Thread: My girl hurts during sex

see a doctor. are you using condoms? is she allergic to latex or the lube or spermicide on the condom? it could be an std even a reaction to deodorant tampons. make an appt.

You could also try a lubricant for dryness. They are usually in the same aisle as condoms. Brothers ex-girlfriend had a similar problem with dryness. It is an excellent idea to see a gynocologist though. Hope it all works out.

awww shit, thats herpes.

see a doc. It could be an allergic reaction, some kind of vaginal tightening (vaginitis?), dryness (in which case a good lube may fix it), or perhaps a shortage of foreplay

could also be psychological. Are you her first? Does she have moral/ religious problems with it?

Originally Posted by dnale48

hey i just have a question about my partner. Everytime we have sex she hurts really bad inside of her. We cant figure out why and its not cause of dick size because mine is average. She describes it as a burning sensation half way through sex and i can tell when it hurts her by her face. she always feel disapointed in her self because she can have sex for that long without pain. Just looking for anything that can fix this if any of you are farmiliar with this kinda thing.

Hi Dnale,

I am not a Physician. You really should have her checked out by one that is competent. I say this NOT to worry you or her but as a help to both of you.

It sounds like she may be just "dry" - that is, not enough natural lubrication. But it could be something else that can be taken care of and understood.
I have had this problem with some females but it has been because of my size and most can not take much of me (physically speaking I am 10 5/8" long and 6 1/2" thick when hard so most women find me difficult to take at all - I say this by way of explanation NOT bragging). If she is a small lady you could be too big for her even though you say you are average. Some ladies can not take very much and are delicate and hurt easily. It could be that she also needs to "adjust" to your size too.

Make sure by having a checkup.

Take Care, John H.

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

Originally Posted by devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

I agree with the getting checked and also, the possible allergy/irritation of the condom.

See a doctor, see a doctor, see a doctor!!!

i love how john finds away in every thread he posts in to tell us he has a 10 inch dick. ha ha john. no one believes you.

try polyurathane condoms

Originally Posted by devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

Hi Devil,

No, inches - actually. Truthfully. All mine.

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by John H.

(physically speaking I am 10 5/8" long and 6 1/2" thick when hard so most women find me difficult to take at all

WTF?!?!?!?!!?!?Is that physically possible?

Originally Posted by bio-chem

i love how john finds away in every thread he posts in to tell us he has a 10 inch dick. ha ha john. no one believes you.

Bio boy,

I said 'By way of explanation" and when it is discussed I have said that BY WAY OF EXPLANATION - as to what is being discussed. Now if you want, I can arrange for you at your expense to come visit me and pull my jeans down and jack me off and measure it for yourself to see for yourself. You can even find out using a metric tape measure if you want a really accurate measurement and take as long as you want As a statistician I feel you would believe in what you can see FOR YOURSELF and I will even let you touch it to see if it is real for yourself. And I say this as an adult Male who has had other "doubters" and when they checked FOR THEMSELVES then believed. It is kinda like seeing a "vision" only IT IS A FACT. I make this "offer" so you will become a "believer" for yourself you being a "doubting thomas".

John H.

ewwwwwww

Originally Posted by devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

Hi Devil,

I have no reason to lie about it. I have had others question me on it. I wear jeans that are 30" waist x 36 length, am 6' 2" tall and weigh 190 and it "shows" all the time naturally so even when "soft" I do get a lot of people - Men AND Women - wanting to know for themselves. I do not get "upset" by people wanting to "know" for themselves I understand the natural "curiosity" of wanting to 'know' and depending on who it is and what kind of person they are - whether mature or not - they can "find out" for themselves and have....

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by Celtic Bhoy

WTF?!?!?!?!!?!?Is that physically possible?

Hi Celtic,

Yes, absolutely true and all me. Period. People that know me personally know I get this question all the time. I just "answer" it. I understand people's natural curiousity...

Take Care, John H.

Lol, in no way will I ever believe those statements about the size of your penis John, sorry, just can't believe it.

I am not sure whether its from too much sex or from certain lubes or condoms, but if I have a certain amount of sex over the course of a few days I usually get raw and it hurts quite a bit, then turning itchy and well, that doesn't help! I just wait it out and it takes about a week to clear up. It's almost as if it swells/bruises down there.. weird stuff.. is it just me.. (this does not regard John H or any of the other guys, asking other females this question!)

I'm not a doctor, but I would suggest more attempts at anal and oral sex instead. It also helps prevent pregnancy.

When I hear about John's size...........

So whose up to bat?

Originally Posted by Muscle_Girl

Lol, in no way will I ever believe those statements about the size of your penis John, sorry, just can't believe it.

I am not sure whether its from too much sex or from certain lubes or condoms, but if I have a certain amount of sex over the course of a few days I usually get raw and it hurts quite a bit, then turning itchy and well, that doesn't help! I just wait it out and it takes about a week to clear up. It's almost as if it swells/bruises down there.. weird stuff.. is it just me.. (this does not regard John H or any of the other guys, asking other females this question!)

