Thread: Cutting

It's not for fun, it's a release. I could never cut myself, but being a former bullimic, making myself sick felt like a release for any stress or guilt I was carrying.

supposedly it takes the overwhelming emotional pain a person cannot cope with and redirects it into a physical thing they feel they have control over. it is a coping mechanism that believe it or not helps stop people from killing themselves.

"Those who engage in self-injury face the contradictory reality of harming themselves whilst at the same time obtaining relief from this act. It may even be hard for some to actually initiate cutting, but they often do because they know the relief that will follow. For some self-injurers this relief is primarily psychological whilst for others this feeling of relief comes from the beta endorphins released in the brain (the same chemicals that are thought to be responsible for the "runner's high"). These act to reduce tension and emotional distress and may lead to a feeling of calm."

I had a bad anxiety/panic attack on my 21st b-day and cut my shoulder because I was freaking.

Originally Posted by DontStop

It's not for fun, it's a release. I could never cut myself, but being a former bullimic, making myself sick felt like a release for any stress or guilt I was carrying.

You must have had Daddy issues. Why are you so obessed with the way you look? Why are you posing naked? That should be left for your husband not anyone else.

I didnt have daddy issues i had appearence issues. My mom and my grandma are really about appearence and their idea of a perfect daughter/grandaughter was pin thin

their mind set has changed, mine hasnt. it was a tough time but im slowly recovering

I'm posing nude because the shots the photographer does are glamour shots, they are not meant to be degrading.

Originally Posted by DontStop

I'm posing nude because the shots the photographer does are glamour shots, they are not meant to be degrading.

The majority of the guys that look at them will give two shits about the artistic value of the photo. They just want to see your tight little ass and big boobies.

But hey, to each his own. I would just be really upset if my daughter posed naked. I put posing nude in the category of being a whore.

because I'm obviously doing it for guys
you know me too well



I'm doing it for myself, champ.

Originally Posted by Doublebase

But hey, to each his own. I would just be really upset if my daughter posed naked. I put posing nude in the category of being a whore.

agreed if my daughter did that shit. OMFA idk wtf i would do to her

Originally Posted by DontStop

because I'm obviously doing it for guys
you know me too well



I'm doing it for myself, champ.

Wait wait wait. So you are getting some artistic nude photos done just for yourself? Why? Don't you know what you look like naked? I thought you were going to post them here so us "guys" could check out your fine ass. Do you see a physciatrist? Just curious.

Originally i was doing it for me as a treat for my hard work at the gym. Nothing more rewarding then a glamorous photo of yourself.

Would you say the same thing to any other model? I'll assume not.

and no, i dont. nor do i care to, and it's really none of your business

Originally Posted by DontStop

Originally i was doing it for me as a treat for my hard work at the gym. Nothing more rewarding then a glamorous photo of yourself.

Would you say the same thing to any other model? I'll assume not.

and no, i dont. nor do i care to, and it's really none of your business

I think any girl that poses for playboy is a whore. I would not say that to their face but that is what I think.

You are the one that said you were going to do this on an internet message board. Ofcourse your going to get comments back about it. That is what we do here. I'm just stating my opinion. Its not a fact. Just what I believe. I see I've upset you. You say you don't care but you do. I'm sorry.

Well it's pretty obvious your goal was to upst me so cut the act
yah i told the message board about it because is something i want to do to reward myself, and what's wrong with sharing my excitement about it? people on here talk about fucking all the time yet you never seem to give them negative feedback, or scold them for tlking about it on a message board

im not a whore. if i was a whre, i wouldnt be in a steady relationship, i'd be at the top hat rubbing my snatch on a pole and letting guys through loonies into a beer mug to earn posters. nude posters which are used for whorish reasons.

