Thread: Your Sexual Orientation

I'm white.

Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

I'm white.

Hi I,

That was FAST! (Your response). I just pushed the button to post this new thread and already I had your answer... How'd you do that?

Take Care, John H.

Didn't we already have a thread on this?

Originally Posted by MaxMirkin

Didn't we already have a thread on this?

Hi Max,

If there is I apologize, I missed it somehow...

Take Care, John H.

Your Sexuality?

Here it is

I am sorry you missed it John, although you started it.

Originally Posted by craig777

Your Sexuality?

Here it is

I am sorry you missed it John, although you started it.

Hi Craig,

The laugh sure IS on me... I forgot. Sorry to all for asking "again"... I apologize. Maybe this can be an "update" or for those who have not seen this before and want to answer.

I apologize.

Take Care, John H. :o

John H. You're gay.....

wonder why John H. is so interested in everyone's sexual orientation?

So he knows who to hit on and who not too?

And why isn't "bestiality," one of the choices? John threatens to alienate our Southern members.

This the great thing thing about the Internet: You can be anyone you want. I am straight, 6' tall, 250 lbs with 4% body fat, a full head of hair, an income of $750,000 a year, race cars professionally when I feel like it and spend the weekend with beautiful women on my 50' yacht....Did I mention that I really am straight?

Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio

wonder why John H. is so interested in everyone's sexual orientation?

I was wondering that myself. Kinda strange.....

I see.

John H, you held out as long as you could w/o posting a gay thread.

You just can't help yourself.

Originally Posted by SPIKE1257

John H. You're gay.....

Hi Spike,

I wondered that myself just like anyone else would wonder about anything actually and did a lot of "soul searching", asking questions, getting information about, etc. ... Certainly I have learned about the hatred and the bigotry that exists towards those who are BiSexual or Homosexual and where that actually comes from and why. Learning all a person can about anything really helps to understand honestly about anything - and accurately. I keep an open mind about all things and am very objective...

No, I am BiSexual. I kinda figured that out early on actually and am just as fine with that as someone who is Heterosexual because I understand variety and variation in all things in life and living including Sexuality and it is natural.

Take Care, John H.

That's all that matters, that you are comfortable with your lifestyle. Let's just try to keep the threads in good taste..

Also ... please do not conduct anymore fishing expiditions.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi Spike,

I wondered that myself just like anyone else would wonder about anything actually and did a lot of "soul searching", asking questions, getting information about, etc. ... Certainly I have learned about the hatred and the bigotry that exists towards those who are BiSexual or Homosexual and where that actually comes from and why. Learning all a person can about anything really helps to understand honestly about anything - and accurately. I keep an open mind about all things and am very objective...

No, I am BiSexual. I kinda figured that out early on actually and am just as fine with that as someone who is Heterosexual because I understand variety and variation in all things in life and living including Sexuality and it is natural.

Take Care, John H.

Well said.

Don't encourage him.

if you try a mango....

I applaud your openess and honesty John H. I at one time questioned my sexuality, as to whether I was heterosexual or bisexual. The difference in myself and most of the people in this country is that I wasn't afraid to admit to myself that I actually was not sure. I have a few gay friends who often encouraged me to try(obviously they were interested in it being with them). All I had to do was kiss a guy and I was absolutly sure that I didn't have an interest in men like I had previously wondered. I felt nothing during the experience. Now the difference between me and a lot of people out there is that I know for sure who I am. Not that I would have been ashamed or disappointed in myself had it turned out otherwise, but I was just happy to finally know.

There is some more honesty for you all to tear apart.

Originally Posted by Purdue Power

I applaud your openess and honesty John H. I at one time questioned my sexuality, as to whether I was heterosexual or bisexual. The difference in myself and most of the people in this country is that I wasn't afraid to admit to myself that I actually was not sure. I have a few gay friends who often encouraged me to try(obviously they were interested in it being with them). All I had to do was kiss a guy and I was absolutly sure that I didn't have an interest in men like I had previously wondered. I felt nothing during the experience. Now the difference between me and a lot of people out there is that I know for sure who I am. Not that I would have been ashamed or disappointed in myself had it turned out otherwise, but I was just happy to finally know.

There is some more honesty for you all to tear apart.

Thanks for understanding Spike. I knew that I could be honest here. You voted for Bush didn't you?

