Thread: Friend or Foe?

dont fuck someone who is married

All you gotta do is be like....



nuff said

Ok let me see you are trying to screw a married women that your married friend fucked so he gets mad and tries to screw you girlfriend???? That about right, cause I'm on the other line with Jerry Springer and I don't want to mess things up.


How about you be faitful to your girlfriend and stop trying to fuck another chick on the side. If not, then I beleive your "friend" has all the right to go for it as she is just a fuck buddy to you if you dont care enough about her to keep it in your pants. I find it funny that you get all pissed about someone trying to get with your girl, but you have no problem fucking around behind her back.

Originally Posted by Twigz

Ok let me see you are trying to screw a married women that your married friend fucked so he gets mad and tries to screw you girlfriend???? That about right, cause I'm on the other line with Jerry Springer and I don't want to mess things up.


How about you be faitful to your girlfriend and stop trying to fuck another chick on the side. If not, then I beleive your "friend" has all the right to go for it as she is just a fuck buddy to you if you dont care enough about her to keep it in your pants. I find it funny that you get all pissed about someone trying to get with your girl, but you have no problem fucking around behind her back.

Originally Posted by Twigz

Ok let me see you are trying to screw a married women that your married friend fucked so he gets mad and tries to screw you girlfriend???? That about right, cause I'm on the other line with Jerry Springer and I don't want to mess things up.


How about you be faitful to your girlfriend and stop trying to fuck another chick on the side. If not, then I beleive your "friend" has all the right to go for it as she is just a fuck buddy to you if you dont care enough about her to keep it in your pants. I find it funny that you get all pissed about someone trying to get with your girl, but you have no problem fucking around behind her back.

No no no. You guys arent thinking straight. Stop calling out the right vs. wrong card, it wont sell here.

If anything, lets just say girls are pieces of meat on a plate. This all boils down to who is stealing meat from your dinner while you get up and go to the bathroom.

Yes its fucked up. Neither one of you respect your women, but again, that is NOT the topic here. Some people want it to be cuz its much easier to attack, but its not helpful to you.

On the shit scale, both of you are on it, but he is a shittier person because of backstabbing and, well, hes MARRIED. I would call the girl (who is married) a piece of shit and is nothing more than a fuck. Your girlfriend is your girlfriend. Put the shoe on the other foot and it wouldve been like you getting HIS wife's "digits." ( digits? )

Apart from being violent, you shoudl say something. He shouldnt be getting your gfriends number so say it...then he might say something about wanting to fuck the married woman.

Originally Posted by Twigz

Ok let me see you are trying to screw a married women that your married friend fucked so he gets mad and tries to screw you girlfriend???? That about right, cause I'm on the other line with Jerry Springer and I don't want to mess things up.


How about you be faitful to your girlfriend and stop trying to fuck another chick on the side. If not, then I beleive your "friend" has all the right to go for it as she is just a fuck buddy to you if you dont care enough about her to keep it in your pants. I find it funny that you get all pissed about someone trying to get with your girl, but you have no problem fucking around behind her back.

wow you saved me the trouble of typing all that.

and i'll add even if that woman was married n they had no business getting together your friend still could have been hurt by what you did. he didn't do anything to you you hadn't already done to him. what goes around comes around.

Originally Posted by AKIRA

No no no. You guys arent thinking straight. Stop calling out the right vs. wrong card, it wont sell here.

If anything, lets just say girls are pieces of meat on a plate. This all boils down to who is stealing meat from your dinner while you get up and go to the bathroom.

Yes its fucked up. Neither one of you respect your women, but again, that is NOT the topic here. Some people want it to be cuz its much easier to attack, but its not helpful to you.

On the shit scale, both of you are on it, but he is a shittier person because of backstabbing and, well, hes MARRIED. I would call the girl (who is married) a piece of shit and is nothing more than a fuck. Your girlfriend is your girlfriend. Put the shoe on the other foot and it wouldve been like you getting HIS wife's "digits." ( digits? )

Apart from being violent, you shoudl say something. He shouldnt be getting your gfriends number so say it...then he might say something about wanting to fuck the married woman.

his "girlfriend" probably "has his number" and knows her place in the food chain well enough to be looking for a little meat of her own.

