Quick question

Muscle_Girl · 09-23-2002, 06:42 PM

Ok, me and the boy were gettin it on last night on the couch.. I was on top and he was almost ready to splat

So.. I asked him not to make a mess on the couch and asked him if he needed a lil somethin to clean up. He said no it's ok, so I was like.. well why dun you just go inside me and I can push it out afterwards... he was like you sure? I was like yea.. it should be ok.

I know I shouldn't have done it, but I did. Was just wondering if this actually does work.. I did end up getting alot out afterwards, but am still a lil cautious on the matter. I am due up for my period over the next few weeks so I should know by then.. but its the worst thing to have on your mind.

Does squeezin it out work.. and are there actually chances of me NOT being pregnant at the moment?

Dr. Pain · 09-23-2002, 06:47 PM

Please don't take this the wrong way.......

Next time...take a popsicle stick and coat it with P-nut Butter.....insert it and all of the future baby making sperm, well, they stick to the P-nut butter like little addicts

FUCK NO IT DOESN'T WORK!

Do you know what they call people who practice Rhythm?

DP

w8lifter · 09-23-2002, 06:49 PM

OMG!!!!

Muscle_Girl · 09-23-2002, 06:50 PM

I know.. I said I shouldn't have done it, but I was too lazy to get up and stuff..

Have I dug myself a big hole?

Twin Peak · 09-23-2002, 06:54 PM

perhaps.

w8lifter · 09-23-2002, 06:55 PM

MG....your fucking attitude sucks! I know not what you want to hear, but fuck! Very fucking childish and immature thing to do....obviously too young to be having sex!

CRASHMAN · 09-23-2002, 06:55 PM

i love your responce w8

Dr. Pain · 09-23-2002, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dr. Pain

Do you know what they call people who practice Rhythm?

???

DP

CRASHMAN · 09-23-2002, 06:56 PM

(the omg one)

CRASHMAN · 09-23-2002, 06:57 PM

shit shit shit shit shit!

Muscle_Girl · 09-23-2002, 07:04 PM

Yea I know it was a childish thing to do.. but geez.. back up a lil and gimme some room here.. Answer my question for one, and please gimme some support.. I really need it!

CRASHMAN · 09-23-2002, 07:04 PM

i'm sorry to say this MG but if i were you i'd go get a pregnacy test

Muscle_Girl · 09-23-2002, 07:06 PM

Would it even sho up so quickly.. sperm lasts 72 hours right.. so conception would take a lil longer than about.. uhh.. 24 hrs?

Twin Peak · 09-23-2002, 07:09 PM

I think your question was answered. Several times. You want detail.

First, what were you doing practing unprotected sex? Obviously from you comment you are not using birth control. What about sexual diseases? And don't give me the "we are monogomous" crap...blah blah bla....not worth it hun.

Second, if your form of birth control is pulling out (doesn't work, you can still get pregnant even if he never cums inside you) what the hell are you doing giving that up. Since you need not cum inside a woman to get her pregnant, obviously squeezing it out is NOT GOING TO WORK.

I suggest you keep your fingers crossed and learn a pretty damn big lesson.

Dr. Pain · 09-23-2002, 07:11 PM

PARENTS!

Don't do that again

DP

Muscle_Girl · 09-23-2002, 07:13 PM

To tell you the truth I was more concerned with myself not being able to have kids and stuff.. and I dunno, I was stressing over the whole thing.

I asked my guy if he would stay with me if I was sterile and he said he didn't know. So that kinda scared the shit outta me and stuff.

We have been through this before where he accidentally cummed a lil inside me and that was surprising to not have gotten me pregnant... I dunno, I cant really take criticism here so please dont give it in the thread.

Badger · 09-23-2002, 07:23 PM

MG- NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

I realize that you did something that you knew better than to do in the first place. This method is no good. Nor is anything else other than abstenence for the 100% sure fire method of not getting pregnant. Please in the future if you are going to be "active" please use all the protection that you can. Better safe than sorry. Children are a wonderful thing but not when you are not ready for them.

animal56 · 09-23-2002, 09:50 PM

MG,

FYI - The semen is just a vessel for the sperm to help it get through any obstacles or antibodies in your body.

Chances are, that if the sperm wants to get through, it would have "infected" before you "squeezed".

If you had an orgasm, the chances of conception are even higher. The female orgasm is actually the cervix extending and dipping into the pool of sperm inside your vagina (if I have my anatomy right).

Your best bet is to get to the doctor and take a morning after pill if you are truly worried (maybe over-the-counter in the US?). It'll cost you $$ and lay you up in illness for a few days (puke and all), but it's your best bet in these next few hours. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL YOUR PERIOD IF YOU ARE NOT INTENDING TO CARRY A FETUS! You'll be walking into abortion/pregnancy territory then.

