Thread: So.... I got in a fight tonight...

chill, sounds like everything went down like it sould and you just need to jerk off and go to sleep

Feeling bad about it shows compassion for your fellow man ... regardless of how shallow his side of the gene pool is. You coulda have done much worse than tap him up a little. Chill on yourself and be glad the feelings you have are what they are instead of guilt for NOT standing up for the right reasons. Plenty of dudes would just sat there and let the asshole get all wrong on that female. You did the right thing and should do it again if the same situation arises again without hesitation.

Look at it this way. If I found him acting up around my wife in a disrespectful way I absolutely would have broken a few of his bones. I'm known for that. You prolly saved him from that with a minor ass beating. He should send you a thank you card ...

What usually helps me get to sleep after a fight is after dragging the corpse home I'll eat half of it, a big meal like that works better than a tranquilizer...

Originally Posted by ReproMan

took the guy down, mounted him and laid some GnP on him ( I watch too much MMA), but I still had my beer bottle in my hand apparently (I really didn't know in the heat of the moment) and he caught a few shots from it.

If he reports you to the police for assault with a weapon, and somebody here reports you to the local police this is a confession and you go to jail.

Why would you post something like this?

I'm betting the guy was probably too drunk to remember what happened to him come tomorrow. I've gotten into a barfight before and saw the guy the next day with a fat lip and shiner and he didn't even know I was the one he'd fought the night before...

Originally Posted by Steele20

Why would you post something like this?

Good question.

I was pretty worked up about it last night, still feel pretty badly about the whole thing and honestly, those were the words of one person. Thinking back on it now, I don't know how I could have possibly hit him with the bottle considering I threw a right hand right before I took him down, and I had to buy a girl a drink who got drenched when my beer went flying all over her (which means I obviously tossed the bottle). Not to mention everyone and their sister saw the guy take a cheap shot at me. Self defense?

I got about 45min of sleep finally so today should be fun.

BC, you're right as usual. I should thank my lucky stars that I'm not really a GnP master, because I could have really caused the guy some serious damage after I got mount. LOL. Either way, I still feel extremely guilty about the whole situation. Not just the fight, but about what it meant. I just hope everything works out for all parties involved, excluding myself because I'll be fine.

Originally Posted by ReproMan

Not just the fight, but about what it meant. I just hope everything works out for all parties involved, excluding myself because I'll be fine.

You called their bluff and the cards fell where they did.

You've got nothing to be sorry for...unless you join Team Punishment.


To summarize everything, although we all have our issues, I wouldn't trade my friends for anyone.

Originally Posted by A Black Guy

I wouldn't trade my friends for anyone.

Except maybe Christian for some 15" TSW Trophies and a 4 channel, 50 watt Pioneer amp.

Originally Posted by ReproMan

Except maybe Christian for some 15" TSW Trophies and a 4 channel, 50 watt Pioneer amp.

Fuck....my weakness...

I wouldn't feel bad about that.

Most people that wind up in a fight, for good or for bad, deserved to be there.

You shouldn't sweat it.

Some people deserve to get their ass kicked. I think you did the right thing.

Thanks guys. You're right, I defintely shouldn't sweat it and I keep telling myself that. I'm sure the guilt will subside as the day goes on.

if he hit you first and took you by surprise hey, where were you supposed to find time to put the bottle down?

You did well.

You are so lucky that he didn't have a razorblade in his mouth.

Dude, you stood up for yourself. Don't let the politically correct (read: pussy) attitudes, the lawyers, the feminists, etc, tell you that you done wrong. You did what a man should have done.

Not that it matters but what would her significant other have done to the guy? What kind of damage would he have caused?

There is virtually nothing else you could have done after he threw the first punch....You could have let him have at you...?

Then you would have felt much much worse and in a "What if I just fought back?" mind state for a long time...Im not sure if you are someone who just has a guilty conscience, because in that case I can relate. I definitely do have one...but it will pass, and soon I hope for you because from every outsider it sounds like you didnt do anything wrong or to feel bad about

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Not that it matters but what would her significant other have done to the guy? What kind of damage would he have caused?

<cough> I was at the inside bar and didn't see the action transpire. When I ran over, Repro popped up looking for his shoes and the bouncers were shuffling the other guy away.

Afterwards, outside, the BIQ got in my face all huffing and puffing and asked "where's your pussy friend?" At this particular establishment, the police are usually on scene right after a fight, so I wasn't about to do anything and he obviously wasn't either since I stood my ground and he didn't do anything about it.

Unfortunately I shaved last week, so I wasn't harnessing the power of the beard like Repro, so who knows...

