Was I wrong???

Erilaya · 09-19-2002, 05:10 PM

Craig.. how do you feel about taking a second wife?? LOL.. You are amazing! I love reading your thoughts!! WOW>. you wife is one blessed woman.
thanks for sharing..

PB..I canna give input.. as I am useless in this subject.. Hugs to ya tho.

Eri'

Pitboss · 09-19-2002, 06:38 PM

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Originally posted by Erilaya
PB..I canna give input.. as I am useless in this subject.. Hugs to ya tho.

Eri'

Hmmm PB wondering whatwould happen if it was Erilaya he was cuddling with.......... can ya say Pause button!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Erilaya · 09-19-2002, 07:24 PM

PB!! YOU MADE MY NIGHT BABY!! give me five I will do my best to inspire .. Harry Potter or Not... you show me yours I'll show ya Mine.. smiles...

Eri'

craig777 · 09-20-2002, 05:51 AM

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Originally posted by Erilaya
Craig.. how do you feel about taking a second wife?? LOL.. You are amazing! I love reading your thoughts!! WOW>. you wife is one blessed woman.
thanks for sharing..

PB..I canna give input.. as I am useless in this subject.. Hugs to ya tho.

Eri'

Awwww thank you sweetie, and as much as I would love to accept your offer, I think if I did I would have a lot of trouble on my hands. My wife would be blessing me, and blessing me.

Erilaya · 09-20-2002, 05:59 AM

ack that is okay Craig I will make do with the man I have.. He does have some good attributes.. although lately I cannot find them easily.. nt giggles...

naturaltan · 09-20-2002, 08:05 AM

* snicker *

Erilaya · 09-20-2002, 08:43 AM

Hey NT....oh yeah see my "vent" in the FUQ thread.. Hubs saw that lil tidbit above this morning when he needed the puter for a minute to do some online banking..ooops LOL sheeee--ahht!

LOL

Eri'

ali · 09-20-2002, 11:50 AM

i agree with a lot of the good advice here. point being, your girl isn't "mad" at you, behind all anger is hurt anyway. the way i feel when i can't get my boyfriend "off",(ewww) the way i want i feel like it's something personal, or he's not feelin' attracted to me or some kind of girl reason! as a women we always expect the guy to always be ready to go! you just need to communicate more and be able to know it's ok to talk about stuff like this and, maybe tell her it' doesn't mean you love her any less if you can't get in the mood! not to get all men are from mars on ya but we are different!

ali

Pitboss · 09-20-2002, 04:48 PM

Well we talked about that incident and others in the past month or so. But she kept bringing up the fact that she was in the mood while we were watching the movie and obviously I wasn't. My reponse??

Well if "Harry Potter" does it for you I'll buy the DVD and we can watch that anytime you want!!!!!!!!!

End result... we had some great sex. Then I promised that later after she showers to go to work tonight I'd love to go down on her for a bit.

Now here is another example of the things I have to put up with. She showers and then wakes me up from a nap and says "Okay"
Then I half asleep say "Okay what?"
and she says "what you said you'd do"
Me, "said what when? You mean right now when I woke up? Or did I say something in my sleep? Or was it something I said this morning?"
She, "Nevermind"
Me, "Huh?"
silence...................
Me, "Oh you showered!"
her, "Forget it now"
Me, "Oh hell no!!"
Silence and then a lot of moaning

Pitboss · 09-20-2002, 04:51 PM

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Originally posted by Erilaya
PB!! YOU MADE MY NIGHT BABY!! give me five I will do my best to inspire .. Harry Potter or Not... you show me yours I'll show ya Mine.. smiles...

Eri'

Sorry I couldn't stick around.. LIke I said I was wondering and I took that wonder into the bedroom with me before I had to go to work

uhm thanks!!!!!!

