by either partner. I know if I were in a commited relationship I wouldn't be willing to share...and I have never met a girl that would be ok with sleeping with another girl.

I dont care for girl on girl action. It doesnt turn me off, I just dont give a shit. Two hot girls can kiss all day long next to me. Unless theyre kissing me or my cock, I could care less.

The reason why I asked this, is well, I was looking at a woman in her 50s today and she looked horrible. Obviously, shes never worked out in her life, at least, not dedicated. She did have a wedding band though. So I wondered how much worse the husband could be..

Although she was hideous, that doesnt meant that the husband would be deconditioned. So it made me wonder.. If I found a hot fucking girl who fucked like a champ and had an ass that could kill families, would she look so good in so many years? How about after she has kids on top of that? If she never took careof herself, prolly not. SO what would I do? Would I be so disgusted that I would cheat, divorce, or other? Not sure.

On the flip side..

Would she find me annoying? Always going to the gym, weighing myself, weighing food! Shed prolly get sick of it too. See, I dont know, cuz I am 26.

Though I dont care right now, cuz I am not married, I was just curious if the average member here has a girlfriend that is in shape..

**Tatyana** · 10-22-2006, 09:29 PM

Originally Posted by AKIRA

I dont care for girl on girl action. It doesnt turn me off, I just dont give a shit. Two hot girls can kiss all day long next to me. Unless theyre kissing me or my cock, I could care less.

The reason why I asked this, is well, I was looking at a woman in her 50s today and she looked horrible. Obviously, shes never worked out in her life, at least, not dedicated. She did have a wedding band though. So I wondered how much worse the husband could be..

Although she was hideous, that doesnt meant that the husband would be deconditioned. So it made me wonder.. If I found a hot fucking girl who fucked like a champ and had an ass that could kill families, would she look so good in so many years? How about after she has kids on top of that? If she never took careof herself, prolly not. SO what would I do? Would I be so disgusted that I would cheat, divorce, or other? Not sure.

On the flip side..

Would she find me annoying? Always going to the gym, weighing myself, weighing food! Shed prolly get sick of it too. See, I dont know, cuz I am 26.

Though I dont care right now, cuz I am not married, I was just curious if the average member here has a girlfriend that is in shape..

The body does not have to 'go'.

I have seen some seriously sexy BBers into their 50 and 60s

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**The Monkey Man** · 10-22-2006, 09:32 PM

I wish I was "whipped" by a woman who trains and diets -

(I would be her sex slave if she owned me like that)

**ST240** · 10-22-2006, 10:03 PM

Originally Posted by BigDyl

/mode #Open Chat +b *@*Pianomahnn

**TJ Cline** · 10-22-2006, 11:57 PM

Originally Posted by MyK

monogomy is a socially constructed tool, used by women to trap you!

**gococksDJS** · 10-23-2006, 12:02 AM

I love sniffing my grandmothers Orthopedic socks while eating clumps of hair from her brush and letting her spray fart on my chin. It smells like baby food, which makes me think of being in shape.

**KentDog** · 10-23-2006, 01:11 AM

My girlfriend has an amazing body. She works out regularly (cardio kickboxing, spinning/biking classes, running, occasional weights) and she eats healthier than most (but not 100% "clean"). She's not as healthnut as most of us are (for example, the thought of weighing food disgusts her, and I don't think she would ever switch to a 100% clean diet). I like eating clean, but the longer I do this whole healthnut thing, the less important I feel it is. I am also pretty close to my desired weight range, which probably won't seem like much to you guys, but I don't want to get much bigger. As for my girlfriend, I don't feel she needs to eat clean as she's already got an amazing body and I admit it would be a turnoff to see her weighing food. She has never been fat, nor could I ever see her getting fat (she is pretty superficial when it comes to her looks and is very hard working).

**AKIRA** · 10-23-2006, 06:49 AM

Originally Posted by KentDog

My girlfriend has an amazing body. She works out regularly (cardio kickboxing, spinning/biking classes, running, occasional weights) and she eats healthier than most (but not 100% "clean"). She's not as healthnut as most of us are (for example, the thought of weighing food disgusts her, and I don't think she would ever switch to a 100% clean diet). I like eating clean, but the longer I do this whole healthnut thing, the less important I feel it is. I am also pretty close to my desired weight range, which probably won't seem like much to you guys, but I don't want to get much bigger. As for my girlfriend, I don't feel she needs to eat clean as she's already got an amazing body and I admit it would be a turnoff to see her weighing food. She has never been fat, nor could I ever see her getting fat (she is pretty superficial when it comes to her looks and is very hard working).