But at that point, given the situation and woman in question, I would have felt better knocking her out than him. This was a long, drawn out ordeal that finally came to fruition last night, so it's a little bit more complicated than a guy grabbing another man's wife.

I think that's about as diplomatic as I can put it.

Originally Posted by Fetusaurus Rex

There is virtually nothing else you could have done after he threw the first punch....You could have let him have at you...?

Then you would have felt much much worse and in a "What if I just fought back?" mind state for a long time...Im not sure if you are someone who just has a guilty conscience, because in that case I can relate. I definitely do have one...but it will pass, and soon I hope for you because from every outsider it sounds like you didnt do anything wrong or to feel bad about

Defintely dude. I would have felt much more guilty had I not whooped up on him a little and thought "what if" for however long it took to clear my conscience (probably forever).

AKIRA put it best today, he said that it was a picture perfect ending to a shitty situation. I just wish ABG was the guy that had the to chance kick this guys ass and not me.

Originally Posted by A Black Guy

<cough> I was at the inside bar and didn't see the action transpire. When I ran over, Repro popped up looking for his shoes and the bouncers were shuffling the other guy away.

Afterwards, outside, the BIQ got in my face all huffing and puffing and asked "where's your pussy friend?" At this particular establishment, the police are usually on scene right after a fight, so I wasn't about to do anything and he obviously wasn't either since I stood my ground and he didn't do anything about it.

Unfortunately I shaved last week, so I wasn't harnessing the power of the beard like Repro, so who knows...

But at that point, given the situation and woman in question, I would have felt better knocking her out than him. This was a long, drawn out ordeal that finally came to fruition last night, so it's a little bit more complicated than a guy grabbing another man's wife.

I think that's about as diplomatic as I can put it.

I guess this is what I feel bad about the most.

It's not the actual fight, it's what it stemmed from.

I'm just glad this was a bit of closure for you on a shitty, drawn out situation. Also, now that I realize he actually did land the first shot and he was just too much of a pussy to do any damage makes me feel even better.

Regardless of what comes of this shit, I'm right around the corner and you've got my number.

First - its good to see you back here bro, hope things are going well for you .

Second - like everybody else has said, dont worry about this. Its good that you care about what you did, because its that feeling that stopped you from making a mistake that night and really fucking the guy up - because you could have. The thing that sets you apart from the idiots that turn a brawl into murder IS that worrying side.

Youve got nothing to be sweating about, if anything you should feel glad - that guy will think twice before he tries that shit again with anyone. Youre like a one-man vigilante group

I haven't seen a story where someone loses their fight. Anyways, good job.

I don't see what there is to be mad about, but then again I only know the basics of the situation.

If somebody punches you, you got to punch back. It's that simple.

Give yourself a pat on the back, stop stressing. You defended yourself, and thats what matters.

Originally Posted by iMan323

Dude, you stood up for yourself. Don't let the politically correct (read: pussy) attitudes, the lawyers, the feminists, etc, tell you that you done wrong. You did what a man should have done.

HERE HERE!

I was on my way home when I heard this story...and I just had to put the windows up so I could hear the story with undivided attention.

This outcome was HUGE. And the best part was, there wasnt a better reason to fight.

Reasons that it was more than OK:

1. Having a casual, polite conversation with a girl should never be interrupted by some insecure, over-protected deuce. Very disrespectful. If anything, he shouldve said "excuse us for a sec."

2. Going further, it was your friends WIFE. No one but the husband should be having his hands on her like that.

3. He swung first.

I hardly ever hear of a good honorable fight, but there lies 2 reasons to make this well-deserved.

And since we have all been deleted from this girl's MySpace I know shes reading this since she pryed into everything else throughout the years.

Nicki, we were on to you. Youve never fooled anyone. I always knew you were a compulsive liar with the dumbest excuses in the world. You are a fool. And to think when this all started YEARS ago, I was on your side. Not because I didnt think youd cheat. But because of how fucking unattractive you are. Dont take my word for it. Certain friends of ours thought A Black Guy was...gay. Cuz you looked that much of a man. Thats a direct quote.

I kind of hope and pray that nothing but pain and despair awaits you at the end of this shitty tunnel.

Or not..I dont care, it was a great ending nonetheless!

Repro

AKIRA certainly doesn't hold back does he??

Now that I've had some time to think about it and read all the opinions here, I feel a ton better. I guess this did fall under the few times that fighting is acceptable and I shouldn't hesitate to do it again.


Thanks everyone.

This sounds like a soap opera in motion.