Erilaya · 09-20-2002, 04:57 PM

That is alright PB ,"story of my life.". LOL.. glad it all worked out for you though.. sounds like it was a productive talk..

be well.

smiles

Eri'

ali · 09-20-2002, 05:49 PM

hello! how long have you been w/ this person? you 2 need to talk about these things, really! when i first met my guy and let's say he woke me up, i would be like woohoo, but as time passes you begin to be more confident and realize the realtionship isn't just about sex. don't get me wrong it is a great part of it, but there is no need to always be in the mood for the simple reason of kepin' the person interested. and plus sleep rules! no, but really, if you wake me i'm like a creature from anouther world. i don't think your wrong if you will and do intend to discuss these issues if you feel the realtionship is worth it. and your girl needs to be a little more confident in her man! hey, was harry potter good?

Pitboss · 09-20-2002, 07:09 PM

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Originally posted by ali
hello! how long have you been w/ this person? you 2 need to talk about these things, really! when i first met my guy and let's say he woke me up, i would be like woohoo, but as time passes you begin to be more confident and realize the realtionship isn't just about sex. don't get me wrong it is a great part of it, but there is no need to always be in the mood for the simple reason of kepin' the person interested. and plus sleep rules! no, but really, if you wake me i'm like a creature from anouther world. i don't think your wrong if you will and do intend to discuss these issues if you feel the realtionship is worth it. and your girl needs to be a little more confident in her man! hey, was harry potter good?

We have talked more than once. We have only been dating for 6 months and she has been living with me for a month, almost a month. We just don't see each other as much as we used to.

She has her issues as we all do. I remember her gettinmg upset one time because I didn't hold her at night... uhm while I was sleeping I didn't hold her. Christ I was asleep!! LOL

For more reading I think you'll find a little more info in my diary in the journal forum.. Diary of a Madman.

Oh and actually Harry Potter was pretty good for what it's worth.

ali · 09-21-2002, 11:51 AM

hey buddy, sounds like you really care about her, so , work it out! good people are hard to find, when you love someone you should fight for them, and realize that when you give up on a person for there issues and annoyances, sure enough there will be someone you will meet with other issues....ya know! it's funny b/c people think just b/c they live 2gether they will have more time, and it's so the opposite. you sound like a nice guy who is going through something, as we all do. the first 6 months of any realtionship are tough and scary, but, get past this and you 2 can manage anything!

Pitboss · 09-21-2002, 12:03 PM

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Originally posted by ali
hey buddy, sounds like you really care about her, so , work it out! good people are hard to find, when you love someone you should fight for them, and realize that when you give up on a person for there issues and annoyances, sure enough there will be someone you will meet with other issues....ya know! it's funny b/c people think just b/c they live 2gether they will have more time, and it's so the opposite. you sound like a nice guy who is going through something, as we all do. the first 6 months of any realtionship are tough and scary, but, get past this and you 2 can manage anything!

Oh there have been times that I wanted to bang my head agaisnt the wall and scream "why?" Sometimes I just want to give up on the whole relationship thing but I keep going. Sometiems I swear I'm putting more effort into this than I did my marriage... hmm wonder what my therapist would say about that?? Yes I have a therapist. I see her only every 3 weeks instead of weekly now and I'm so totally in lust with her.. okay her ankles, feet and cleavage!! LOL

Erilaya · 09-21-2002, 01:38 PM

PB.. come on over. I will be your therapist.. you said you liked my cleavage too .. you teaser!