Thank you for the first real reply!

Where the hell are people's attention these days?

Oh and your goal will prolly be irrelevant once you hit it. Shit, I remember when 315 was all I wanted to do.

**The Write Stuff** · 10-23-2006, 07:34 AM

Akira,

Someday, you will be old and alone. And I -- 58 years old, out of shape now, but still with the same out-of-shape woman I committed to 15 years ago -- will be looking down at you, laughing my ass off.

**TrojanMan60563** · 10-23-2006, 07:42 AM

Originally Posted by The Write Stuff

Akira,

Someday, you will be old and alone. And I -- 58 years old, out of shape now, but still with the same out-of-shape woman I committed to 15 years ago -- will be looking down at you, laughing my ass off.

Isn't that the truth? Its nice to be a looker and have a trophy on your arm in public...but that doens't make for a great relationship. I'd rather be a fatty and marry a fatty if it mean I would be happy and in love for the rest of my life. I've been with all types of women and some of the worst have been the girls in real good shape...they know they are super hot and can have anyone. I don't need to be in a competition for the rest of my life with every man out there to keep my wife mine.

**MyK** · 10-23-2006, 07:54 AM

Originally Posted by The Write Stuff

Akira,

Someday, you will be old and alone. And I -- 58 years old, out of shape now, but still with the same out-of-shape woman I committed to 15 years ago -- will be looking down at you, laughing my ass off.

old random manowned!

**TJ Cline** · 10-23-2006, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by The Write Stuff

Akira,

Someday, you will be old and alone. And I -- 58 years old, out of shape now, but still with the same out-of-shape woman I committed to 15 years ago -- will be looking down at you, laughing my ass off.

I think AKIRA is a tool most of the time but I see nothing wrong with what he has said here.

When you are 58 you will be divorced 3x and broke so enjoy your fat gut. By this point all you will be able to get is fat women so enjoy, most of us will look 40 when we are in our 50's and will be enjoying all the benefits that go with that.

**MyK** · 10-23-2006, 07:56 AM

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

I think AKIRA is a tool most of the time but I see nothing wrong with what he has said here. When you are 58 you will be divoirced 3x and broke so enjoy your fat gut.

**MCx2** · 10-23-2006, 08:11 AM

Originally Posted by MyK

old random manowned!

**Pianomahnn** · 10-23-2006, 08:46 AM

Originally Posted by BigDyl

/mode #Open Chat +b *@*Pianomahnn

Dang, that's some real unnecessary hate.

**viet_jon** · 10-23-2006, 09:27 AM

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

I think AKIRA is a tool most of the time but I see nothing wrong with what he has said here.

When you are 58 you will be divorced 3x and broke so enjoy your fat gut. By this point all you will be able to get is fat women so enjoy, most of us will look 40 when we are in our 50's and will be enjoying all the benefits that go with that.

**AKIRA** · 10-23-2006, 12:07 PM

Originally Posted by The Write Stuff

Akira,

Someday, you will be old and alone. And I -- 58 years old, out of shape now, but still with the same out-of-shape woman I committed to 15 years ago -- will be looking down at you, laughing my ass off.

I asked a legitamate question and some people are sensitive enough to take it as offensive?

**AKIRA** · 10-23-2006, 12:08 PM

Originally Posted by TrojanMan60563

Isn't that the truth? Its nice to be a looker and have a trophy on your arm in public...but that doens't make for a great relationship. I'd rather be a fatty and marry a fatty if it mean I would be happy and in love for the rest of my life. I've been with all types of women and some of the worst have been the girls in real good shape...they know they are super hot and can have anyone. I don't need to be in a competition for the rest of my life with every man out there to keep my wife mine.

Oh yeah youre right. Ugly girls nor fat girls NEVER treat their men like shit.

**Jodi** · 10-23-2006, 12:18 PM

I think it's important to be with someone that follows the same lifestyle as you. That includes eating healthy and working out. I've tried it the other way and was with someone that didn't do that and the differences were too much to handle. It's nice being able to go out to dinner and both of us thinking of a place where we can get healthy food instead of fighting over how one wants pizza and the other just wants steak and veggies. It gets old. And then try having evening meals together where the other won't eat what you cook and you can't eat what they cook. And other thing they don't get......when you've dedicatd yourself to certain training days and you want to go workout and they want to go do something else. It pisses them off because now they feel they have to "wait" for you to finish working out. And my personal favorite, "you are starting to look like a guy" Oh for fuck sake, look at me, do I look like a freaking guy?

Soooo......anyway, there is my rant about that. If you live this lifestyle and you enjoy it, then find a significant other that follows it too.

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