Possibly. And for good reason, Ill bet. For one reason or another, this girlfriend isnt worth being faithful to.

little boys blame their behavior on their women. real men make their own decisions and are a lot smarter about choosing a girlfriend and dumping a woman that proves herself unworthy.

god gave man a brain and a cock. n only enough blood to operate one at a time. not saying that's true but for some reason everyone gets it.

Here's a concept. Since you don't care about the sanctity of marriage or have any ethical qualms about dicking a claimed woman you yourself are no longer protected by those ethical considerations. You fuck another man's woman, your woman is free game. Call it social reciprocity.

Now on to the definition of ~friend~. I would not call this guy a friend. Ohhhh not because he will fuck your woman, that's a separate issue. You only speak about him in the context of a work relationship. Makes him an acquaintance IMHO. I wouldn't trust anyone in the acquaintance category. I'd throw anyone from that category a beatin' for trying to make time with my girl. Kinda mandatory from the perspective of the public view. Other players in the field need to know you are not weak and that your girl is off the menu, and your girl needs to know that you stand up for your self AAAND you stand up for her dignity. Really, only a ho-bag would let a guy get play with her in that kind of situation and the fact that the guy tried = he called her a ho-bag. No self respecting girl wants that status ... so kicking his ass means you also stand up for her reputation too.

She is really a good girl. She told you about his attempt to shop-lift the pooty, and prolly told him no dice on the attempt to get her digits. At your present state of ethical evolution, she is more than you deserve.

Lets remove the part of anyone in the deal being married. The only one in a relationship is you, they're free agents. If he was putting the moves on the girl at the office and you tried to sneak in and shoplift the pooty while he was not lookin', then it would be you that scrubbed the shot at friendship. I think at that point if I were him I'd be examining the various options at hand to end the idea in your mind that you could even do that to him in the first place. That he tried to nail your girl would have been almost mandatory on his part, prior to the part where he calls you on it personally.

Of course ... I could be wrong. Hey I'm just some guy on the internet ... ... don't pay any attention to me. And I mean you no disrespect, I'm just answering your question.

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Here's a concept. Since you don't care about the sanctity of marriage or have any ethical qualms about dicking a claimed woman you yourself are no longer protected by those ethical considerations. You fuck another man's woman, your woman is free game. Call it social reciprocity.


She is really a good girl. She told you about his attempt to shop-lift the pooty, and prolly told him no dice on the attempt to get her digits. At your present state of ethical evolution, she is more than you deserve.

i agree with the top part n you make a good point with the bottom but women have a gut instinct at detecting bs artists. i think it's quite possible she mentioned the incident as a heads up/warning as in "two can play your game".

I'm with the OP. Wheather or not he thinks fucking a married girl while he has a girlfriend is wrong or not is irrelevant. The acquaintance at work should not be trying to game his GF in front of his face. Id confront him man about it man.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

i agree with the top part n you make a good point with the bottom but women have a gut instinct at detecting bs artists. i think it's quite possible she mentioned the incident as a heads up/warning as in "two can play your game".

See, you women are devious ... I didn't even see that play.

SO then that could be a kind of foreshadowing of events?

bros before hoes hialeahchico...women come and go but u never want to fuck up ur relationship with ur best friend

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

See, you women are devious ... I didn't even see that play.

SO then that could be a kind of foreshadowing of events?

yep. i'm not like that tho i'm more "look i'm not getting what i want n need here. i'm talking to you cuz i want the relationship to work but if things don't change i will look for a satisfying relationship elsewhere" she may not have said so but usually that is what is going on when someone strays or is about to. while you are getting some married woman's digits your girlfriend still wants to feel desirable and sexy. if you are on someone else's game n not hers she will find that feeling elsewhere.

Originally Posted by ST240

I'm with the OP. Wheather or not he thinks fucking a married girl while he has a girlfriend is wrong or not is irrelevant. The acquaintance at work should not be trying to game his GF in front of his face. Id confront him man about it man.

I would have choke slammed him on the spot. Not saying it's right, but that's what I'd do.

Originally Posted by ReproMan

I would have choke slammed him on the spot. Not saying it's right, but that's what I'd do.

has anyone told you your avatar is

Originally Posted by Little Wing

has anyone told you your avatar is

Originally Posted by ST240

I'm with the OP. Wheather or not he thinks fucking a married girl while he has a girlfriend is wrong or not is irrelevant. The acquaintance at work should not be trying to game his GF in front of his face. Id confront him man about it man.