( hey I know what your saying 'bout the relationship thang.. I have been married twice and engaged more times than I care to admit LOL..this one seems to be wroking so far. well it is the longest at least Hee Hee )

Eri'

ali · 09-21-2002, 03:30 PM

weel, i've never been married or engaged. the man i'm with now is awesome and we probally will be gettin' hitched soon. but i was never the type to deal with crap or have a boyfriend just b/c everyone else did. no, i dated the guy who i wanted to change, or the bad boy. i had severe father issues, and i also was in thearpy. i felt it did me good. although i probally will always have some discomfort towards the situation. maybe you are putting more into this girl than you did to your x wife. and guess what? that's awesome, b/c you are learning from mistakes and keeping a good thing. your girl does sound a lil insacure. i was like that w/ my boyfriend till one day he freaked out and was like, "i dont always want to hug and kiss and cuddle, and it has nothing to do w/ my feelings for you! not everything has to do w/ feelings!" god i feel like dr. phill.!! please tell me more. i used to have a lot of cleve, but, i went off the pill! now i have pearky b cups! that's cool.....right? do you really lust your theripist?

Pitboss · 09-21-2002, 03:38 PM

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Originally posted by Erilaya
PB.. come on over. I will be your therapist.. you said you liked my cleavage too .. you teaser!
Eri'

Woman that's not cleavage. That for some men is a dream cum true. I could so get lost in there!!!!!!!

Pitboss · 09-21-2002, 03:42 PM

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Originally posted by ali
weel, i've never been married or engaged. the man i'm with now is awesome and we probally will be gettin' hitched soon. but i was never the type to deal with crap or have a boyfriend just b/c everyone else did. no, i dated the guy who i wanted to change, or the bad boy. i had severe father issues, and i also was in thearpy. i felt it did me good. although i probally will always have some discomfort towards the situation. maybe you are putting more into this girl than you did to your x wife. and guess what? that's awesome, b/c you are learning from mistakes and keeping a good thing. your girl does sound a lil insacure. i was like that w/ my boyfriend till one day he freaked out and was like, "i dont always want to hug and kiss and cuddle, and it has nothing to do w/ my feelings for you! not everything has to do w/ feelings!" god i feel like dr. phill.!! please tell me more. i used to have a lot of cleve, but, i went off the pill! now i have pearky b cups! that's cool.....right? do you really lust your theripist?

Ali I hope you stick around this place I'm beginning to really like you

This relationship is way different than any I have had before. Mostly the fact that we do tend to have communication problems on a daily basis and I'm still learning how to handle that.
She is insecure and I tend to be controlling and extremely impulsive. Keeping myself from say "goodbye" is a very hard thing for me.. LOL

Yes I do have a little crush on Dr. Amy. She should have never shown me her ankles.. LOL

Perky B cup huh? I don't believe you prove it

ali · 09-21-2002, 04:04 PM

i wish i could show you....maybe soon i'll learn how to put a picture on here and booombs away! i feel like my mom on the computer...it's so new to me! life is about learning and screwing up and screwing around...no no only kiddin'...you be good! when i met my guy i couldn't stand him. i met him at the gym...SHOCKER! but he is def. not the typically gym guy, he's more of a tri athlete. i was on the bike once and i had a shirt draped over the top of the bike, he walked over and smelled the arm pit. dud, i flipped out! he's like a joker, grooose bathroom humor joker! point being i didn't give a flying fkuc what i did or said around him b/c i didn't care if he left. today that is the one thing he loves about me....ya know that i always say what's on my mind. not that it comes easy for me but, no i fool my self into thinking it's easy b/c it was in the beginning and it keeps us open honest and in love! ew cheesy! my therapist was a little Jewish women, def. not like ms. Amy!

CRASHMAN · 09-22-2002, 06:37 AM

so PB can you get mad at her now when she's not in the mood?

ali · 09-22-2002, 02:36 PM

good point! what do you do when's she's all "i have a head ache!"

Pitboss · 09-22-2002, 02:56 PM

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Originally posted by ali
good point! what do you do when's she's all "i have a head ache!"

Uhm take care business

ali · 09-22-2002, 02:59 PM

what like, by yourself

Pitboss · 09-22-2002, 04:15 PM

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Originally posted by ali
what like, by yourself

Well I sure wasn't gonna ask my neighbor for help.. he's not my type!!!

