SwollLA

Well I figure since no one knows me, i'll go ahead and ask. I dated a girl for two and a half years and she was a virgin so I resected her bounderies. Needless to say I got none the entire time. Now I'm seeing another girl and we get it on pretty regularly, which is great, but I can't seem to perform like I used to in the past. No problems getting it up, just can't go too long. I have considered getting some viagra or some yohimbe to assist in further erections. Any tips on getting my stamina back? Any tips would be greatly appreciated.

Pain is weakness leaving the body.

Crono1000

how you gonna get viagra?

the standards are as you do it more you will get more accustomed. How long have yall been going at it? A few weeks and you should be able to last longer simply with experience.

Then you can try reciting something in your head, you know, distractions. Sometimes that can mess you up more though

of course if all else fails just help yourself out a few hours before getting down to dumb down the sensitivity. Ya know, clean the pipes. Hell do this anyway

Crono1000

and if all else fails just date uglier girls

MTN WARRIOR

Drink more beer. Take Deca. Take M1T without 4AD. These will make you take a longer time getting it up and finishing.

THAT WHICH DOES NOT KILL ME, CERTAINLY MUST MAKE ME STRONGER

solid10

solid10

I do notice that If I cum out of her I can dive right back in, but if I cum in her I become paralyzed.

MWpro

If I feel like I'm gonna cum, I just keep it deep inside her and stop the motions until the feeling goes away, then I start again.

shutupntra1n

Use two jimmies. That'll numb ya

solid10

Do you mean jimmies as in 2 guys?

shutupntra1n

Jimmy Hats

solid10

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BoneCrusher

Ever use a cock ring? Use the toys on her as you work your game. The changes make it more fun for her and less extreme for you. Her BOB and your tounge will get you a fan club real quick !

shutupntra1n

Did somebody say Toys?

shutupntra1n

All joking aside, they have condoms that numb ya. If you aren't using anything at all then you might have to take up some sort of meditation class for that to work on concentration. You're woman shouldn't bitch that you don't last long enough. Here's my point:
Foreplay is the majority of good sex. Penetration only acounts for small part of it. When you actually have sex there is only one place to go from there and that is the finish line. So of course once you're inside why hold back. I never cared how fast a guy came during sex. I would start to wonder if I wasn't good enough if he took a century to finish. Spend plenty of time taking care of her with toys, hands, oral... coming from a woman's point of view, sometimes just an rubdown is enogh to get her excited. Woman need to be teased and stimulated first. If you are 100% with the foreplay and she can come that way, trust me, she won't give a shit if you last 2 seconds or 2 hours.

And my second solution... anal. LOL She'll most likely be done before you can say High Ho Silver

Crono1000

this is all good advice worth putting into consideration

i don't suggest two condoms though, the friction of rubber on rubber is just asking for one to break

wear a condom, that'll desensitize it enough, then the next level is the ones that make u last longer

and don't do thering thing, i've heard onlly bad things

perfectbody

spray the tip :P

Luke9583

DO NOT USE THEM! There's some kind out there called "pro-long" ? TOJAN?

What a mistake. It has a local anasthetic in there. I wasn't myself for a couple days.

Just relax and watch your breath. The key is in the breathing.

New goal for 2005, 190lbs @ 7% bf

"She Blew my nose, and then she blew my mind"

shutupntra1n

So can I make an accurate assesment you are a minute man then

Jk Luke... You know I luv ya. No hard feelings?

Crono1000

i've used the desensitizing trojans just to see what it was like and noticed no difference. Honestly, i haven't really noticed much difference in any of the different kinds.

i don't know anything about the new ones with the heart with the horns on it. looks interesting

Luke9583

Not lately

New goal for 2005, 190lbs @ 7% bf

"She Blew my nose, and then she blew my mind"

CRASHMAN

Extended pleasure condoms.....you have to wear it for a minute for the anesthetic to work in and you'll be fine in a couple hours later it may affect you if you never shower.....so shower after

Breath. dude, deep breaths distract yourself picture anything to make you not wanna go like......something dirty and disgusting your mom in s thong keep your mind somewhere else ...keep breathing

Viagra...it just makes it harder and makes it stay hard no time will be added

will power. let her get you off before you start having sex put a condom on really fast and have at it you can try the Viagra if you can't stay hard....or anyone do that when you're mad at your GF and just pound her

and like someone else stated try emptying one out of the chamber before you start (Bathroom before hand(i remember when i first had sex with a girl lol i went to her "bathroom" 3 times before we did anything cause i was that fearful lol.))

CRASHMAN

and be on top.....take it out and "tease" her when you are about to go. or the oops! It slipped out thing. Change positions gives you time to recoup when you are about to go

CRASHMAN

ok......and before any of you asshole say something i was freaking the first time i had sex with this one girl cause i really really liked her and didn't wanna lose her because i was a bad lover....ha....proved her wrong...she'd quit before me she'd be too sore

Crono1000

well if you can last past the first minute then you don't need the extended pleasure now do you?

madden player

I always found pot to work real well..Maybe it is just me, but if I smoke a joint I can go all night long.

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CRASHMAN

thats why you put it on and wait.....like the box says maybe kiss her do something else during that time.