Thread: My girl hurts during sex

Originally Posted by arbntmare

try a different condom.. my ex use to have a reaction to the pesticde (sp?)

Dude, you had pesticide on your condom? No wonder she had a reaction. That stuff is used to kill bugs and insects!

Originally Posted by John H.

Do you understand what I am saying and why?

I completely understand "what" you're saying, just not clear on the "why". As I demonstrated, your responses can be just as, if not more, effective without going into minute details about person details. When you get so far down into the weeds with explanations you tend to lose your audience. Absolutely not taking sides here, simply offering food for thought.

omg persticide haha. just wanted to add lambskin condoms offer no protection from the aids virus. they have tiny natural holes that a sperm could not ever fit through but the aids virus can.

Originally Posted by ALBOB

I completely understand "what" you're saying, just not clear on the "why". As I demonstrated, your responses can be just as, if not more, effective without going into minute details about person details. When you get so far down into the weeds with explanations you tend to lose your audience. Absolutely not taking sides here, simply offering food for thought.

Hi ALBOB,

The question he asked those who saw his thread I felt he wanted an honest and complete answer to. I did not take his question as something that should have jokes or disparaging remarks as responses. Truly helpful information. From all sides of the question. I was merely telling him of a situation I had where my size could very well be a contributing factor in a women's discomfort and and that has been the case and that if he also is big it could be for him as well. He asked for an honest answer and one that would be helpful for him to understand and possibly prevent her from future discomfort. I also recommended and still do that he consider having her see a qualified physician to make a thorough examination and see if there are any real problems or concerns they both need to be aware of.

I did not feel this was a place for anyone to make "light of" - and I did not.

Take Care, John H.

I think we'll just have to agree to disagree on this one. We saw the original question two different ways. Guess that's what makes the world go round, right? Anyway, no harm - no foul.

You dont think its possible to have a 10' long and 6' girth penis?

Originally Posted by WilliamB

You dont think its possible to have a 10' long and 6' girth penis?

10" long? Yeah, that's been done. 6" GIRTH?!?!? "Girth", but my definition, is diameter. That would make him exactly the same size as a coffee can. THAT I have a hard time believing.

how'd a ligitimate question get transformed into a convo about John's penis size?

Originally Posted by WATTS

how'd a ligitimate question get transformed into a convo about John's penis size?

Because John finds some way to bring it up in every post.

Dude, where do you find condoms that fit?

Are you sure your putting it in the right hole?

Originally Posted by ALBOB

I think we'll just have to agree to disagree on this one. We saw the original question two different ways. Guess that's what makes the world go round, right? Anyway, no harm - no foul.

Hi ALBOB,

No problem.

I was just trying to answer the question completely so he would have good information to go by to try to figure things out. I do feel he asked honestly and sincerely and that that was the type answer he wanted.

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by ALBOB

10" long? Yeah, that's been done. 6" GIRTH?!?!? "Girth", but my definition, is diameter. That would make him exactly the same size as a coffee can. THAT I have a hard time believing.

Hi ALBOB,

No, 10 5/8" long when completely hard - and not really much smaller when "soft" and 6 1/2" thick meaning "around" (circumference). (Please don't get "carried away" with this...) And I have a 30" waist and am 6'2" tall and wear 30x36" jeans so you can probably UNDERSTAND that not much will be "hidden" ever.
And I wish it was a Muscle just as any other in a Man's body and could be worked out to be the very best as with all others and I think God TRULY made a mistake here - here's why: I would like to be able to have ALL MUSCLE EVERYWHERE not just 99% of me and be able to "bench press" say 150 pounds or so here standing up while taking care of things and be able to "lift" the ladies without any fatiguing or lack of strength until everyone is completely and totally happy! (ZEALOTS AND IMMATURE people - I mean this VERY RESPECTFULLY and HONORABLY here for ALL concerned!!) With regard to my "inability to hide" I just learned a long time ago how to "handle" any situation or question. And I understand people's honest "questioning" from all aspects - Male and Female. AGAIN - IN CAPS - I AM NOT BRAGGING - ONLY SAYING by way of EXPLANATION!!!! (Now the zealots can have their "fun" with damning me)

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by WATTS

how'd a ligitimate question get transformed into a convo about John's penis size?

Hi Watts,

The original poster asked a question I felt he wanted serious helpful answers to so:

I was just trying to explain to the original poster that his lady COULD be having problems being dry from her being "worked on" by a Man that is big and that if he is big he should consider this as a factor and I explained that with my personal situation because I have had that happen (had ladies in that situation) and may be also caused from the friction - I get going and there is a lot of friction and heat which will tend to dry a lady out and I do not like to stop until I am through with the work that is needed for both of us. So I take my time always and make it last and when done, do it again - and continue until there is no more to be done. I do not personally have a problem with providing natural lubrication for those I am with. It could be that she is just naturally dry for some reason or dry because of a problem other than from him or him. Seeing a medical doctor who is knowledgeable is the best way to answer this for him and for her.