BUSTINOUT · 10-09-2002, 01:14 AM

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Originally posted by Leslie2196
YES! My BF used to get mad sometimes because I used to "reject" him

It was only usually because I was in the middle of something-like cooking ect. What happens is she will feel that you are not attarcted to her, or the movie is more important, or worst yet she will be afraid to make a "move" in the futre becasue she will fear she will be rejected again! You have a woman initiating sex, do you know how many guys would kill for that

Well finally, the tables are turned. Sucks don't it? PB, she is pissed cause now the shoe is on the other foot. Sometimes you just gotta let them be pissed and go on about your business. BTW, how was the movie? lol Always remember one thing, no matter what you do or say, you are wrong. lol

ali · 10-09-2002, 08:19 AM

not true! noone is ever always wrong! that is for people who like to play the poor me roll! deal w/ the real issues at hand and stop that "were always wrong" sounds like an episode of "the man show"

09-20-2002, 08:05 AM	#36
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09-20-2002, 11:50 AM	#38
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	i agree with a lot of the good advice here. point being, your girl isn't "mad" at you, behind all anger is hurt anyway. the way i feel when i can't get my boyfriend "off",(ewww) the way i want i feel like it's something personal, or he's not feelin' attracted to me or some kind of girl reason! as a women we always expect the guy to always be ready to go! you just need to communicate more and be able to know it's ok to talk about stuff like this and, maybe tell her it' doesn't mean you love her any less if you can't get in the mood! not to get all men are from mars on ya but we are different! ali
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09-20-2002, 04:48 PM	#39
Pitboss User title goes here Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: In my own world Posts: 3,114 Photos: 6	Well we talked about that incident and others in the past month or so. But she kept bringing up the fact that she was in the mood while we were watching the movie and obviously I wasn't. My reponse?? Well if "Harry Potter" does it for you I'll buy the DVD and we can watch that anytime you want!!!!!!!!! End result... we had some great sex. Then I promised that later after she showers to go to work tonight I'd love to go down on her for a bit. Now here is another example of the things I have to put up with. She showers and then wakes me up from a nap and says "Okay" Then I half asleep say "Okay what?" and she says "what you said you'd do" Me, "said what when? You mean right now when I woke up? Or did I say something in my sleep? Or was it something I said this morning?" She, "Nevermind" Me, "Huh?" silence................... Me, "Oh you showered!" her, "Forget it now" Me, "Oh hell no!!" Silence and then a lot of moaning
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09-20-2002, 05:49 PM	#42
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	hello! how long have you been w/ this person? you 2 need to talk about these things, really! when i first met my guy and let's say he woke me up, i would be like woohoo, but as time passes you begin to be more confident and realize the realtionship isn't just about sex. don't get me wrong it is a great part of it, but there is no need to always be in the mood for the simple reason of kepin' the person interested. and plus sleep rules! no, but really, if you wake me i'm like a creature from anouther world. i don't think your wrong if you will and do intend to discuss these issues if you feel the realtionship is worth it. and your girl needs to be a little more confident in her man! hey, was harry potter good?
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09-21-2002, 11:51 AM	#44
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	hey buddy, sounds like you really care about her, so , work it out! good people are hard to find, when you love someone you should fight for them, and realize that when you give up on a person for there issues and annoyances, sure enough there will be someone you will meet with other issues....ya know! it's funny b/c people think just b/c they live 2gether they will have more time, and it's so the opposite. you sound like a nice guy who is going through something, as we all do. the first 6 months of any realtionship are tough and scary, but, get past this and you 2 can manage anything!
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09-19-2002, 05:10 PM	#31
Erilaya Registered User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: my own lil world Posts: 867	Craig.. how do you feel about taking a second wife?? LOL.. You are amazing! I love reading your thoughts!! WOW>. you wife is one blessed woman. thanks for sharing.. PB..I canna give input.. as I am useless in this subject.. Hugs to ya tho. Eri'

09-19-2002, 07:24 PM	#33
Erilaya Registered User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: my own lil world Posts: 867	PB!! YOU MADE MY NIGHT BABY!! give me five I will do my best to inspire .. Harry Potter or Not... you show me yours I'll show ya Mine.. smiles... Eri'

09-20-2002, 05:59 AM	#35
Erilaya Registered User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: my own lil world Posts: 867	ack that is okay Craig I will make do with the man I have.. He does have some good attributes.. although lately I cannot find them easily.. nt giggles...

