Thread: Realationship issue.

Originally Posted by phosphor

I think what it comes down to with me, is I see myself through him and what he's thinking. If many of us had another chance to go bad and change things... that's kinda what we're thinking when we're trying to guide you blaze. We just want the best for ya man. We want to beat you over the head if we see you going down a path we already took and regreted.

AMEN brother....instead what if you stay with this chick,end up getting her pregos and eventually marry her...later on down the road she does the same shit but now you have all this love for your kid so you feel like your not only walking out on her but your child too...trust me bro, it just gets more complicated..Like he said "we're just trying to keep u from going down a path that some of us have been down and may still be on for 1 reason or another..It's no way to live and trust me when I say you may think you know if someone has cheated on your or not but unless you are with her 24/7 for the whole 5 years you been together you truly don't know...I hope the best but expect the same thing will happen to you that happened to us....insanity is doing the same thing over & over and expecting different results...

Once again thanks guys.
I know deep down she hasn't cheated.
I know you may think here we go again.
5 Years she's never left the house to go out with her friends.
She actually lost contact with all of them.
Only last month she went out for the first time to her new friends from work which was for some food they where going into town afterwards.....she went home after the dinner.
I go out Friday and see her Saturday.
Friday i will be out all night going into town Clubs pubs After parties...ect.
She sits at home happily with her family....strange but thats what she enjoys.
She calls me when i am out.from her house phone to tell me she misses me and can't wait to see me tomorrow.


Her Job and her car.
She doesn't work she goes into debt with her car.
Her only time she will go to a pub or club is with me.
She hates going herself.


Thanks to you guys.
Next time i see a smoking hot chick who wants some fun...who's to stop me..?

If you dont have any kids I would move on I've been in a relationship fr 7 years with my 1st love myself esteem has been bodyslammed more than once if it wasnt for the kids i would be gone in my eyes never thinking much of myself anyway your self esteem is one of the most important thing you have without it everything in life seems shitty if you dont feel good about yourself its hard to get through the day.I would move on if no kids r involved if youve been good to her you deserve better.It will suck for awhile.Also dont jump into another relationship to soon although hard to say that some people feel lost unless they are in one.Best of luck