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    I have a question for you guys

    Well, I havent been seeing my new boyfriend for that long, but we always have these great conversations over the phone, on MSN etc. But when we hang out like, in person, he hardly says a word. Like he is EXTREMELY shy. And I'm starting to take it really personally. Like yesterday i went and threw a football around with him and a friend at the park and he barely tlked to me and just kept taking off to tlk on his phone.
    And what really cut me deep was i wasnt feeling good that day so i didnt want to come out, so he said, "Fine, I'll just get another girl to come with us"
    I dont know what to do. I dont know if he just led me on or what. opinions?
    You know, the Nazis had pieces of flair that they made the Jews wear.

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    dump him. the i'll get another girl is totally out of line. dump him fast, you're letting yourself be shit on. i guess it was another guy but having sex when you were having your period when you didn't really want to shows you are too easy to manipulate. until you get a spine you're going to get stuck in a pattern of dating assholes.

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    Dump him, he is banging on the side.

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    Yah, like i could have bawled. Like he always butters me up and tells me how much he cares about me and that jazz, but then he says shit like that and it hurts so bad.
    You know, the Nazis had pieces of flair that they made the Jews wear.

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    Yah i think i may have too, he's kind of walking all over me
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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
    dump him. the i'll get another girl is totally out of line. dump him fast, you're letting yourself be shit on. i guess it was another guy but having sex when you were having your period when you didn't really want to shows you are too easy to manipulate. until you get a spine you're going to get stuck in a pattern of dating assholes.
    I agree!

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    he can only walk on you if you lay down n let him. there are two people to blame in that and only one with the power to stop it. if you had a daughter would you let a guy do that to her? no. so protect yourself too. even if this guy is hot wave bye bye. you can't polish a turd.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jodi View Post
    I agree!
    that's why you have a great guy.

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    You're absolutely right. But I'm just so scared that they'll hate me when i dont even do anything wrong. I do care about him but perhaps he is taking full advantage of it

    And he had told me in previous relationships he's cheated on purpose just to get caught? But at the same time he tells me his GF means everything too him. It's fucking weeeird
    You know, the Nazis had pieces of flair that they made the Jews wear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
    he can only walk on you if you lay down n let him. there are two people to blame in that and only one with the power to stop it. if you had a daughter would you let a guy do that to her? no. so protect yourself too. even if this guy is hot wave bye bye. you can't polish a turd.
    i love that haha
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    Ahh it's discourgaing but you're probably right. It was just something i wanted so bad so when it happened i was so happy, and now I'm sooooo down
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    Quote Originally Posted by DontStop View Post
    You're absolutely right. But I'm just so scared that they'll hate me when i dont even do anything wrong. I do care about him but perhaps he is taking full advantage of it

    And he had told me in previous relationships he's cheated on purpose just to get caught? But at the same time he tells me his GF means everything too him. It's fucking weeeird

    if you believe you are a person of value, treat yourself like you believe you are, and demand the same of others you will have good people around you. if you believe you are worth no more than what this guy is doing there you go. he's really not the problem. what you are willing to let others do to you is. it's not weird it's low self esteem. he sees it and is working it to his advantage. you really shouldn't care if the guy hates you he's shit.

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    Well I'm a really good person. I seem like a bag on here but I'm really nice and sincere. I am a person of value and I try so hard to be confident. And he never seemed that confident to me. He's really good looking but shy as sin, i just dont know why he feels he can tell me all these things and make me feel good one minute, and then the next, disregard my calls and tlk to me like im a waste of time. he wants me to move in with him too. lol ahh i could bawl
    You know, the Nazis had pieces of flair that they made the Jews wear.

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    Up in Edmonton. I want to break his legs right now too. He hasnt tlked to me since yesterday evening, and we usually talk ALOT
    You know, the Nazis had pieces of flair that they made the Jews wear.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
    that's why you have a great guy.
    Yeah but it takes several turds to get there

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    Quote Originally Posted by DontStop View Post
    Well I'm a really good person. I seem like a bag on here but I'm really nice and sincere. I am a person of value and I try so hard to be confident. And he never seemed that confident to me. He's really good looking but shy as sin, i just dont know why he feels he can tell me all these things and make me feel good one minute, and then the next, disregard my calls and tlk to me like im a waste of time. he wants me to move in with him too. lol ahh i could bawl
    Classic Hot/ Cold tactic. He's most likely playing with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DontStop View Post
    ...so he said, "Fine, I'll just get another girl to come with us"...
    You should have dumped him right then. The homo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DontStop View Post
    Well I'm a really good person. I seem like a bag on here but I'm really nice and sincere. I am a person of value and I try so hard to be confident. And he never seemed that confident to me. He's really good looking but shy as sin, i just dont know why he feels he can tell me all these things and make me feel good one minute, and then the next, disregard my calls and tlk to me like im a waste of time. he wants me to move in with him too. lol ahh i could bawl

    because so far you've allowed him to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
    because so far you've allowed him to.
    Precisely! This relates to what I was talking about in that other thread when you started calling things "bitches work". You do things for him and let him get away with whatever he wants and you are too afraid to stand up for yourself. You need to grow your spine now before you really get taken for a ride. This, I speak of from experience. I use to be the same way and I worked full time. It was my life that was ruined and I had to rebuild it and when I did, I swear that I would never let anyone take advantage of me and my good nature ever again.

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    Lets say he is not cheating. Lets add in that he does love you, and will be faithful. This is an attempt to cut out the presumptions everyone is making about him and get to what YOU need from HIM.

    At the base level of who you want to be with in your life ... does "Fine, I'll just get another girl to come with us" fit? That would be the end of our relationship for me. That moment defined him ... and he is not the one.

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    i wish i could get back all the years i wasted trying to polish turds. eventually you realize a man is what he is and an asshole isn't going to change just because he should or you would if you were him. the only thing you can really change is yourself and the standard you set for what makes a man worth your time.

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    You're young, beautiful, and have your whole life ahead of you. Dump him.

    Yes, it hurts but you must believe, you'll be fine and ultimately, you'll be a better person for it.

    Besides... you've always got us
    NEVER write a check with your mouth that you can't cash with your ASS!!

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    "Fine, I'll just get another girl to come with us"
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    Thanks you guys, for everything. The hot/cold thing he's played a few times and my tolerence is wearing pretty thin.
    If i actually end up tlking to him tonight I'll make it clear that i dont want anything to do with anyone who even implies he'll do things with another girl. bah i feel like a dumby
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    Quote Originally Posted by BoneCrusher View Post
    At the base level of who you want to be with in your life ... does "Fine, I'll just get another girl to come with us" fit? That would be the end of our relationship for me. That moment defined him ... and he is not the one.
    So you like a more sensitive guy, BC? BigDyl is pretty emo.

    DontStop-Dump him, he's playing you.
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