Thread: Relationshipt problems! Help!

if he's made up his mind there's not much you can do but get over him.

come over to my house.. we can make a dirty video and send it to him. he will be totally jealous, and have to take you back

I want to fight for him I dont think its too late. He is just so freaking stubburn, its driving me crazy. I tried so hard to show him how different I am but he wont listen to me at all.

i take it he's a member here.

they are right, you can fight hard but there is little chance he'll come back to you. I had a friend in this exact situAtion, after months of crying she finally got over home. She still loves him but he doesn't. She turned into a whore afterwards LOL.

No he is not a member here, at least I dont think he is. I will just try to stay away and be apart for a while. I hope he realized that he wants be back but till then I will just chill and keep going to bars and stuff like that.

Turn yourself into the perfect catch so next time he see's you he'll kick his own ass for giving up on you.....

Originally Posted by PrettyBitch

No he is not a member here, at least I dont think he is. I will just try to stay away and be apart for a while. I hope he realized that he wants be back but till then I will just chill and keep going to bars and stuff like that.

Originally Posted by maniclion

Turn yourself into the perfect catch so next time he see's you he'll kick his own ass for giving up on you.....

Neither of these things are going to happen...

He was seeing another chick he liked better anyway,
his anger was a front to really break it off w/you
so he could see the other girl.

He wont be back.

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Originally Posted by DiGiTaL

they are right, you can fight hard but there is little chance he'll come back to you. I had a friend in this exact situAtion, after months of crying she finally got over home. She still loves him but he doesn't. She turned into a whore afterwards LOL.

what the fuck is up with this? i had a friend that did this same shit, and know of a few other girls as well.

Dont listen to the fat japanese guy.

Do you think he broke up with you because you lied to him? Are you sure that was the reason and not an excuse?

Originally Posted by PrettyBitch

I even asked for trail period

Is that like menses from a hike?

Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Is that like menses from a hike?

No, it's where she walks around the house naked with no tampon.....

You lied about something very important. I would not want to risk getting back into that situation. I don't blame him.

Post some pictures of yourself and lets see what we are working with here. This is very important, but I have a strategy that works wonders. This dont have to be nudes but the less the better I can formulate the perfect plan.

Originally Posted by PreMier

what the fuck is up with this? i had a friend that did this same shit, and know of a few other girls as well.

She told me she does it because she wants to keep her mind off of him but I told her that's fucking stupid, I hate girls like that. My gf broke up with me then 3 days later she was screwing people. Immature kids.

Originally Posted by DiGiTaL

She told me she does it because she wants to keep her mind off of him but I told her that's fucking stupid, I hate girls like that. My gf broke up with me then 3 days later she was screwing people. Immature kids.

IDK...

When I broke up w/my X
I went out whoring...

But after a few #*cks that meant nothing
I quickly started looking for something meaningful

I think it was a reaction from getting steady ass
to getting no ass..
My dick was dry, and that was uncomfortable and itchy.

But I realized my heart wasnt being filled so I stopped the whoring
after y'know... 90days of it...

Just met a girl who is a fine-ass-sweetie...
and I found myself not trying to put moves on her.

Sure I want her, but I want it to mean something
and for it to last.

Originally Posted by The Monkey Man

I think it was a reaction from getting steady ass
to getting no ass..

I've gone through that, as I imagine most have. Sucky thing to go through, even though it shouldn't matter so much.

Originally Posted by Mudge

I've gone through that, as I imagine most have. Sucky thing to go through, even though it shouldn't matter so much.

Cant imagine a woman (or girl) wouldn't go through the same mess -

increase ur time at the gym( getting a hot bod is the #1 way to get attention) and start going out with his friends (yes i mean sex) u need to get over him and the best way is to get under someone else.. Dont talk about him at all. After he gets wind that ur over him he will come back. Hopefully by then u will have found someone who wont put u through this bullshit over something small. posting pics here would help

Unfortunatley, all you can do is give him space, there is nothing you can do right now. You don't need someone to make you happy, trust me. I just went through this myself, and giving space was the best thing for me to do. If his mind is made up, then there is nothing that you can do to change it. Life will go on, you will survive this, and eventually you will meet someone, and you will look back at this and wonder why you were so hooked on this guy. Take this time for yourself, and make yourself happy. I know, it sucks, but it is the right thing to do.

You must have seriously lied about some big financial stuff if he dumped you over it. That, or he was just looking for an excuse. Either way, let it go. And next time, don't lie to your boyfriend. Guys tend to not like that.

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

You must have seriously lied about some big financial stuff if he dumped you over it. That, or he was just looking for an excuse. Either way, let it go. And next time, don't lie to your boyfriend. Guys tend to not like that.

Yes, we hate that. I personally can't stand it. I have no time for women who lie.