Whatever happens MG, be calm. As a young woman, I'm sure this won't be the last time you'll have a "scare". As well, I think the intentions of the people in this post are good, but maybe a bit misdirected and critical (father figurely?). What's done is done. Now you have to think things out, react as appropriate, and hopefully you'll learn from this, and maybe find alternative birth control methods.

I'm a 27 year old father of a 6 year old daughter, speaking from experience.

meathead · 09-23-2002, 10:14 PM

are you kidding me????!!!! OMG.
it saddens me to hear things like this.

if you actually get through this without incident...and i pray you do...PLEASE, PLEASE, go take a sexual education class or something. it is very obvious you have a lot to learn.

i am sure the people here are not trying to be mean. we are just very concerned with your actions and your well being.

lean_n_76er · 09-23-2002, 10:32 PM

MG - I can not say anything Animal didn't (well, except the father thing).

Animal - nice support and nice post!

CRASHMAN · 09-24-2002, 03:02 AM

ever try to squeeze all the ketchup outa te bottle

mmafiter · 09-24-2002, 05:37 AM

Take it from a guy who became a father at 19 out of sheer stupidity such as this, never do this type of thing again. You have no idea how much your life will change should you become a teenage parent. I'm actually amazed I wasn't a parent much, much sooner.

I'm 32 and I look at my friends who were smart about sex in highschool and they have thier houses almost paid for, nice cars, money in the bank etc, and they are now secure/mature enough to have children. I on the other hand took any job I could find, finished highschool at 21 and college and 25, because of this and I will never achieve the same sort of financial success as my peers. Also, my teens and early twenties period of learning and experimenting are lost to me.

Not to be a downer, or wallow in self pity but just trying to show you there are real, life altering consequences to your behaviour.

**MtnBikerChk** · 09-24-2002, 07:13 AM

This is from the same girl who laughed at her boyfriend for not being able to get it up.

MG, I'd take a step back and evaluate your life....

1. are you mature enough to be having sex?
2. why are you even having sex - do you love your boyfriend? (doesn't really sound like it)
3. does he love you?

You seriously need some counseling (and maybe be sent back to school for some sex ed).

**MtnBikerChk** · 09-24-2002, 07:21 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mmafiter
Take it from a guy who became a father at 19 out of sheer stupidity......

I'm 32.....

So that means w8 was......

w8lifter · 09-24-2002, 07:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MtnBikerChk

So that means w8 was......

17

ponyboy · 09-24-2002, 07:49 AM

Simple solution process:

1. Go to your doctor or walk in clinic and get a morning after pill and deal with your current problem.

2. Stop having sex for now. Yes, it is great and fun but obviously NEITHER of you is mature enough to deal with the consequences if you get pregnant is you can't even be bothered to use birth control. If your boyfriend gets pissed off, dump him. He should know better than to come inside a girl unprotected anyway.

3. Talk to your doctor about getting on birth control pills or something similar that will protect you.

I as well almost had a child at the age of 18...she ended up miscarrying, but still, every time I think about it I get the willies. I commend people who have had enough balls to raise a family being so young and actually taking care of their mistakes. My respect level for w8 and mmafiter just went up a couple of notches.

Pianomahnn · 09-24-2002, 09:34 AM

Squeeze it out?

You're kidding me, right?

It's obvious you can squat and hump like mad, but you don't have even the basics on what it's all about.

Your probably preggers, chick dude.

75 cents for piece of rubber is a lot cheaper than 21 years with a child.

Muscle_Girl · 09-24-2002, 10:09 AM

Thanks for the advice and all, but I am seriously regretting posting this now.. although most of you have put in alot of nice things to say, some of you have just been way too brutal.. no matter what persepctive your looking at it from.

I know damn well I am not ready for a kid, and it was the most stupid mistake I could make so far in my life.. but it happened.

I am scared shitless here and what you guys say is not supportive.. and what I need is support right now.

Anyone wanna tell me their opinion of abortion.. (I am NOT looking for people yelling at me, just getting an idea for what may or may not happen)

AND please, please stop jumping down my throat about this.. I have done it enough towards myself.

w8lifter · 09-24-2002, 11:48 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by animal56
MG,

FYI - The semen is just a vessel for the sperm to help it get through any obstacles or antibodies in your body.

