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Old 07-07-2007, 04:55 PM   #31
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Old 07-07-2007, 05:31 PM   #32
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some people enjoy the diversity of life's sexual banquet until one day they wake up and realize that no matter how much of it they eat they are left feeling hollow and hungry. they get really tired of cheap, easy, fast food. then they look for something more satisfying that will nourish body, heart and soul. and not leave blisters on their johnson.
When I get to that point I might consider living with someone and making an agreement to only be with each other, but under no circumstances will I ever get married.



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Old 07-07-2007, 07:33 PM   #33
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Availability. Thats the biggest reason. You break down every other fucking thing and it comes down to availability.

People say they "never have" or have come "so close," but to translate that would be saying it just wasnt available.

Now, if youre happy in a relationship, then youve got a mindset going on, but even in a happy, healthy relationship there are fights. And on that fight night, a gentleman caller could come knocking.


However....

"Spineless" was mentioned. I beg to differ on another breed of people you may never want to date. People that just dont care. I would hardly call them spineless. Id call them clear headed. These are the same people that wouldnt care if they got cheated on..

After what happened to my last long lasting relationship, I wonder which side I am on...



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Old 07-07-2007, 08:47 PM   #34
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Again I agree. You can't eat the same pussy every day.

noo.. you can... same goes d*ck.. But beyond taste, unless it's goood for you long term, then it's just going to end up making you sick:/.
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When I get to that point I might consider living with someone and making an agreement to only be with each other, but under no circumstances will I ever get married.

And why is that??..exactly??
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And why is that??..exactly??
Guys can't get married yet in his state.



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As long as I do you, because I don't want to be a fag...
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Old 07-08-2007, 04:36 AM   #38
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Most women cheat and that is great.



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Old 07-08-2007, 06:24 AM   #39
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It is only cheating if you get caught



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Guys can't get married yet in his state.
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Oh god, please, no, not again. That Gay Pride thread is DEAD. Dont reincarante it.



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It fucking sucked. I even tried to deliberately cause fights, but it ended up being BORING. Too many people taking shit seriously and never staying on point.


Speaking of DontStop, does anyone think shes faithful/loyal?



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It fucking sucked. I even tried to deliberately cause fights, but it ended up being BORING. Too many people taking shit seriously and never staying on point.


Speaking of DontStop, does anyone think shes faithful/loyal?
Who knows? There is no way to tell if anyone on this site is faithful unless you know them in real life and spend a lot of time with them.



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Good looking people have more availability to cheat. There are just so many options, so many temptations.

Youd have to be completely convinced that the person you choose to be with has got something others do not and sometimes its hard to keep focus on that.

For example (in the most basic terms, I promise you), a girlfriend that has perfect B sized tits. They juuuuuust right, but if they were only bigger. Temptation comes knocking and its a girl that is just as attractive as your girl, but with huge tits. You cheat and find out the huge tits are covered with nipple hairs.

Even though you girl's tits were perfect, you lost focus on them and flew with instinct..and BAM, a lesson is learned.



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Old 07-08-2007, 11:00 AM   #46
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Good looking people have more availability to cheat. There are just so many options, so many temptations.

Youd have to be completely convinced that the person you choose to be with has got something others do not and sometimes its hard to keep focus on that.

For example (in the most basic terms, I promise you), a girlfriend that has perfect B sized tits. They juuuuuust right, but if they were only bigger. Temptation comes knocking and its a girl that is just as attractive as your girl, but with huge tits. You cheat and find out the huge tits are covered with nipple hairs.

Even though you girl's tits were perfect, you lost focus on them and flew with instinct..and BAM, a lesson is learned.
The moral of this story: get a girl with huge tits.



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The moral of this story: get a girl with huge tits.
short with no gag reflex to?



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Sounds like a keeper. Why go out for burgers when you got milk at home?



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Old 07-08-2007, 02:01 PM   #49
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I think that there is no one reason as to why people cheat.

Some people cheat because they're bored. Some people lose interest in their relationships when their interests (outside of it) change. Some people enjoy the variety of different sexual partners. Some people just have plain old crappy relationships.

Cheating comes in a variety of forms though. I've had many a debate with friends (male and female) who swear that cheating is just in a sexual form. I beg to differ and I think that even the most "innocent" person has cheated at one time or another because I don't think that cheating is 100% physical. I think that a single conversation or look can be a form of cheating.
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Old 07-08-2007, 02:52 PM   #52
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before I met my wife, I cheated and screwed around for fun. I just thought it was fun. Now, since I known my shweeeeetie, I havent had the urge nor, the intelligence to do it. She's Sicilian and very good with a knife.



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Good looking people have more availability to cheat. There are just so many options, so many temptations.

Youd have to be completely convinced that the person you choose to be with has got something others do not and sometimes its hard to keep focus on that.

For example (in the most basic terms, I promise you), a girlfriend that has perfect B sized tits. They juuuuuust right, but if they were only bigger. Temptation comes knocking and its a girl that is just as attractive as your girl, but with huge tits. You cheat and find out the huge tits are covered with nipple hairs.

Even though you girl's tits were perfect, you lost focus on them and flew with instinct..and BAM, a lesson is learned.

There's always some thing. Maybe that's why so many of us are so skeptical .. as long as we know the areas we might want someone else on though.. and where the reverse might happen and demand our standards we wOnt cheat on or leave someone on and keep working on making thosse bits as good we can..( shrug) whaddayado?? til then it's all b.s!.
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I dint process that information but ok



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Old 07-18-2007, 04:38 PM   #55
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That could be a good thing. Try this
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The moral of this story: get a girl with huge tits.
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[quote] Youd have to be completely convinced that the person you choose to be with has got something others do not and sometimes its hard to keep focus on that. [end quote]
[quote]It fucking sucked. I even tried to deliberately cause fights, but it ended up being BORING. Too many people taking shit seriously and never staying on point.[end quote]
..and sometimes ppl "leave" to see if "partners" might want to.

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