Thread: Would you do your buddies girl behind his back?

Uhm no. Unless of course he said I could

Originally posted by OceanDude
If your best friend’s wife or girlfriend was coming on to you and flirting on a regular basis would you have sexual relations with her?

-OD

that's not even an option in my book...

Fuck no. Someone who "cheats" has major character flaws IMO.

I wanna say no but things happen.... I would regret it though.

I would have to be placed into that situation. I can’t really tell you for sure without that. But I tell you what, I rather be with my buddy girl than die. Easy to say you rather die before you sleep with your friend woman, but it’s a whole different story when you face it.

i've done it....apparently she had been with him for 3 years but wanted me the whole time. I hated her so i fucked her....she couldn't get the blunt signals i was telling her that i didn't want to be with her, so i had to be rather ornery about it. No regrets, he was a jerk.

Lately tho, i've been talking to my cousins ex a lot and thinking about trying the plunge again, but decided i probably couldn't do it to my cousin because i'd want to date this girl and it would get messy quick.

problem might become that my friends will think i'm doing this on purpose.....the first one it was completely innocuous that she wanted me. I never flirted with her and never liked her, tho i could tell she liked me. This latest one, i always had a thing for her and i think she liked me when she was with my cousin, and when i started calling her, i was gonna maybe just try for a lil action and then get out, but i started wanting to date her, so i backed off.

Not even.


But that does bring up an interesting dilema. One of my best friend's wives is hitting on me.

I think.

I do not much have experience with girls hitting on me so I really cant tell. Besides which she is so subtle about it. I have maybe 5 people in all the world that I call friend. All the rest are aquaintances. I dont get so much as a hello from women for more than ten years and now this. Huh...go figure.

Bros before hoes maYn

cheese...sounds like you have some issues from what your saying...chicks and getting laid shouldnt come before friends and you really shouldnt sacrafice your dignity just to get laid good way to disrespect the women though (insert eye rolling here)

I married my roommate's girlfriend. Been married almost 15 years.

You wanna know something else that's weird, he married my girlfriend at the time a couple of years later.

pepper...thats classic

what do you guys think about dating your ex'es friend?

Originally posted by J'Bo
cheese...sounds like you have some issues from what your saying...chicks and getting laid shouldnt come before friends and you really shouldnt sacrafice your dignity just to get laid good way to disrespect the women though (insert eye rolling here)

Originally posted by KataMaStEr
I would have to be placed into that situation. I can’t really tell you for sure without that.

Therein lies the problem. If you don't lay down the rules/boundaries BEFORE it happens, I'll bet a dollar to a dog turd you will take the low road. I know what you are saying though, but decisions are much easier to make when they have been made in advance. I've been faced with this situation too, and all I can say is, "it sucks". lol

Originally posted by Pitboss
Uhm no. Unless of course he said I could

pitboss, i believe your statement takes us back to the sharing/swapping poll lol.

Originally posted by bulletproof1
pitboss, i believe your statement takes us back to the sharing/swapping poll lol.

Oh yeah silly me.

Originally posted by Pitboss
Uhm no. Unless of course he said I could

this answer makes me laugh

Originally posted by J'Bo
cheese...sounds like you have some issues from what your saying...chicks and getting laid shouldnt come before friends and you really shouldnt sacrafice your dignity just to get laid good way to disrespect the women though (insert eye rolling here)

the friend wasn't really a good friend, at least he didn't treat me like a good friend. The girl was a bitch, plain and simple. She wouldn't take no for an answer, so she had to have it made plain to her. The other incident with my cousin's ex, i didn't go for it because i couldn't go for her for just sex and i couldn't do it to my cousin.

if it means anything, i've been abstinent since august and will be until i'm with a girl i want to have a relationship with. Meaningless sex became a waste of time; i didn't even enjoy it on a purely sexual level.

karma is a bitch!

Originally posted by OceanDude
Here is one of those hypothetical situations that might not be so hypothetical. If your best friend’s wife or girlfriend was coming on to you and flirting on a regular basis would you have sexual relations with her?

-OD

... but it wouldn't be behind his back

No way I've seen way too many friendships screwed over by this happening. Hell I won't even touch a girl if my friend was with her and not any more. An ejaculation is definitely not worth a friendship...........that could almost be made into a famous quote

What type of ejaculation do you have ?

My best friend and I traded gf's once. I dont mean we were "swinging". I mean he broke up with his gf, I broke up with mine, and we both agreed that it was cool to pursue them. Interesting situation to say the least.

Originally posted by Var
My best friend and I traded gf's once. I dont mean we were "swinging". I mean he broke up with his gf, I broke up with mine, and we both agreed that it was cool to pursue them. Interesting situation to say the least.

Ah, that explains why you and IT have the same peculiar mental “idiosyncrasies” - must be the same STD chewing away on both of your frontal lobes...

Just kidding (ducking)…
OD

I was always sure to wear my "raincoat". No worries there.

Originally posted by Vieope
What type of ejaculation do you have ?

Vieope....I'm convinced now that you must be smoking something

Originally posted by Randy
Vieope....I'm convinced now that you must be smoking something

That was just an answer to Irontime post..

Originally posted by irontime
An ejaculation is definitely not worth ..

Although I agree with him. I will not loose a friend because of a women but sometimes when love is involved in the equation ..

Ok Vieope... I will let you off the hook this time then