Thread: A Moral Problem... Adultery?

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

Ok... so I'm married, have been for a few years, and I love my wife. But I've found myself falling for another woman who I've already kissed many times, seen naked, etc... Haven't had sex or anything, but of course it's on my mind. My question is, am I any worse of a person than I already am if I just go ahead and fuck her? The Bible says that even lusting over a woman in your mind is adultery, so... am I just as bad by thinking of her as I am kissing her as I am if I sleep with her?

Welcome to Ironmag!

loser. be a man. look up the words honor and integrity. keep it in your pants unless you have the balls to leave your wife first.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

loser. be a man.

and just sleep with her?

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

and just sleep with her?

lol

+1

By the way, Sin is black or white in God's eyes,

its either wrong or its not

however, the repercussions between your relationship with God, and the earthly repercussions are different, being more or less harsh, in our earthly world

and have a nice day.










with a side of syphilis.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

Ok... so I'm married, have been for a few years, and I love my wife. But I've found myself falling for another woman who I've already kissed many times, seen naked, etc... Haven't had sex or anything, but of course it's on my mind. My question is, am I any worse of a person than I already am if I just go ahead and fuck her? The Bible says that even lusting over a woman in your mind is adultery, so... am I just as bad by thinking of her as I am kissing her as I am if I sleep with her?

you saw her naked yet did not have sex with her?

Originally Posted by FishOrCutBait

By the way, Sin is black or white in God's eyes,

its either wrong or its not

however, the repercussions between your relationship with God, and the earthly repercussions are different, being more or less harsh, in our earthly world

You seem biblically read, maybe you can help.

So to God, me even thinking about this woman is no different than kissing her? And kissing her is as bad as sleeping with her?

Originally Posted by Prince

you saw her naked yet did not have sex with her?

yeah... crazy... I know.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

and just sleep with her?

and people think gays shouldn't marry because they might somehow defile the beautiful sacred tradition of heterosexual.... hmmm what exactly? why did you even get married? seems like you aren't very good at leading your life. i hope you don't have kids.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

and people think gays shouldn't marry because they might somehow defile the beautiful sacred tradition of heterosexual.... hmmm what exactly? why did you even get married? seems like you aren't very good at leading your life. i hope you don't have kids.

I have no intentions of being disrespectful to you, as you are being to me, but please stay on topic. I'm asking a question pertaining to religion here, not your personal opinion.

Little Wing probably means, own up to the responsibilities you claimed when you married your wife. You took vows and made serious promises.

I, personally, think that once your at that point with a woman, you need to take that seriously and deal with things as an adult (instead of some horny HS kid).

As well i personally feel that if you are falling for a woman who is not your wife, then you didn't give marriage the thought that it required. Sure you can see women as attractive (physically, i mean how many guys will say the find their gf's hotter than jessica alba, anonymously of course), but being able to keep it in your pants is a part of being a commited adult.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

You seem biblically read, maybe you can help.

So to God, me even thinking about this woman is no different than kissing her? And kissing her is as bad as sleeping with her?

You dont seem to get it.

It is sin, it is not "just as bad to God"

God is MORE upset with you if you sleep with another woman, however, you are sinning either way.

and you are cheating on your wife, you dont have the personal integrity to feel bad of your own accord?

to be tempted is human i think. to act on it, even in as much as you have already makes you just one in a billion shitty men thats aren't worth any real womans time or emotion. true story.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

I have no intentions of being disrespectful to you, as you are being to me, but please stay on topic. I'm asking a question pertaining to religion here, not your personal opinion.

no one is disrespecting you as much as you are. you are saying to the world, god if you believe in him, yourself, your wife, that you do not have what it takes to be a man. that you are a self indulgent child that has no intention of behaving with any moral decency if it means not getting what the greedy little child in you wants. you are disrespecting yourself.

oh my hell. this guy has to be a former member. his first post is a religious doctrinal question on adultery. absolutely a former member. LW let him have it.

Originally Posted by FishOrCutBait

You dont seem to get it.

It is sin, it is not "just as bad to God"

God is MORE upset with you if you sleep with another woman, however, you are sinning either way.

and you are cheating on your wife, you dont have the personal integrity to feel bad of your own accord?

you're joking right?

Tell me Prince... whats your thought?

Originally Posted by Prince

you're joking right?

don't be a dick dude he asked for a religious perspective.

if he wants a secular opinion, Ill give him one.

Starting now:

You're a stupid, honorless piece of shit. You dont even have the integrity or manhood to tell your wife its over if you have wandering cock syndrome.

You are everything that is wrong with our gender.

Get the fuck out and never come back.



There. is that better Robbie?

i don't see why if guys want to be whores in their lives or even in their minds why they get in relationships or get married especially. if you want to fuck other women and you can't get off with your wife n actually be in the moment with her while you fuck don't get married. have the balls to live like the whore you are. cuz according to god thinking like one says you are one at heart and what you are at heart makes you who you are.

is it okay to beat off thinking about fucking babies in the ass as long as i don't do it? as long as i don't act on it i'm cool right? no, you're still a sick fuck. if that is what makes you cum, trips your trigger you are a pedo. if you lust after or get off thinking about other women in the eyes of god you are an adulterer.

Originally Posted by FishOrCutBait

don't be a dick dude he asked for a religious perspective.

if he wants a secular opinion, Ill give him one.

Starting now:

You're a stupid, honorless piece of shit. You dont even have the integrity or manhood to tell your wife its over if you have wandering cock syndrome.

You are everything that is wrong with our gender.

Get the fuck out and never come back.



There. is that better Robbie?

And an 18 year old had to lay this out.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

Tell me Prince... whats your thought?

ask your wife if she is interested in a threesome, if she says no then you better decide which woman you want because cheating on your spouse is not cool.

as far as the bible thing, I don't subscribe to any religions, so I have no comment on that.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

i don't see why if guys want to be whores in their lives or even in their minds why they get in relationships or get married especially. if you want to fuck other women and you can't get off with your wife n actually be in the moment with her while you fuck don't get married. have the balls to live like the whore you are. cuz according to god thinking like one says you are one at heart and what you are at heart makes you who you are.

is it okay to beat off thinking about fucking babies in the ass as long as i don't do it? as long as i don't act on it i'm cool right? no, you're still a sick fuck. if that is what makes you cum, trips your trigger you are a pedo. if you lust after or get off thinking about other women in the eyes of god you are an adulterer.

It does help to hear other people point this out. I'm going to break it off with the other woman. I do love my wife.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

It does help to hear other people point this out. I'm going to break it off with the other woman. I do love my wife.

is it because you feel bad now?

or do you realize how horribly you've messed up?

Originally Posted by FishOrCutBait

is it because you feel bad now?

or do you realize how horribly you've messed up?

What's odd is I already felt bad and already know I've horribly messed up.

Originally Posted by FishOrCutBait

don't be a dick dude he asked for a religious perspective.

if he wants a secular opinion, Ill give him one.

Starting now:

You're a stupid, honorless piece of shit. You dont even have the integrity or manhood to tell your wife its over if you have wandering cock syndrome.

You are everything that is wrong with our gender.

Get the fuck out and never come back.



There. is that better Robbie?

age doesn't define a man. the path he walks does.

Originally Posted by Another Lullaby

What's odd is I already felt bad and already know I've horribly messed up.

Thats called conviction,

Be it from the Holy Spirit or from your inner morality,

that is your realization of how grave and heartwrenchingly bad your actions were.

Imagine your wife seeing another man naked? Imagine your wife in alllllll those situations, with another man.

I really hope that you can somehow make peace with what you've done, and that this doesnt hurt your wife.