Swinging

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 11:00 AM

Would you or have you ever?
How many times have you?

shutupntra1n · 10-01-2004, 11:02 AM

NO
and
NO...

I would like to stay HIV Free

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 11:06 AM

Sounds good!

pmech · 10-01-2004, 11:11 AM

I am overly jealous. Rules in my house about the sex with other people thing:

My wife can, while still with me:
Have sex with another woman
Leave me for another man

My wife can NOT, while still with me:
Have sex with another man
Leave me for a woman

My wifes rules are much simpler.

Do any of the above and she relieves me of body parts

BoneCrusher · 10-01-2004, 11:17 AM

LOL ... interesting rules pmech. Ladybuilder I have had some fun and in the right relationship I'd do it again. IF the other half could seporate sex from her emotions and not get all wierd afterwords. No doubt we all have those lil' thoughts in the backs of our minds, but being with a secure person that can handle it afterwords is the deal maker or breaker.

BoneCrusher · 10-01-2004, 11:18 AM

I expect NaturalTan to wonder in here as soon as he sees the thread ...

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 11:23 AM

I am in one of those relationships where it doesn't matter if we are to swing. We are both very secure in our relationship and I have no problem with the seperation of emotions w/ sex. It can be a real relationship booster or a relationship breaker, very true.

I have seen it and met people who do it all the time. Do I? Well that is something I will tell if anyone asks.

If curiosity kills the cat, so to say.

I cannot go with any man behind my old mans back. Its just cheating. But if it were another woman he doesn't care. If I was into it and he thought I wanted it he would just ask me to share.

pmech · 10-01-2004, 11:30 AM

I dont even need to share, I will hold the camera

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 11:35 AM

That is an option with him as well.

pmech · 10-01-2004, 11:44 AM

Good man

naturaltan · 10-01-2004, 11:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

I expect NaturalTan to wonder in here as soon as he sees the thread ...

BoneCrusher · 10-01-2004, 11:59 AM

How ya been dude? LOL ... still swinging away out there mayn?

naturaltan · 10-01-2004, 11:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ladybuilder

I am in one of those relationships where it doesn't matter if we are to swing. We are both very secure in our relationship and I have no problem with the seperation of emotions w/ sex. It can be a real relationship booster or a relationship breaker, very true.

I have seen it and met people who do it all the time. Do I? Well that is something I will tell if anyone asks.

If curiosity kills the cat, so to say.

I cannot go with any man behind my old mans back. Its just cheating. But if it were another woman he doesn't care. If I was into it and he thought I wanted it he would just ask me to share.

Ok ... I shall ask, do you?

naturaltan · 10-01-2004, 12:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

How ya been dude? LOL ... still swinging away out there mayn?

... nope ... when the time is right, perhaps. We did go to a small club here ... but it hasn't changed for years. Still the same old couples hanging with their friends ... it's a scary scene.

bulletproof1 · 10-01-2004, 01:33 PM

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 02:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by naturaltan

Ok ... I shall ask, do you?

Yup! Such a shock???

We have On Premises parties we go to. FUN!!!

david · 10-01-2004, 02:28 PM

Yes (I'd have to KNOW them REALLY well!!!!)
No

None

bulletproof1 · 10-01-2004, 02:32 PM

ladybuilder...heres a thread i started a while back

http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/sh...light=swinging (swapping/swingers)

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 02:51 PM

Thanks BP I will have to read all of it when I have time. Good to see people's thoughts on the lifestyle. It is true that it can be dangerous though, I met someone who was cheating on her old man that way. But you should have met him, ugggh! That still does not make it right. They had insecurities waaaaaaaay before they tried swinging. Just uhappy people do not make good secure swingers and being honest that you are done with it helps as well. Just mt opinion.

BoneCrusher · 10-01-2004, 04:18 PM

Why marry an "Uggh" unless the "uggh" is gonna keep you happy?

ladybuilder · 10-01-2004, 07:42 PM

Exactally my thinking. I want a WOW and for it to stay WOW all the time. I need to stay satisfied.

Pitboss · 10-01-2004, 08:39 PM

gee tough subject.... hmm uhm yep I'd do it.

**Pirate!** · 10-01-2004, 11:41 PM

Not if I was married. It would ruin it for good. If it was a casual girlfriend, and we had an understanding, bring it on.

Jeanie · 10-02-2004, 03:58 PM

I have never and would never. I could possibly fantasize about it but my Christian morals keep me in check.

naturaltan · 10-04-2004, 03:39 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jeanie

I have never and would never. I could possibly fantasize about it but my Christian morals keep me in check.

some it works for, most it doesn't ... it's all good.

10-01-2004, 11:00 AM	#1
ladybuilder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 102 Photos: 11	Swinging Would you or have you ever? How many times have you?
	http://www.grrl.com/sensual.jpg http://www.grrl.com/bettydev.gif http://www.gunters.net/Gallery My kind of man! Check out his site. Nice pics!