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Originally Posted by DontStop

Well it's pretty obvious your goal was to upst me so cut the act
yah i told the message board about it because is something i want to do to reward myself, and what's wrong with sharing my excitement about it? people on here talk about fucking all the time yet you never seem to give them negative feedback, or scold them for tlking about it on a message board

im not a whore. if i was a whre, i wouldnt be in a steady relationship, i'd be at the top hat rubbing my snatch on a pole and letting guys through loonies into a beer mug to earn posters. nude posters which are used for whorish reasons.

I don't think you are a whore. I think I misunderstood what you were doing. I thought you were taking these photos to send to magazines or put up on the internet. I assumed wrong. I like your posts on here. I'm just very traditional and I don't condone young girls taking their clothes off for the public to view. You are a cool girl. Sorry being such a dick. Really I am.

I apologise for freaking out then

But these are the kind of pictures he takes
they are all really beautiful and i just want to feel like them for a day

You are beautiful. You should feel like that everyday.

Thanks

Originally Posted by Nate K

I had a bad anxiety/panic attack on my 21st b-day and cut my shoulder because I was freaking.

What happened? Panic attacks are the worst.

Originally Posted by Doublebase

I think any girl that poses for playboy is a whore. I would not say that to their face but that is what I think.

posing nude makes a female a whore?

you might want to check the definition of the word "whore" my friend.

Originally Posted by DontStop

Originally i was doing it for me as a treat for my hard work at the gym. Nothing more rewarding then a glamorous photo of yourself.

Would you say the same thing to any other model? I'll assume not.

and no, i dont. nor do i care to, and it's really none of your business

Nothing wrong with that. After I cut down and bulk up a few times, one of my long term (5 year or so) goals is to get competition ready just to have photos taken. Not for any real purpose, but just to have and be able to go "holy shit, can't believe I did that"

Same reason a junkie will jab a spike or someone will go and have a professional poke needles all over their body...they are looking for release....escape....a way to stoke that internal flame....

Originally Posted by Doublebase

I think any girl that poses for playboy is a whore. I would not say that to their face but that is what I think.

You are the one that said you were going to do this on an internet message board. Ofcourse your going to get comments back about it. That is what we do here. I'm just stating my opinion. Its not a fact. Just what I believe. I see I've upset you. You say you don't care but you do. I'm sorry.

What about women who posed for say Picasso or Dali's skull nude girls? Were they "whores"????

Now if you wanted to comment on her being a whore just ask her about how she tried to seduce my buddy whose fiance was pregnant.

Originally Posted by fufu

What happened? Panic attacks are the worst.

I don't drink very often and was real drunk. This girl from my hometown was drunk too and was all on me and I on her, but I didn't kiss here when she expected. I'm glad I didn't do anything with her anyway. It just takes something to get me going and I can go on a self-depreciating cycle of thought.

Resistance training and strict eating is a certain way to cope with things.

I've got issues with females...the only times I've ever done anything sexual I've been on a LOT of xanax- an anxiety medication.

Originally Posted by DontStop

I apologise for freaking out then

But these are the kind of pictures he takes
they are all really beautiful and i just want to feel like them for a day

I like them! I think they are very nice pictures! As for Playboy and a if I had a daughter that posed for playboy, well, it would be her decision and at the age, she's old enough!

Originally Posted by Vieope

Not that cutting we do in diet.

But cutting yourself with blades or knives. Why do some people do it? I dont understand why someone would take a blade and cut their flesh slowly for fun. Is it a form of S&M so it is a sexual thing or they do that because they are depressed and hate their body like when some people from a few religions do a sin and have to do flagellation? I didnt say fellatio. I think if hurts it is not good so why do they do it?

It's relaxing. And if your razor is sharp enough it doesn't really hurt. People do it for a number of reasons. Fetish, self hate, depression, and some religious people do it as self-punishment.

Originally Posted by DontStop

I apologise for freaking out then

But these are the kind of pictures he takes
they are all really beautiful and i just want to feel like them for a day

those r the kind of pictures i try to take of myself.