Thread: Tip of the day Monday Oct 28, 2002

Sex Tip: Before making love, stand in front of her after she's undressed and hold your fingertips right above her skin. Move hands all the way up and down her body.


Why it works: Positive anticipation is a huge part of what turns women on, says Michael Seiler, Ph.D., sex therapist and director of the Phoenix Institute in Chicago. By levitating your fingers above the skin so they brush those fine body hairs, you're creating a delightful shiver up her spine--and making her feel as though you appreciate every inch of her body.

How to do it: Help her undress (another positive anticipation stoker); once she's totally naked, take her hand and stand facing her. Brush her hair back and let your fingertips hover over the surface of her skin. You're right where you should be if the fat part of your fingerpad is touching her skin every so slightly. Now go ahead and run your pads over her arms, torso (including breasts), and legs.

with a really really thick brush, one of those horse brushes..... don't forget her mane Kuso!!