issues?

irontime · 01-25-2003, 06:02 PM

Hey guys. Well so far the girlfriend and I are doing great. But I'm having a problem with something. For some reason when I'm about to say her name I catch myself almost calling her my ex-girlfriend's name.

I have no idea why. I haven't spoken to my ex for three years and do not have any desire to be with her at all. I am extremely happy with this relationship as we love being with each other and we both believe that it is going to last for a long time. It is a hell of a lot better one than the one I had with my ex. So why the hell would I be doing this? This has just been a recent issue to. One time I actually did call her my ex's name

but fortunately she was talking to someone else and did not catch on what happened.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I don't want to screw this up, thanx guys.

dvlmn666 · 01-25-2003, 07:15 PM

It probably has to do with how you were really serious with your ex. and now your serious about this girl. So your it's just habit from the last relationship even though it was a long time ago. So just be careful and it'll get better, trust me it totally does. Been there done that.

**dg806** · 01-25-2003, 07:28 PM

It's the voices in your head man! Run. Run fast!!!!!!!!

Dero · 01-25-2003, 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime
Hey guys. Well so far the girlfriend and I are doing great. But I'm having a problem with something. For some reason when I'm about to say her name I catch myself almost calling her my ex-girlfriend's name.

I have no idea why. I haven't spoken to my ex for three years and do not have any desire to be with her at all. I am extremely happy with this relationship as we love being with each other and we both believe that it is going to last for a long time. It is a hell of a lot better one than the one I had with my ex. So why the hell would I be doing this? This has just been a recent issue to. One time I actually did call her my ex's name

but fortunately she was talking to someone else and did not catch on what happened.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I don't want to screw this up, thanx guys.

You're FUQED!!!!

HE,he.. It,I firmely believe that it's what DVLMN666 sayed.It's a phase you are going through...
The cure for this is, that you have to admit to all of us that you are succhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh an A$$hole and that you will send all of us lots of $$$$ so we can keep our collective mouth shut!!!

He,he... The more you think about it,the more you will do it...If it happens just let her know how

you are...

Don't worry if she has accepted you so far,she will accept the rest of your fuibles(sp)

**dg806** · 01-25-2003, 07:54 PM

I really think It's you still wanting your old ex!!

Dr. Pain · 01-25-2003, 08:11 PM

Get a "Pet" name/Nick name......as in a term of endearment......call her that.....just don't get mushy!

And don't talk in your "Sleep"....not that I would know anything that!

DP

kuso · 01-25-2003, 08:18 PM

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Originally posted by dvlmn666
It probably has to do with how you were really serious with your ex. and now your serious about this girl. So your it's just habit from the last relationship even though it was a long time ago. So just be careful and it'll get better, trust me it totally does. Been there done that.

I really agree here. You are in a comfortable relationship as you were last time, before it went sour.

You could always explain to her how much this is bothering you.....if you told her ""I am extremely happy with this relationship as we love being with each other and we both believe that it is going to last for a long time. It is a hell of a lot better one than the one I had with my ex."" and explained it genuinely you`d probably find that she would be understanding, and the problem would probably then go away as weel.

irontime · 01-26-2003, 04:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dvlmn666
It probably has to do with how you were really serious with your ex. and now your serious about this girl. So your it's just habit from the last relationship even though it was a long time ago. So just be careful and it'll get better, trust me it totally does. Been there done that.

Thanx bro,

That does sound very logical and I think you're right.

Thanx for the input guys, and ya DP, I'll try that. I already do have petnames for her. I always call her a different type of food ex. carrot cake, pumpkin pie, etc. Fuqin drives her nuts.

irontime · 01-26-2003, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by dg806
I really think It's you still wanting your old ex!!

hehe, not even close buddy

Dr. Pain · 01-26-2003, 04:39 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime
Thanx bro,

That does sound very logical and I think you're right.

Thanx for the input guys, and ya DP, I'll try that. I already do have petnames for her. I always call her a different type of food ex. carrot cake, pumpkin pie, etc. Fuqin drives her nuts.

Start using nut names...and it may drive her pie....

