Thread: Permission to cheat!!!

dude its your wife and she is having a hard time / possibly struggling with depression. There is a kid involved too.....If you have a great relationship with your wife and the mother of your child regardless of how much she says its ok (and dosent want to know about it) dont fuckin do it. Be a man and take it as you get it and invest in porn if you have to. I dunno but loving the person I'm with, having a relationship with them (a healthy relationship), and establishing a functional family is more important than gettin my dick wet every once in a while.

First rule in a relationship if you love someone, don't cheat.
If she tells you it's ok, don't cheat.
If she has a hot naked chick waiting for you, don't cheat.

Like others have said, there are some big issues going on. You have a 4yr old and with that reponsibility, you are required to do the right thing. Frusterating, but it's just the reality of it. Work with her on fixing the issue. Have a date night and rekindle things gently. A visit to the doc may be in order.

I have 4 kids (3 - 13) and maybe, MAYBE get some once a week. Our youngest girl is 3 and sleeps with us and we know that hampers things. Thats ok with both of us and mutually agree to the decisions we made. We rarely have a date night and have never been without our youngest overnight for any reason. Yes, the love life is diminished and sometimes frusterating, but we both know what we were getting into when we signed up. I'll make up for lost time soon enough.

Just have patience with the situation and work with her on resolving the issues. Meanwhile, there's a fleshlight with your initials engraved on it.

Bro.....Just do what everyone else does....Whack it, and fuck a chick on the side once in a while. Hookers work better since you don't have to worry about random phone calls or text messages. Just go, pay, fuck, and go home.
Don't EVER let her know you're doing this. Your relationship will NEVER be the same again.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

it means she already is.

Agreed

Originally Posted by Ravager

Well no shit, she has no sex drive whatsoever... we have a 4 year old who chews up our free time... I'm down to a Saturday night only event, and I have to make it quick.

She tells me she doesn't care if I cheat, because she doesn't want to have sex ever since the kid.......

oh yeah, the other thing Is I just can't tell her about it... she doesn't want to know.

that is why a marriage takes work!

sit h er down and talk about things! I def would not do it though(cheating) bc yes it still is cheating and one if not both will regret it sooner or later