Thread: Sex industry

It's more common for the paramedics to get called in to help a lonely woman with her toe stuck in the tub faucet who happens to have the phone nearby and a bottle of wine and two glasses when you arrive to help them from the 911 call...

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A thread titled Sex Industry and no pictures of hot half naked women !! What's up with that ?

Originally Posted by Vieope

I don´t know if I love or hate the sex industry. It is sure interesting.
Erotic books, internet porn, prostituition, movies. This thing is so huge that is everywhere.
I like it because of obvious reasons, I don´t like it because I am sure it ruins a lot of lives. Specially because I think most women who works at it, have some regret later in life.
Do you like it?

Hi Vieope,

Not everything about it. It can be helpful to many and has been. But it can also demean people and I am against that. I am never in favor of the abuse of another person when abuse is the purpose - I am not speaking Sexually here necessarily because there is a valid and good reason to abuse someone Sexually when done to and by those that care about each other - it is a variation of expressing to another that you care about each other honestly (S & M). I feel the Sex Industry is missing the "boat" here when they do not show and encourge people Sexually engaged who truly care about each other and honestly so. (This sounds as if I am saying that ALL people in Sex Industry are just using each other - what I mean to say is that it would be nice and better for all around if those in the Sex Industry would encourage and honor everyone involved and that those engaged Sexually really care about each other honestly and express that in the films that are made visually and otherwise...) One of the Male Porn Stars I like alot - he passed away in 1992 - is Al Parker. He truly cared about those he was with and he showed that in what he did even on film. He was no dummy either - he was down-to-earth and an all around damn good Man - a Man in the truest sense of the word. I think the Sex Industry needs to clean itself up and Al Parker sure saw this as a must too. I also do not like the drugs that can be involved sometimes. I never think it is right to abuse (in the truest sense of the word) anyone or their body where the end result is truly harming.

A bioigraphy about Al Parker was: CLONE: THE LIFE AND LEGACY OF AL PARKER, by Edmonson. It is very well written and has a lot to say - it even talks about the Playboy Mansion in California and Hugh Heffner among other things. It is well worth reading.

Take Care, John H.

Hi John H., I will look for it. It is not my kind of reading but what the hell, it must be interesting. I know what you mean, that is why I don´t like porn, it is too cold and not real.

Originally Posted by moon

Porns are lame. See those woman really didn't get orgasm during the shot but kept faking. Nothing is annoying as much as this. There should be reality porn show.

Now Thats a reality Show I would definetly be a fan of!

Originally Posted by Vieope

Hi John H., I will look for it. It is not my kind of reading but what the hell, it must be interesting. I know what you mean, that is why I don´t like porn, it is too cold and not real.

Hi Vieope,

It is worth your time to read it. I borrowed it from a larger library. I read all kinds of things on all subjects. The more you learn the better off you are and the better you understand all things even those things you may not necessarily agree with yourself... You become a much better person and understand about things much better and are a better person for other people as well... Initially you think people in the Sex Industry might not "be all there" so-to-speak - I kinda had my suspicions that there was a lot more to Al Parker and that he probably was a good person - he certainly was and very down-to-earth... I would have liked to have known him and been a friend of his - in the truest sense of the word... I am not saying I agree with everything no one does but I believe we would have been good friends for sure. He was going to college to become a Doctor too... He was a person who could see things from all perspectives and was objective about all things. He cared about others honestly so. His real name was Andrew Okum, most who knew him personally called him Drew. He was born in Massachusetts near Boston, he describes what it was like at the Woodstock Festival in New York State in 1969. He went their in his teens. The PlayBoy Mansion in California and Hugh Heffner surprised me somewhat. The Men who worked for Heffner were hired specifically to make sure they had no interest in having any sexual relations with the ladies - they would be fired on the spot if they were caught doing so and the ladies were never to have anything to do with the Men either - only Heffner. Also the ladies on the payroll were only on the payroll when they actually were there at the Mansion, if they left to go shopping or whatever they were off the clock and were not paid.

I too do not like the cold and harmful aspects of the porn industry. I think it could be done without all that - with Al Parker it was not - he owned his own company called Surge Studios and those he was with he cared about truthfully and honestly. He also worked out ...

Some of the films he was in I did not like at all - and some were done very well and professionally produced. He wanted to work in Hollywood as a movie producer and he could have for sure he had the brains but he was blackballed when they found out he was a porn star but he had many friends in the motion picture industry that liked him very much in spite of his major form of employment...

If you do get a chance to read the book, let me know what you think.

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi Vieope,

It is worth your time to read it. I borrowed it from a larger library. I read all kinds of things on all subjects. The more you learn the better off you are and the better you understand all things even those things you may not necessarily agree with yourself... You become a much better person and understand about things much better and are a better person for other people as well... Initially you think people in the Sex Industry might not "be all there" so-to-speak - I kinda had my suspicions that there was a lot more to Al Parker and that he probably was a good person - he certainly was and very down-to-earth... I would have liked to have known him and been a friend of his - in the truest sense of the word... I am not saying I agree with everything no one does but I believe we would have been good friends for sure. He was going to college to become a Doctor too... He was a person who could see things from all perspectives and was objective about all things. He cared about others honestly so. His real name was Andrew Okum, most who knew him personally called him Drew. He was born in Massachusetts near Boston, he describes what it was like at the Woodstock Festival in New York State in 1969. He went their in his teens. The PlayBoy Mansion in California and Hugh Heffner surprised me somewhat. The Men who worked for Heffner were hired specifically to make sure they had no interest in having any sexual relations with the ladies - they would be fired on the spot if they were caught doing so and the ladies were never to have anything to do with the Men either - only Heffner. Also the ladies on the payroll were only on the payroll when they actually were there at the Mansion, if they left to go shopping or whatever they were off the clock and were not paid.

I too do not like the cold and harmful aspects of the porn industry. I think it could be done without all that - with Al Parker it was not - he owned his own company called Surge Studios and those he was with he cared about truthfully and honestly. He also worked out ...

Some of the films he was in I did not like at all - and some were done very well and professionally produced. He wanted to work in Hollywood as a movie producer and he could have for sure he had the brains but he was blackballed when they found out he was a porn star but he had many friends in the motion picture industry that liked him very much in spite of his major form of employment...

If you do get a chance to read the book, let me know what you think.

Take Care, John H.

I tried to edit my post but after awhile you can't. Al Parker's real name I mispelled and I did not realize it until it was too late to correct. His real name is: Andrew Okun - not Okum. (One key over on the board when typing). Sorry for the mistake.

Take Care, John H.

What's the big deal, if it weren't for the porn industry guy's like me would never get to bang hot chicks for a living.

Obviously watching porno is fun for the jacking-off fantasy element "That looks fun, wish I was banging her!(or getting a blow job, whatever)" But if yu think about girls that would subject themselves to gang-bangs, DP's, multiple facials,etc & still giggle & talk aobut how proud they are of their work while Howard Stern interviews them, you wonder what their lives have been like!?