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by gococksDJS

Because John finds some way to bring it up in every post.

Gococks,

Don't get carried away here - I SAID BY WAY OF EXPLANATION!!!! I DO NOT say this on EVERY POST or even much at all unless I am asked for clarification.

John H.

Girth is not diameter.

John H. please note overusage of capitalization has the opposite than intended effect.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi ALBOB,

No, 10 5/8" long when completely hard - and not really much smaller when "soft" and 6 1/2" thick meaning "around" (circumference). (Please don't get "carried away" with this...) And I have a 30" waist and am 6'2" tall and wear 30x36" jeans so you can probably UNDERSTAND that not much will be "hidden" ever.
And I wish it was a Muscle just as any other in a Man's body and could be worked out to be the very best as with all others and I think God TRULY made a mistake here - here's why: I would like to be able to have ALL MUSCLE EVERYWHERE not just 99% of me and be able to "bench press" say 150 pounds or so here standing up while taking care of things and be able to "lift" the ladies without any fatiguing or lack of strength until everyone is completely and totally happy! (ZEALOTS AND IMMATURE people - I mean this VERY RESPECTFULLY and HONORABLY here for ALL concerned!!) With regard to my "inability to hide" I just learned a long time ago how to "handle" any situation or question. And I understand people's honest "questioning" from all aspects - Male and Female. AGAIN - IN CAPS - I AM NOT BRAGGING - ONLY SAYING by way of EXPLANATION!!!! (Now the zealots can have their "fun" with damning me)

Take Care, John H.

Not to steal any thunder over my ol' buddy, Albob but I must interject. John, I didn't say inject and it's not a sexual thing, either!

John, what some other are implying is that you are giving detailed visuals of your penis when not neccessary. If your hung... then just say it that way. Oh yeah, without cap locks on, also. (Not that you did) Also, you've given a wonderful image of your overall body structure. OK, cool! The next thing I guess to do is just post your pictures including your face for all of us to see. (privacy-smi-vacy... it's bullshit because I assure you no one is going to hunt you down unless your a wanted man) One thing I do notice is that a man of your description hesitates not to add pictures and I'm surprised you haven't done so.

Makes sense? Probably not but then again, 26,000 posts and never ever did my posts makes sense but my picture is up and some have met me and some have not. I do believe this though, once your picture is up, then your willingness of being descriptive will diminish and also, the less *heckle* you'll get from the crowd at IM.com. Or maybe, you like the attention?

hmmnn... problem solved? Probably not!

Originally Posted by greekblondechic

Girth is not diameter.

Of course not..

Its radius
wow.. 10x6.. now that would be one fuqed up weiner!(if it was radius)

Originally Posted by david

Not to steal any thunder over my ol' buddy, Albob but I must interject. John, I didn't say inject and it's not a sexual thing, either!

John, what some other are implying is that you are giving detailed visuals of your penis when not neccessary. If your hung... then just say it that way. Oh yeah, without cap locks on, also. (Not that you did) Also, you've given a wonderful image of your overall body structure. OK, cool! The next thing I guess to do is just post your pictures including your face for all of us to see. (privacy-smi-vacy... it's bullshit because I assure you no one is going to hunt you down unless your a wanted man) One thing I do notice is that a man of your description hesitates not to add pictures and I'm surprised you haven't done so.

Makes sense? Probably not but then again, 26,000 posts and never ever did my posts makes sense but my picture is up and some have met me and some have not. I do believe this though, once your picture is up, then your willingness of being descriptive will diminish and also, the less *heckle* you'll get from the crowd at IM.com. Or maybe, you like the attention?

hmmnn... problem solved? Probably not!

Hi David,

Oh I understand what you are saying.

The "problem" would not be solved actually it would be created in the minds of some here. If I posted pictures of myself then I would have people saying even more that I am somehow bragging even though I just posted a photograph. Sometimes you can't please anyone.

I chose not to post any photos for many reasons. My family and friends being the first and foremost. I have no interested in adding to the "fodder" of "religious types" and/or bigots and haters. If someone does not believe me that is just as fine as if they do. I make statements that ARE true. And let others make their decisions about whatever. I do not have nor will I take time for bull.

I have posted a photo of a Man - Nick Auger - (on the thread "Which Bodybuilder would you be") that is a real close match as to what I DO look like body-wise. Another Man,, only identified himself as "Reverse" on T-mag.com which I think is no longer on was REALLY close to being exactly like me body-wise. I wish I could bring that photo up. And ONLY to show, NOT to "show-off" or "brag". I am NOT that type - to brag or show off - honestly speaking. (Now I will get those that SAY I am bragging - but like I have tried to explain and say ONLY BY WAY OF EXPLANATION of a topic being discussed.)

Take Care, John H.

Dude sounds like endometrosis (sp) to me. My wife has it and at times it can hurt very much!! Have her go to an OBGYN and have it checked.

Best of luck!!