Thread: divorce

you couldn't make a marriage last more than 6 months?

you may be able to get it annulled.

Originally Posted by bio-chem

you couldn't make a marriage last more than 6 months?

six month was too long for me. I wanna be free again.

Originally Posted by Prince

you may be able to get it annulled.

Thanks.. sounds like a good idea. I hope it is possible.

How old are you?

Originally Posted by Doublebase

How old are you?

The following would be his answer:

6 months into marriage and already looking into divorce.

Harsh

Originally Posted by chobby192

six month was too long for me. I wanna be free again.

Vows are a nice sentiment and all, but were unwilling to put it into practice huh?

Originally Posted by bio-chem

Vows are a nice sentiment and all, but were unwilling to put it into practice huh?

maybe he made a mistake.

"shot gun wedding" perhaps?

Originally Posted by Prince

maybe he made a mistake.

A mistake? yea, i think that is a pretty fair statement. the reasoning he gave was that after 6 months he wanted to be free. His mistake is thinking he is capable of making a commitment.

Originally Posted by bio-chem

A mistake? yea, i think that is a pretty fair statement. the reasoning he gave was that after 6 months he wanted to be free. His mistake is thinking he is capable of making a commitment.

bump to this..

chobby how long did you know this person before you were married?

Originally Posted by bio-chem

A mistake? yea, i think that is a pretty fair statement. the reasoning he gave was that after 6 months he wanted to be free. His mistake is thinking he is capable of making a commitment.

maybe, but I don't think he have enough info to go making judgments about it.

Originally Posted by chobby192

Does anyone know anything about this? Do I have to split my bank account and pay spousal support if I break up my marriage of less than six months? I will be talking to my lawyer but I just want to know to have some peace of mind.

Depending on what state you're in, usually the only thing that is split is anything acquired during the marriage. In only six months, this seems like it would not be that much. It seems as if what you had in your bank account before marriage would not be subject to division.. unless it was a joint account.

The idea of spousal support is to help the spouse in her transition from being married to being self-sufficient. I highly doubt any judge would order spousal support for a 6-month marriage... the idea is that she was self-sufficient before the marriage and the marriage was only 6-months... nothing has really changed unless, for example, she like is highly pregnant with your child and has quit her job as a result. Is she employed? Is she capable of supporting herself? If yes, then spousal support is highly unlikely.

Originally Posted by chobby192

six month was too long for me. I wanna be free again.

So you finally found out you prefer men over woman, DOMS could have told you that long ago.

I am willing to bet the spouse told chobby to fuck off.

I mean seriously.

After only 6 months, I believe an annulment is still an option. Is this a mutual sentiment or just yours?

No need to be miserable for many more years or the rest of your life, best to rectify this now.

You always have the Scott Peterson option.

Chobby PM'ed me with his divorce story. Without getting into the details i'll just attach the pic he sent me and you guys can judge for yourselves.

I'd demand a divorce too!

Originally Posted by min0 lee

So you finally found out you prefer men over woman, DOMS could have told you that long ago.

Originally Posted by DiGiTaL

6 months into marriage and already looking into divorce. Harsh

It is not harsh to me. I am looking forward to it. I missed hanging out with my buddies.

Originally Posted by chobby192

I missed hanging out with my buddies.

Always a good reason to get divorced.

Originally Posted by PreMier

bump to this..

chobby how long did you know this person before you were married?

I have known her for about 14 to 15 years , but started hanging out six to seven months before we both fell into this trap.lol

He likes the company of men...hmmmm

Originally Posted by maxpro2

Depending on what state you're in, usually the only thing that is split is anything acquired during the marriage. In only six months, this seems like it would not be that much. It seems as if what you had in your bank account before marriage would not be subject to division.. unless it was a joint account.

That is exactly what the lawyer told me. No, we don't have joint account.

unless, for example, she like is highly pregnant with your child and has quit her job as a result. Is she employed? Is she capable of supporting herself? If yes, then spousal support is highly unlikely.

I don't think she is pregnant. If she is then its not my baby..0% chance.lol She just started working about a month ago and she makes more than me.

Originally Posted by IronAddict

After only 6 months, I believe an annulment is still an option. Is this a mutual sentiment or just yours?

No need to be miserable for many more years or the rest of your life, best to rectify this now.

You always have the Scott Peterson option.

No fighting or yelling in my marriage. I just found out that marriage is not for me. I think marriage is not for everyone. I think it is only for people who can handle it. Life is so precious so I just want to live happy and I want same for her.

Originally Posted by min0 lee

So you finally found out you prefer men over woman, DOMS could have told you that long ago.

Cut the crap!! I will always love opposite sex, just don't want to have a life partner.