DP

irontime · 01-26-2003, 04:41 PM

kuso · 01-26-2003, 05:24 PM

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Originally posted by irontime

MJ23 · 01-27-2003, 12:52 PM

IT ,Oh no,
what did you call her, KUSO

On a serious note, scroll down

Just give her my number, I promise not to scream my ex's name

ALBOB · 01-27-2003, 01:06 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime I already do have petnames for her. I always call her a different type of food ex. carrot cake, pumpkin pie, etc. Fuqin drives her nuts.

You'll never EVER have the urge to call her your ex's name again if you just go ahead and call her bitch or slut.

I'd be willing to bet you won't have the urge to do a lot of things if you call her those things.

Rusty · 01-27-2003, 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime
One time I actually did call her my ex's name

but fortunately she was talking to someone else and did not catch on what happened.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I don't want to screw this up, thanx guys.

How the hell do you get yourself in these situations. Do what I do and just say........ hey, ..........HEY, ........HEY........Bitch, get over here..........

ALBOB · 01-27-2003, 01:31 PM

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Originally posted by IPMC Do what I do and just say........ hey, ..........HEY, ........HEY........Bitch, get over here..........

Yeah, yeah, yeah................Do THAT

irontime · 01-27-2003, 01:45 PM

Ya, I bet that would go over great.

Rusty · 01-27-2003, 01:48 PM

Chicken..........Who wears the pants in your house?

ALBOB · 01-27-2003, 01:57 PM

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Originally posted by IPMC Who wears the pants in your house?

Nobody, she's got him stripped naked and strapped to a torture board while she's wearing leather chaps and......................Oh wait, that was my date last night.

Dero · 01-27-2003, 02:02 PM

Vivide imagination!!!!!

ALBOB · 01-27-2003, 02:04 PM

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Originally posted by Dero
Vivide imagination!!!!!

Damn straight.

irontime · 01-27-2003, 03:08 PM

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Originally posted by IPMC
Chicken..........Who wears the pants in your house?

That's the point, I don't WANT to be wearing any pants

01-25-2003, 06:02 PM	#1
irontime The Original Jackass Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: If not here, then on some porn site. Posts: 5,101 Photos: 1	issues? Hey guys. Well so far the girlfriend and I are doing great. But I'm having a problem with something. For some reason when I'm about to say her name I catch myself almost calling her my ex-girlfriend's name. I have no idea why. I haven't spoken to my ex for three years and do not have any desire to be with her at all. I am extremely happy with this relationship as we love being with each other and we both believe that it is going to last for a long time. It is a hell of a lot better one than the one I had with my ex. So why the hell would I be doing this? This has just been a recent issue to. One time I actually did call her my ex's name but fortunately she was talking to someone else and did not catch on what happened. Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I don't want to screw this up, thanx guys.
	If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself. - Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)

01-25-2003, 07:15 PM	#2
dvlmn666 Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Fremont, CA Posts: 3,233	It probably has to do with how you were really serious with your ex. and now your serious about this girl. So your it's just habit from the last relationship even though it was a long time ago. So just be careful and it'll get better, trust me it totally does. Been there done that.
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01-25-2003, 07:28 PM	#3
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01-25-2003, 07:54 PM	#5
dg806 Guardian of The Homeland Super Moderator Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Charlotte NC Posts: 17,251	I really think It's you still wanting your old ex!!
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01-26-2003, 04:41 PM	#11
irontime The Original Jackass Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: If not here, then on some porn site. Posts: 5,101 Photos: 1
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01-25-2003, 08:11 PM	#6
Dr. Pain Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Get the Duct Tape...I'm Ripped Again! Posts: 11,239	Get a "Pet" name/Nick name......as in a term of endearment......call her that.....just don't get mushy! And don't talk in your "Sleep"....not that I would know anything that! DP

01-27-2003, 12:52 PM	#13
MJ23 World's Greatest Lovea Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Pimpville Posts: 2,125	IT ,Oh no, what did you call her, KUSO On a serious note, scroll down Just give her my number, I promise not to scream my ex's name
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01-27-2003, 01:45 PM	#17
irontime The Original Jackass Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: If not here, then on some porn site. Posts: 5,101 Photos: 1	Ya, I bet that would go over great.
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01-27-2003, 01:48 PM	#18
Rusty FTW Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: On my Harley Posts: 4,469 Photos: 3	Chicken..........Who wears the pants in your house?
	~RUSTY~

01-27-2003, 02:02 PM	#20
Dero Registered User Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 10,779 Photos: 6	Vivide imagination!!!!!
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