Thread: swapping/swingers

If anyone had sex with my wife, they would have to die... can't have some guy going around with a smile on his face. It's a sacrifice because you have sex with a woman, but your wife has sex with another man. I'm not a gambler, if I see something that may go wrong I do not try it. Your better off just cheating IMO.

Originally Posted by ecot3c inside

If anyone had sex with my wife, they would have to die... can't have some guy going around with a smile on his face. It's a sacrifice because you have sex with a woman, but your wife has sex with another man. I'm not a gambler, if I see something that may go wrong I do not try it. Your better off just cheating IMO.

well you might try dieing now

Originally Posted by Dark Geared God

well you might try dieing now

I wish you worded this right to actually make a witty comment, but unfortunately for you, you did not read very carefully. So this comment is null and void. The fact that you have a smilie drinking coffee makes it seem like you might know what your talking about, but the simple fact that I never said anything about 'me' dying in my post makes you look like a retard.. I bid you good day.

I used to want to find some adventurous girl to pretend she was my spouse so I could go to swinger parties/clubs and bang a bunch of strange. I don't think I could let some dude bang my wife though.

If only I could convince the wife

I've heard of all this. Maybe I should catch that HBO show.

I've never swapped but I've been a swappee before...if you're in decent shape and go to a swinger bar alone you'll have husbands lining up asking you to bang their wives...I only did it once and it was among the most fckd up things I've done.

I couldn't vote because no actual swap ever took place...more like a loan.

I was the other guy fulfilling the wife's fantasy of two men. It was fun, but a little awkward. My wife and I have discussed it at great length but have repeatedly come to the conclusion that it's not worth risking a perfect marriage. Neither of us is completely sure that we wouldn't be jealous.

Originally Posted by maniclion

Working in Waikiki I was propositioned by 2 different couples to join them in their hotel rooms, I remember one of them owned a gym in L.A. it was so weird cause the wives start hitting on you right in front of their husbands and you don't know how to react. The gym couple was cool as hell and the wife was super fine, I contemplated it for a while until my friends brought up what the Husband might have wanted out of the arrangement. That killed all notions of joining in on their bedcapades.

in my experience the proper etiquette seems to be to let the husband approach first. Be cool then the wife comes over or he asks you to join them. Be up front that you are not into dicks or friendly fire and so far nobody's encroached on that...it's still weird and I hope I never do anything like that again but of course I am Dr Jekyll right now and never know when Mr Hyde is going to make an appearance. I hate my evil side.

Never. My research from those who have tried reveals that a large percentage end up with destroyed relationships.