Chances are, that if the sperm wants to get through, it would have "infected" b

09-23-2002, 06:42 PM	#1
Muscle_Girl Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,757 Photos: 3	Quick question Ok, me and the boy were gettin it on last night on the couch.. I was on top and he was almost ready to splat So.. I asked him not to make a mess on the couch and asked him if he needed a lil somethin to clean up. He said no it's ok, so I was like.. well why dun you just go inside me and I can push it out afterwards... he was like you sure? I was like yea.. it should be ok. I know I shouldn't have done it, but I did. Was just wondering if this actually does work.. I did end up getting alot out afterwards, but am still a lil cautious on the matter. I am due up for my period over the next few weeks so I should know by then.. but its the worst thing to have on your mind. Does squeezin it out work.. and are there actually chances of me NOT being pregnant at the moment?
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09-23-2002, 06:50 PM	#4
Muscle_Girl Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,757 Photos: 3	I know.. I said I shouldn't have done it, but I was too lazy to get up and stuff.. Have I dug myself a big hole?
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09-23-2002, 06:54 PM	#5
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09-23-2002, 06:55 PM	#7
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09-23-2002, 06:47 PM	#2
Dr. Pain Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Get the Duct Tape...I'm Ripped Again! Posts: 11,239	Please don't take this the wrong way....... Next time...take a popsicle stick and coat it with P-nut Butter.....insert it and all of the future baby making sperm, well, they stick to the P-nut butter like little addicts FUCK NO IT DOESN'T WORK! Do you know what they call people who practice Rhythm? DP

09-23-2002, 06:49 PM	#3
w8lifter Join Date: May 2001 Location: Around..... Posts: 14,964	OMG!!!!

09-23-2002, 06:57 PM	#10
CRASHMAN SoCal. Stud Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: in a box on a corner near you Posts: 10,081 Photos: 2	shit shit shit shit shit!
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09-23-2002, 07:04 PM	#11
Muscle_Girl Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,757 Photos: 3	Yea I know it was a childish thing to do.. but geez.. back up a lil and gimme some room here.. Answer my question for one, and please gimme some support.. I really need it!
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09-23-2002, 07:06 PM	#13
Muscle_Girl Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,757 Photos: 3	Would it even sho up so quickly.. sperm lasts 72 hours right.. so conception would take a lil longer than about.. uhh.. 24 hrs?
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09-23-2002, 07:09 PM	#14
Twin Peak Peak Physiques™ Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: NY Posts: 7,967	I think your question was answered. Several times. You want detail. First, what were you doing practing unprotected sex? Obviously from you comment you are not using birth control. What about sexual diseases? And don't give me the "we are monogomous" crap...blah blah bla....not worth it hun. Second, if your form of birth control is pulling out (doesn't work, you can still get pregnant even if he never cums inside you) what the hell are you doing giving that up. Since you need not cum inside a woman to get her pregnant, obviously squeezing it out is NOT GOING TO WORK. I suggest you keep your fingers crossed and learn a pretty damn big lesson.
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09-23-2002, 07:11 PM	#15
Dr. Pain Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Get the Duct Tape...I'm Ripped Again! Posts: 11,239	PARENTS! Don't do that again DP

09-23-2002, 07:13 PM	#16
Muscle_Girl Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,757 Photos: 3	To tell you the truth I was more concerned with myself not being able to have kids and stuff.. and I dunno, I was stressing over the whole thing. I asked my guy if he would stay with me if I was sterile and he said he didn't know. So that kinda scared the shit outta me and stuff. We have been through this before where he accidentally cummed a lil inside me and that was surprising to not have gotten me pregnant... I dunno, I cant really take criticism here so please dont give it in the thread.
	Just a girl.... Looking for muscles!!

09-23-2002, 07:23 PM	#17
Badger What tan line? Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: Down south Posts: 1,115	MG- NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!! I realize that you did something that you knew better than to do in the first place. This method is no good. Nor is anything else other than abstenence for the 100% sure fire method of not getting pregnant. Please in the future if you are going to be "active" please use all the protection that you can. Better safe than sorry. Children are a wonderful thing but not when you are not ready for them.

09-23-2002, 09:50 PM	#18
animal56 Totally Blasted to Shreds Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: O...Canada! Posts: 322	MG, FYI - The semen is just a vessel for the sperm to help it get through any obstacles or antibodies in your body. Chances are, that if the sperm wants to get through, it would have "infected" before you "squeezed". If you had an orgasm, the chances of conception are even higher. The female orgasm is actually the cervix extending and dipping into the pool of sperm inside your vagina (if I have my anatomy right). Your best bet is to get to the doctor and take a morning after pill if you are truly worried (maybe over-the-counter in the US?). It'll cost you $$ and lay you up in illness for a few days (puke and all), but it's your best bet in these next few hours. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL YOUR PERIOD IF YOU ARE NOT INTENDING TO CARRY A FETUS! You'll be walking into abortion/pregnancy territory then. Whatever happens MG, be calm. As a young woman, I'm sure this won't be the last time you'll have a "scare". As well, I think the intentions of the people in this post are good, but maybe a bit misdirected and critical (father figurely?). What's done is done. Now you have to think things out, react as appropriate, and hopefully you'll learn from this, and maybe find alternative birth control methods. I'm a 27 year old father of a 6 year old daughter, speaking from experience.
	Those who trumpet their sufferings are most deserving of misery.