Originally Posted by Purdue Power

I applaud your openess and honesty John H. I at one time questioned my sexuality, as to whether I was heterosexual or bisexual. The difference in myself and most of the people in this country is that I wasn't afraid to admit to myself that I actually was not sure. I have a few gay friends who often encouraged me to try(obviously they were interested in it being with them). All I had to do was kiss a guy and I was absolutly sure that I didn't have an interest in men like I had previously wondered. I felt nothing during the experience. Now the difference between me and a lot of people out there is that I know for sure who I am. Not that I would have been ashamed or disappointed in myself had it turned out otherwise, but I was just happy to finally know.

There is some more honesty for you all to tear apart.

Hi Purdue,

Most people - probably because we tend to "put on" an "exterior" - tend to be somewhat dishonest with themselves and others. For many reasons. I do not subscribe to that at all. I am who I am and I understand myself and do not "hide" from others - they either like me or they do not. I find it is much easier that way - being honest completely so - that way you truly find others who are truly interested in you - there is no lying or deception. I also found out and understand that each of the Sexualities is completely natural - and right: Heterosexuality, BiSexuality and Homosexuality. And that each exist naturally in life. The hatred and the bigotry that some have towards others is from their misinformation, inaccurate learning (from many sources including religion and others). KNOWING who you (meaning anyone) truly are is very important and very basic. When you (meaning anyone) lie to yourself you will lie to anyone. That is no way to "live" in my book.

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by SPIKE1257

Hi Spike,

The difference between you and me is that while you find me "repulsive" apparently because of your expressions and because of your misunderstanding and misinformation I do not find you the same. People ARE Heterosexual, BiSexual and Homosexual NATURALLY so. I truly understand people and variation and variety. It is a natural part of life and living. If a person is not interested in someone else that is perfectly fine but to take that disinterest to "a higher level" such as you apparently display is not being an adult and a Man in my book. If you are not interested, you are not interested - in a Man the difference lies in a Man understanding truthfully that there is variety in life and in living and if he is not interested he just moves on without making disparaging remarks or hateful comments.

Sometimes there are some who make these remarks because of THEIR questioning of themselves and not being honest with themselves or with others.

I like people - Human Beings - Male AND Female. But not "all".

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi Spike,

The difference between you and me is that while you find me "repulsive" apparently because of your expressions and because of your misunderstanding and misinformation I do not find you the same. People ARE Heterosexual, BiSexual and Homosexual NATURALLY so. I truly understand people and variation and variety. It is a natural part of life and living. If a person is not interested in someone else that is perfectly fine but to take that disinterest to "a higher level" such as you apparently display is not being an adult and a Man in my book. If you are not interested, you are not interested - in a Man the difference lies in a Man understanding truthfully that there is variety in life and in living and if he is not interested he just moves on without making disparaging remarks or hateful comments.

Sometimes there are some who make these remarks because of THEIR questioning of themselves and not being honest with themselves or with others.

I like people - Human Beings - Male AND Female. But not "all".

Take Care, John H.

So shoot me, the mental picture of one man kissing another repulses me.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi Spike,

The difference between you and me is that while you find me "repulsive" apparently because of your expressions and because of your misunderstanding and misinformation I do not find you the same. People ARE Heterosexual, BiSexual and Homosexual NATURALLY so. I truly understand people and variation and variety. It is a natural part of life and living. If a person is not interested in someone else that is perfectly fine but to take that disinterest to "a higher level" such as you apparently display is not being an adult and a Man in my book. If you are not interested, you are not interested - in a Man the difference lies in a Man understanding truthfully that there is variety in life and in living and if he is not interested he just moves on without making disparaging remarks or hateful comments.

Sometimes there are some who make these remarks because of THEIR questioning of themselves and not being honest with themselves or with others.

I like people - Human Beings - Male AND Female. But not "all".

Take Care, John H.

Am I the only one that finds it funny as hell that Spike posted nothing more than a smiley and he gets a half page response from John H??

Ahh well. Carry on.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi Spike,

The difference between you and me is that while you find me "repulsive" apparently because of your expressions and because of your misunderstanding and misinformation I do not find you the same.

Don't put words in my mouth, I don't find you or anyone gay repulsive.. it is the act itself (2 men being intimate) I can't relate to..