Anyone really hate anyone out there?

**juggernaut** · 05-31-2007, 08:54 PM

Ever since my mother in law died 3 months ago, my hatred towards my father in law has blossomed into a seething anger because of the way he treated her and since I partially blame him for her untimely death. I never trusted him, since he's a scumbag. I was brought up to not hate anyone, and for the most part, that is my credo, but my father in law comes EXTREMELY close.

Anyway, anyone really hate anyone out there?

How do you guys deal with this?

**Brachiisaurus** · 05-31-2007, 09:01 PM

Yes. I hate most people in fact.

I guess you could call me a true hater.

Those kind of thoughts are self-destructive...but I enjoy hating some people.

**juggernaut** · 05-31-2007, 09:03 PM

I dont mean the word "hater". I hate that word. i mean true obliterated anger or hatred towards another human being.

**Brachiisaurus** · 05-31-2007, 09:06 PM

Originally Posted by juggernaut

I dont mean the word "hater". I hate that word. i mean true obliterated anger or hatred towards another human being.

Ni**ers.

**juggernaut** · 05-31-2007, 09:08 PM

oh shit dont say that.

**BoneCrusher** · 05-31-2007, 09:10 PM

I hate. I embrace my hatred. It becomes a tool, a weapon. With it there is no mercy towards my enemies, nor hesitation in their destruction.

**Jodi** · 05-31-2007, 09:11 PM

I don't HATE anyone. There are people I dislike due to personality conflict but to me the word hate is too strong.

If anyone ever hurt my family, then I'd hate them and probably wish them dead too.

**mboylan86** · 06-01-2007, 03:06 AM

i hate....

people who drive 50 in the fast lane

women who dont check their mirrors before they pull out infront of me

the 3 people in my job who spend the whole day chit chatting about makeup and clothes and whats happening in big brother

people who claim they're irish because they "granddads brothers uncle's postmans friend was once bitten by an irish terrier"

mary harney

people who's parents but them houses and cars and they still bitch about life being hard

**tucker01** · 06-01-2007, 04:52 AM

Can't say I hate anyone. That is pretty strong.

**juggernaut** · 06-01-2007, 05:05 AM

Originally Posted by Jodi

I don't HATE anyone. There are people I dislike due to personality conflict but to me the word hate is too strong.

If anyone ever hurt my family, then I'd hate them and probably wish them dead too.

thats exactly how I feel. I had to spend the night with that asshole, and when I got home I had to take a shot of grey goose. I was seething. My wife knows how I feel, but I didn't tell her last night-she's got enough on her plate dealing with this dick.

**JonnyStead** · 06-01-2007, 05:11 AM

This is only an idea - but why dont you talk to him about it. It may be he will be able to explain himself to you - he might be screwed up in his head and need your help more than hatred. I've found over the years that the people I disliked the most tended to be those who were the most 'out of whack' and you dont want to waste your life hating someone like that. You're worth more than that - and feelings of hatred are bad for your health.

That all sounds like homespun wisdom to me! lol - but its so crazy it just might work.

**juggernaut** · 06-01-2007, 06:46 AM

I'd love to talk to the guy; but he's unapproachable. He's an old fashioned, blue collar non expressive guido (I can say that I'm a guido myself). This miserable prick didnt talk to me for 1 year because I was dating his daughter. The first time I met him at dinner he told me to "shut the fuck up". My wife, then girlfriend, knew what I was capable of doing but grabbed me under the table to stop me from ripping his throat out of the socket.
I basically kept my mouth shut all these years because, a) I'm better than that and, b) I did it for my mother in law because she was so sweet to me. Now, without that spigot of self control (my mom in law), I have released all this hatred and dont know what to do with it. I am respectful in front of him, because of my awesome wife, and will continue to be.

I would like to express this to him, but he's not right in the head because of his son being in the hospital-facing dementia from HIV going to his brain-which he doesnt want anything to do with, and the death of his wife. So really, my feelings take a way back seat in this whole fucked up thing. I just need to vent and cant do anywhere else. My brothers understand how I feel as do my friends; this is just a personal hell I need to go through. Part of me died because my mom in law died and this is basically my cross to bear.