09-20-2002, 08:43 AM	#37
Erilaya Registered User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: my own lil world Posts: 867	Hey NT....oh yeah see my "vent" in the FUQ thread.. Hubs saw that lil tidbit above this morning when he needed the puter for a minute to do some online banking..ooops LOL sheeee--ahht! LOL Eri'

09-20-2002, 04:57 PM	#41
Erilaya Registered User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: my own lil world Posts: 867	That is alright PB ,"story of my life.". LOL.. glad it all worked out for you though.. sounds like it was a productive talk.. be well. smiles Eri'

09-21-2002, 01:38 PM	#46
Erilaya Registered User Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: my own lil world Posts: 867	PB.. come on over. I will be your therapist.. you said you liked my cleavage too .. you teaser! ( hey I know what your saying 'bout the relationship thang.. I have been married twice and engaged more times than I care to admit LOL..this one seems to be wroking so far. well it is the longest at least Hee Hee ) Eri'

09-21-2002, 03:30 PM	#47
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	weel, i've never been married or engaged. the man i'm with now is awesome and we probally will be gettin' hitched soon. but i was never the type to deal with crap or have a boyfriend just b/c everyone else did. no, i dated the guy who i wanted to change, or the bad boy. i had severe father issues, and i also was in thearpy. i felt it did me good. although i probally will always have some discomfort towards the situation. maybe you are putting more into this girl than you did to your x wife. and guess what? that's awesome, b/c you are learning from mistakes and keeping a good thing. your girl does sound a lil insacure. i was like that w/ my boyfriend till one day he freaked out and was like, "i dont always want to hug and kiss and cuddle, and it has nothing to do w/ my feelings for you! not everything has to do w/ feelings!" god i feel like dr. phill.!! please tell me more. i used to have a lot of cleve, but, i went off the pill! now i have pearky b cups! that's cool.....right? do you really lust your theripist?
	N/A

09-21-2002, 04:04 PM	#50
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	i wish i could show you....maybe soon i'll learn how to put a picture on here and booombs away! i feel like my mom on the computer...it's so new to me! life is about learning and screwing up and screwing around...no no only kiddin'...you be good! when i met my guy i couldn't stand him. i met him at the gym...SHOCKER! but he is def. not the typically gym guy, he's more of a tri athlete. i was on the bike once and i had a shirt draped over the top of the bike, he walked over and smelled the arm pit. dud, i flipped out! he's like a joker, grooose bathroom humor joker! point being i didn't give a flying fkuc what i did or said around him b/c i didn't care if he left. today that is the one thing he loves about me....ya know that i always say what's on my mind. not that it comes easy for me but, no i fool my self into thinking it's easy b/c it was in the beginning and it keeps us open honest and in love! ew cheesy! my therapist was a little Jewish women, def. not like ms. Amy!
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09-22-2002, 06:37 AM	#51
CRASHMAN SoCal. Stud Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: in a box on a corner near you Posts: 10,081 Photos: 2	so PB can you get mad at her now when she's not in the mood?
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09-22-2002, 02:36 PM	#52
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	good point! what do you do when's she's all "i have a head ache!"
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09-22-2002, 02:59 PM	#54
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	what like, by yourself
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10-09-2002, 08:19 AM	#57
ali Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: LONG ISLAND Posts: 17	not true! noone is ever always wrong! that is for people who like to play the poor me roll! deal w/ the real issues at hand and stop that "were always wrong" sounds like an episode of "the man show"
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