Why do women sometimes feel like a scam?

Vieope · 04-19-2008, 10:22 PM

It is like when you are buying something, you think it is amazing but after a while you dont need it anymore, it was not what you were thinking, you want to change it..

But women could say men are like that too. Well men seem more consistent. They dont change that much. You know a guy today, he is going to be that same thing years later. Talk to Crono today, stop in the middle of the conversation, come back 30 years later and continue talking.

It is like women have a secret plan to get pregnant, fat and start complaining about everything. Of course not all women. A lot of them are very cool.

I am not going to marry anyone!

Hoglander · 04-19-2008, 10:40 PM

Communication is not just the words you speak. Women are more honest then men. I like them.
It's really very pleasant dealing with them vs men, IMHO.

Vieope · 04-19-2008, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Hoglander

Women are more honest then men. I like them.

I like them a lot. But they change.

Little Wing · 04-19-2008, 10:44 PM

it helps if you honestly tell each other what you really want up front.

Hoglander · 04-19-2008, 10:46 PM

Men imagine to much. They do not. Wrap your head around that. Stop projecting the perfect mate on them and get to know them. It's not hard.

kiko · 04-19-2008, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Little Wing

it helps if you honestly tell each other what you really want up front.

That conversation will be forgotten after three years of marriage.

Hoglander · 04-19-2008, 11:21 PM

No, you projected that shit on her. She never lived up to it. She knew and you made it clear. So that's what happens. Welcome to the human race.

Bitch and moan but the deal is done.

FishOrCutBait · 04-20-2008, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Hoglander

No, you projected that shit on her. She never lived up to it. She knew and you made it clear. So that's what happens. Welcome to the human race.

Bitch and moan but the deal is done.

The voice of reason.

I often prefer the company of women over that of men, or Id rather be alone.
Perhaps working with mostly women for several years has done that to me, but I have more respect for more women than I do for men.

clemson357 · 04-20-2008, 07:32 AM

There is an old saying: Men marry women hoping that they won't change, women marry men hoping that they will.

When you marry a woman, look at her mother and that is a pretty good indication of what you are going to have in 25 years. Some women are genetically better able to bounce back after pregnancy, for others it pretty much destroys their body. Other women are pretty much going to "let themselves go" as they get older, regardless of pregnancy.

BulkMeUp · 04-20-2008, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Vieope

You know a guy today, he is going to be that same thing years later. Talk to Crono today, stop in the middle of the conversation, come back 30 years later and continue talking.

KentDog · 04-20-2008, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by clemson357

When you marry a woman, look at her mother and that is a pretty good indication of what you are going to have in 25 years. Some women are genetically better able to bounce back after pregnancy, for others it pretty much destroys their body. Other women are pretty much going to "let themselves go" as they get older, regardless of pregnancy.

I hear this a lot, but do you think after dating a girl for a year, then meeting her mother for the first time, that you would dump her because her mother was unattractive in her old age? I'm not sure that I would be able to if I really cared about the girl. I've also met a lot of smoking hot girls who look nothing like their seemingly opposite mothers. So it is scary to think what they make look like in 20 years if the saying is true.

goob · 04-20-2008, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by KentDog

I hear this a lot, but do you think after dating a girl for a year, then meeting her mother for the first time, that you would dump her because her mother was unattractive in her old age? I'm not sure that I would be able to if I really cared about the girl. I've also met a lot of smoking hot girls who look nothing like their seemingly opposite mothers. So it is scary to think what they make look like in 20 years if the saying is true.

No, and you'd be a fool if you did. There is not an absolute certainty that she will turn out the same.

And in 25 years, say 50 ish, how many women are really still all that attractive?

danzik17 · 04-20-2008, 05:54 PM

Depends. If the mother sits on her ass all day eating doritos and the daughter continued to exercise well into old age, they will look nothing alike.

Triple Threat · 04-20-2008, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by clemson357

There is an old saying: Men marry women hoping that they won't change, women marry men hoping that they will.

And the rest of the saying: Both are wrong.

DOMS · 04-20-2008, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by goob

And in 25 years, say 50 ish, how many women are really still all that attractive?

I believe that few attain because few attempt.

04-19-2008, 10:22 PM	#1
Vieope Monochromatic Bunny Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: drinking coffee.. Posts: 14,967 Photos: 10	Why do women sometimes feel like a scam? It is like when you are buying something, you think it is amazing but after a while you dont need it anymore, it was not what you were thinking, you want to change it.. But women could say men are like that too. Well men seem more consistent. They dont change that much. You know a guy today, he is going to be that same thing years later. Talk to Crono today, stop in the middle of the conversation, come back 30 years later and continue talking. It is like women have a secret plan to get pregnant, fat and start complaining about everything. Of course not all women. A lot of them are very cool. I am not going to marry anyone!

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04-19-2008, 10:40 PM	#2
Hoglander Cleaner Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 1,498 Photos: 10	Communication is not just the words you speak. Women are more honest then men. I like them. It's really very pleasant dealing with them vs men, IMHO.

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Hoglander Cleaner Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 1,498 Photos: 10	Men imagine to much. They do not. Wrap your head around that. Stop projecting the perfect mate on them and get to know them. It's not hard.

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Hoglander Cleaner Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 1,498 Photos: 10	No, you projected that shit on her. She never lived up to it. She knew and you made it clear. So that's what happens. Welcome to the human race. Bitch and moan but the deal is done.