10-01-2004, 11:06 AM	#3
ladybuilder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 102 Photos: 11	Sounds good!
	http://www.grrl.com/sensual.jpg http://www.grrl.com/bettydev.gif http://www.gunters.net/Gallery My kind of man! Check out his site. Nice pics!

10-01-2004, 11:23 AM	#7
ladybuilder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 102 Photos: 11	I am in one of those relationships where it doesn't matter if we are to swing. We are both very secure in our relationship and I have no problem with the seperation of emotions w/ sex. It can be a real relationship booster or a relationship breaker, very true. I have seen it and met people who do it all the time. Do I? Well that is something I will tell if anyone asks. If curiosity kills the cat, so to say. I cannot go with any man behind my old mans back. Its just cheating. But if it were another woman he doesn't care. If I was into it and he thought I wanted it he would just ask me to share.
	http://www.grrl.com/sensual.jpg http://www.grrl.com/bettydev.gif http://www.gunters.net/Gallery My kind of man! Check out his site. Nice pics!

10-01-2004, 11:35 AM	#9
ladybuilder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 102 Photos: 11	That is an option with him as well.
	http://www.grrl.com/sensual.jpg http://www.grrl.com/bettydev.gif http://www.gunters.net/Gallery My kind of man! Check out his site. Nice pics!

10-01-2004, 02:51 PM	#19
ladybuilder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 102 Photos: 11	Thanks BP I will have to read all of it when I have time. Good to see people's thoughts on the lifestyle. It is true that it can be dangerous though, I met someone who was cheating on her old man that way. But you should have met him, ugggh! That still does not make it right. They had insecurities waaaaaaaay before they tried swinging. Just uhappy people do not make good secure swingers and being honest that you are done with it helps as well. Just mt opinion.
	http://www.grrl.com/sensual.jpg http://www.grrl.com/bettydev.gif http://www.gunters.net/Gallery My kind of man! Check out his site. Nice pics!

10-01-2004, 11:02 AM	#2
shutupntra1n Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2,905	NO and NO... I would like to stay HIV Free

10-01-2004, 11:11 AM	#4
pmech Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Cheeseland Posts: 574 Photos: 1	I am overly jealous. Rules in my house about the sex with other people thing: My wife can, while still with me: Have sex with another woman Leave me for another man My wife can NOT, while still with me: Have sex with another man Leave me for a woman My wifes rules are much simpler. Do any of the above and she relieves me of body parts

10-01-2004, 11:17 AM	#5
BoneCrusher Lift or Die Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,576	LOL ... interesting rules pmech. Ladybuilder I have had some fun and in the right relationship I'd do it again. IF the other half could seporate sex from her emotions and not get all wierd afterwords. No doubt we all have those lil' thoughts in the backs of our minds, but being with a secure person that can handle it afterwords is the deal maker or breaker.

10-01-2004, 11:18 AM	#6
BoneCrusher Lift or Die Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,576	I expect NaturalTan to wonder in here as soon as he sees the thread ...

10-01-2004, 11:30 AM	#8
pmech Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Cheeseland Posts: 574 Photos: 1	I dont even need to share, I will hold the camera

10-01-2004, 11:44 AM	#10
pmech Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Cheeseland Posts: 574 Photos: 1	Good man

10-01-2004, 11:59 AM	#12
BoneCrusher Lift or Die Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,576	How ya been dude? LOL ... still swinging away out there mayn?

10-01-2004, 01:33 PM	#15
bulletproof1 Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: * Posts: 2,428

10-01-2004, 02:28 PM	#17
david EAST COAST BRAT Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Waterworld, FL Posts: 25,420 Photos: 2	Yes (I'd have to KNOW them REALLY well!!!!) No None

10-01-2004, 02:32 PM	#18
bulletproof1 Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: May 2004 Location: * Posts: 2,428	ladybuilder...heres a thread i started a while back http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/sh...light=swinging (swapping/swingers)

10-01-2004, 04:18 PM	#20
BoneCrusher Lift or Die Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Austin Texas Posts: 8,576	Why marry an "Uggh" unless the "uggh" is gonna keep you happy?

10-01-2004, 07:42 PM	#21
ladybuilder Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: New Hampshire, USA Posts: 102 Photos: 11	Exactally my thinking. I want a WOW and for it to stay WOW all the time. I need to stay satisfied.
	http://www.grrl.com/sensual.jpg http://www.grrl.com/bettydev.gif http://www.gunters.net/Gallery My kind of man! Check out his site. Nice pics!

10-01-2004, 08:39 PM	#22
Pitboss User title goes here Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2001 Location: In my own world Posts: 3,114 Photos: 6	gee tough subject.... hmm uhm yep I'd do it.

10-02-2004, 03:58 PM	#24
Jeanie Mom/Student/Wifey Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: None Ya! Posts: 939 Photos: 6	I have never and would never. I could possibly fantasize about it but my Christian morals keep me in check.

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