09-23-2002, 10:14 PM	#19
meathead Member Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: VA Posts: 80	are you kidding me????!!!! OMG. it saddens me to hear things like this. if you actually get through this without incident...and i pray you do...PLEASE, PLEASE, go take a sexual education class or something. it is very obvious you have a lot to learn. i am sure the people here are not trying to be mean. we are just very concerned with your actions and your well being.

09-23-2002, 10:32 PM	#20
lean_n_76er Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: right where I want to be Posts: 2,225	MG - I can not say anything Animal didn't (well, except the father thing). Animal - nice support and nice post!
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09-24-2002, 03:02 AM	#21
CRASHMAN SoCal. Stud Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: in a box on a corner near you Posts: 10,081 Photos: 2	ever try to squeeze all the ketchup outa te bottle
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09-24-2002, 05:37 AM	#22
mmafiter Red Rocket! Red Rocket! Join Date: Jun 2001 Location: Do you EVEN FUQQING care? Posts: 2,020	Take it from a guy who became a father at 19 out of sheer stupidity such as this, never do this type of thing again. You have no idea how much your life will change should you become a teenage parent. I'm actually amazed I wasn't a parent much, much sooner. I'm 32 and I look at my friends who were smart about sex in highschool and they have thier houses almost paid for, nice cars, money in the bank etc, and they are now secure/mature enough to have children. I on the other hand took any job I could find, finished highschool at 21 and college and 25, because of this and I will never achieve the same sort of financial success as my peers. Also, my teens and early twenties period of learning and experimenting are lost to me. Not to be a downer, or wallow in self pity but just trying to show you there are real, life altering consequences to your behaviour.

09-24-2002, 07:13 AM	#23
MtnBikerChk Stealth Moderator Moderator Join Date: Mar 2001 Location: Dead last Posts: 1,448	This is from the same girl who laughed at her boyfriend for not being able to get it up. MG, I'd take a step back and evaluate your life.... 1. are you mature enough to be having sex? 2. why are you even having sex - do you love your boyfriend? (doesn't really sound like it) 3. does he love you? You seriously need some counseling (and maybe be sent back to school for some sex ed). Last edited by MtnBikerChk : 09-24-2002 at 07:17 AM.
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09-24-2002, 07:49 AM	#26
ponyboy Training Trainer Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Running around somewhere Posts: 2,608 Photos: 1	Simple solution process: 1. Go to your doctor or walk in clinic and get a morning after pill and deal with your current problem. 2. Stop having sex for now. Yes, it is great and fun but obviously NEITHER of you is mature enough to deal with the consequences if you get pregnant is you can't even be bothered to use birth control. If your boyfriend gets pissed off, dump him. He should know better than to come inside a girl unprotected anyway. 3. Talk to your doctor about getting on birth control pills or something similar that will protect you. I as well almost had a child at the age of 18...she ended up miscarrying, but still, every time I think about it I get the willies. I commend people who have had enough balls to raise a family being so young and actually taking care of their mistakes. My respect level for w8 and mmafiter just went up a couple of notches.
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09-24-2002, 09:34 AM	#27
Pianomahnn I bike to work. Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Chicago, IL Posts: 1,224 Photos: 6	Squeeze it out? You're kidding me, right? It's obvious you can squat and hump like mad, but you don't have even the basics on what it's all about. Your probably preggers, chick dude. 75 cents for piece of rubber is a lot cheaper than 21 years with a child.

09-24-2002, 10:09 AM	#28
Muscle_Girl Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 1,757 Photos: 3	Thanks for the advice and all, but I am seriously regretting posting this now.. although most of you have put in alot of nice things to say, some of you have just been way too brutal.. no matter what persepctive your looking at it from. I know damn well I am not ready for a kid, and it was the most stupid mistake I could make so far in my life.. but it happened. I am scared shitless here and what you guys say is not supportive.. and what I need is support right now. Anyone wanna tell me their opinion of abortion.. (I am NOT looking for people yelling at me, just getting an idea for what may or may not happen) AND please, please stop jumping down my throat about this.. I have done it enough towards myself.
	Just a girl.... Looking for muscles!!