**MeatZatk** · 06-01-2007, 07:47 AM

I absolutely hate my neighbor. She is the biggest cunt I've ever met in all of my life. I told her one time that if I saw her laying on the ground dieing, that I would just stand there to make sure that she died. Thank god she's moving to Tampa, because I've actually had thoughts about killing her...really.

**Gordo** · 06-01-2007, 07:58 AM

Nope, quite the opposite (I never carry a grudge)...it just ain't worth the grey hair, that and life's too short.

**KelJu** · 06-01-2007, 08:06 AM

I use to hate everything. Hate is basically just a powerful form of anger. Hate can consume you and warp your mind. I have grown older and a bit wiser. Now I see that it is better to understand someone rather than hate them. I still get angry at people, but I let the anger go before it turns to hate.

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not doing this for the greater good of the world or for moral superiority. I do it for me. Hate is a negative emotion. If you don't believe me, ask yourself this. Who does your hate hurt, you or the person you hate?

**Scarface30** · 06-01-2007, 08:25 AM

arrogant people and spoiled little punks who cry when they don't get their own way...and sometimes people who think they know everything about everything but are completely ignorant...thats about it

**Brachiisaurus** · 06-01-2007, 09:29 AM

Originally Posted by Scarface30

arrogant people and spoiled little punks who cry when they don't get their own way...and sometimes people who think they know everything about everything but are completely ignorant...thats about it

agree 100%

**mboylan86** · 06-01-2007, 09:32 AM

Originally Posted by Scarface30

arrogant people and spoiled little punks who cry when they don't get their own way...and sometimes people who think they know everything about everything but are completely ignorant...thats about it

can i add that to my list??

**Fetusaurus Rex** · 06-01-2007, 09:44 AM

Minkus from Boy Meets World....I hate him with all of my heart

**DontStop** · 06-01-2007, 09:46 AM

I used to have alot of true hatred towards alot of people, especially myself.

I really hated my dad because of what he did to me and my mom.

But I can't truely hate anyone anymore because i just started telling myself, we were all innocent once. And that helps

**juggernaut** · 06-01-2007, 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by Scarface30

people who think they know everything about everything but are completely ignorant...thats about it

i have cousin who owns a restaurant. You wait 3 fucking hours for a meal-which isnt even THAT good, refuses to pay people what theyre really worth, and continues to give excuses as to why things are the way they are (ie, ME: "Anthony, the coffee is cold..." Anthony: " well its been sitting there for 2 hours, what do you expect?"...) A NEW POT OF COFFEE!!!! (ie #2: ME: "Anthony the shrimp was dry." Anthony: Well, that was the batch...") Cook it the right way!!!!

**juggernaut** · 06-01-2007, 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by DontStop

I used to have alot of true hatred towards alot of people, especially myself.

I really hated my dad because of what he did to me and my mom.

But I can't truely hate anyone anymore because i just started telling myself, we were all innocent once. And that helps

what'd your dad do to you?!

**juggernaut** · 06-01-2007, 09:53 AM

Originally Posted by Gordo

Nope, quite the opposite (I never carry a grudge)...it just ain't worth the grey hair, that and life's too short.

would you believe the only person I hold grudges on is my FIL?

**NordicNacho** · 06-01-2007, 10:20 AM

Bush

**Scarface30** · 06-01-2007, 10:32 AM

Originally Posted by NordicNacho

Bush

this is to Bush

**BigDyl** · 06-01-2007, 10:35 AM

Prehistoric herbrivores.

**Scarface30** · 06-01-2007, 10:37 AM

Brach - thanks

mboylan - use it wisely my friend haha

**Doublebase** · 06-01-2007, 10:41 AM

White people that act black.

**Gordo** · 06-01-2007, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by juggernaut

would you believe the only person I hold grudges on is my FIL?

Actually, yeah, I could believe that.

My wife has similar issues with my sister-in-law (strong dislike, bubbling into hate). Best thing you can do usually is really limit the amount of time you have to spend with that person.

Take what's eating you up and channel it somewhere else if you can. Sometime that works, sometimes it don't.

**Doublebase** · 06-01-2007, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by Gordo

Actually, yeah, I could believe that.

My wife has similar issues with my sister-in-law (strong dislike, bubbling into hate). Best thing you can do usually is really limit the amount of time you have to spend with that person.

Take what's eating you up and channel it somewhere else if you can. Sometime that works, sometimes it don't.

Her sister?

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