Thats the bottom line. People see the words marriage and the priority shifts. Why? Stay on topic for the same of the thread starter.

This 'friend' is getting ass from his wife, someone elses wife, and now his 'friends' GF? One mistake is enough, but when the ball rolls into your court, its a different ball game entirely.

If anything, 2 buddies can be unfaithful chums and constantly talk about stories of weekend nights without the ball and chain. But none of those hits should be of the other guy's main girl.

Pretty straight forward.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

has anyone told you your avatar is

... and I'm jealous

Originally Posted by AKIRA
Possibly. And for good reason, Ill bet. For one reason or another, this girlfriend isnt worth being faithful to.

She isnt, trust was lost a long time ago for both of us , she found some foul stuff about me and I caugth her lyin many times anyways this is become a fucked up relationship which will end soon. We just moved in together a couple of months ago ( and may I add this girl is 29) so now i gotta move all my shit out of her house If I end this relationship, I havent found no foul play but I know when it smells funny its because there is bullshit around.

Originally Posted by Twigz
Ok let me see you are trying to screw a married women that your married friend fucked so he gets mad and tries to screw you girlfriend???? That about right, cause I'm on the other line with Jerry Springer and I don't want to mess things up. How about you be faitful to your girlfriend and stop trying to fuck another chick on the side. If not, then I beleive your "friend" has all the right to go for it as she is just a fuck buddy to you if you dont care enough about her to keep it in your pants. I find it funny that you get all pissed about someone trying to get with your girl, but you have no problem fucking around behind her back

let me tell you something, put aside the cheatin incident and lets talk about friendship and respect.....I would never try to hit on my friends wife, thats crossin the line and he has cheated on her so that makes it ok for me to make a move at his wife? in my eyes no, that his relationship.....I should had kept my dick in my pants but this kid crossed the line and just thinkin about it makes me wanna kick his ass. Im sure guys here understand that what he did was some foul shit regardless if a cheated on my gf or not.

i'm guessing most people wouldn't go after anyone a friend was screwing but i'm thinking he was mainly getting revenge cuz you went after his meat in getting the married girls number. if i went after a friend's guy i think my right to whine about her going after mine would be a little compromised. ask next time, a simple "would you care if i made a move on..." would have saved you a lot of grief.

and for you people that think I should kick his ass thats impossible because it will cause chaos at work, everyone will find out about it he will probably say im a jelous fuck who kicked his ass. I have a short temper but Iam a lil wiser so I know for a fact that I cant act like a mad man, I cant let my emotions get the best of me and act a fool. talkin to him about our incidents has crossed my mind but not sure how to start this conversation, Hopefully I can keep my cool when he is explainin himself.

maybe start with explaining you didn't think he'd care about the married woman giving you her number n you're sorry if you misjudged that.

Originally Posted by Little Wing
i'm guessing most people wouldn't go after anyone a friend was screwing but i'm thinking he was mainly getting revenge cuz you went after his meat in getting the married girls number. if i went after a friend's guy i think my right to whine about her going after mine would be a little compromised. ask next time, a simple "would you care if i made a move on..." would have saved you a lot of grief

you are %100 correct. This has crossed my mind and im sure he felt disrespected but this women was nothin from him, she even told me that they were nothin but a one nigth stand. Considering him been my friend I probably should had approached him before hittin on that girl but still that gives him no right to do that shit....... he crossed the line no matter what.

I want a apology from him first, he should come up to me and tell me that he is sorry.Im tellin you this guy cant even look at me straight in the eyes so I know for a fact that he knows what he did was fucked up. I shake his hand to play his little game because its work but I shake it with disgust. This guy really doesnt know me I would had fucked him up if this shit had happen in the streets, and this aint highschool this is the real life I gotta pay my bills and cant afford to get fired or start any kind of rumors at work. At least he dont got a big mouth because I know for a fact that only him and myself know whats goin on.

Marriage is bullshit. There is no sanctity in marriage anymore, so fuck however you like, unless your wife or girlfriend is honest and trust you. IF you have a good girl, then don't fuck around, otherwise do what you want.

Now, let me get back on topic. The OP is a dishonest piece of shit. So you knew your boy was interested, yet you tried to cut in on his action anyway, but he caught you. Now you are upset that he is doing the same thign to you. You are not a very good friend.