Hi Muscle,

You are free to believe what you want - or not.

I have no reason to lie about myself or my "qualifications". I have had others "question me" and they find out "for themselves"...

Hell anything a person does to excess will cause problems. Nothing was made to "take it all the time" - but I try though in my area of "expertise"...

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR

I'm not a doctor, but I would suggest more attempts at anal and oral sex instead. It also helps prevent pregnancy.

Hi Mtn,

FOR SURE!!!

My wife WHO I LOVE IMMENSELY AND KNOWS IT FOR SURE says there is NO WAY she is going to have another child by me - we now have 8 and I TOLD HER BEFORE we married I was not going to "tie myself in a knot" so she had better be ready for the ride of a lifetime. She is glad for the rest sometimes but we DO LOVE EACH OTHER - COMPLETELY AND THOROUGHLY - and OUR CHILDREN.

We both wanted children and a big family and got what I told her we were going to DO even before we got married. She KNOWS me and I KNOW her. And we "surprise" each other all the
time...

Variety in life exists because it IS NECESSARY for LIFE.

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by david

When I hear about John's size...........

So whose up to bat?

Hi David,

My Buddies at work joke about this aspect of me but also understand - as MEN.

And, it works, as God intended it to. Trust me!

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by John H.

Hi Mtn,

FOR SURE!!!

My wife WHO I LOVE IMMENSELY AND KNOWS IT FOR SURE says there is NO WAY she is going to have another child by me - we now have 8 and I TOLD HER BEFORE we married I was not going to "tie myself in a knot" so she had better be ready for the ride of a lifetime. She is glad for the rest sometimes but we DO LOVE EACH OTHER - COMPLETELY AND THOROUGHLY - and OUR CHILDREN.

We both wanted children and a big family and got what I told her we were going to DO even before we got married. She KNOWS me and I KNOW her. And we "surprise" each other all the
time...

Variety in life exists because it IS NECESSARY for LIFE.

Take Care, John H.

Shut the fuck up you flaming homo. No man has a cock with those proportions. Die already and stop with these stupid, nob Bb related fucking comments. You have never made a BB comment, only gay shit. Fucking jump under a bus.

Originally Posted by John H.

I said 'By way of explanation" and when it is discussed I have said that BY WAY OF EXPLANATION - as to what is being discussed.

John, I'm pretty sure I've never attacked you here, so I'd like you to take this advice from someone who's non-adversarial. You're "explanations" tend to veer into the unneccessary sometimes. Let's look at your original statement:

"It sounds like she may be just "dry" - that is, not enough natural lubrication. But it could be something else that can be taken care of and understood. If she is a small lady you could be too big for her even though you say you are average. Some ladies can not take very much and are delicate and hurt easily. It could be that she also needs to "adjust" to your size too."

I've removed any reference to your size and left only things pertinent to the original question. See, it's just as effective without giving the impression that you're bragging. I'm not saying you ARE braggin, just that you do sometimes give that impression when you unneccessarily give your "qualifications".

My penis is huge.

Take care, John H.

looks like greek understands how to take johns posts. simply a joke

Originally Posted by ALBOB

John, I'm pretty sure I've never attacked you here, so I'd like you to take this advice from someone who's non-adversarial. You're "explanations" tend to veer into the unneccessary sometimes. Let's look at your original statement:

"It sounds like she may be just "dry" - that is, not enough natural lubrication. But it could be something else that can be taken care of and understood. If she is a small lady you could be too big for her even though you say you are average. Some ladies can not take very much and are delicate and hurt easily. It could be that she also needs to "adjust" to your size too."

I've removed any reference to your size and left only things pertinent to the original question. See, it's just as effective without giving the impression that you're bragging. I'm not saying you ARE braggin, just that you do sometimes give that impression when you unneccessarily give your "qualifications".

Hi ALBOB,

I agree with you AND I said that AND I also wanted to explain my situation as I have found it to happen and IF she also had a Man that was "big" I was sharing the situations I have encountered BY WAY OF EXPLANATION and the reasons.

I made the statement the way I did for a number of reasons. First to explain that some women will be dry naturally so and have difficulty. Second due to a Man's size she can have difficulty especially after being "worked-on" and in my case this has happened which is why I said BY WAY OF EXPLANATION and then my size - I WAS NOT trying brag or boast and never do - people that know me know I don't have to. I was trying to explain that that aspect can be a source of pain as well for some women and that with me because of my size many women have had problems because I can become somewhat forceful when entering and doing the work at hand - I like trying to get completely "in" which is not possible for me with women because they can not accomadate all of me - AGAIN NOT BRAGGING ONLY EXPLAINING as to the facts. It is NOT my intention to have other Guys feel somehow inadequate either - FAR FROM THAT. Each Man has what God gave him and he can utilized it to the very best of his ability and have complete satisificatiion both for himself and his partner. I was explaining from my situation. People tend to complain sometimes about my use of capitals and in this case I used them and those that read it read it wrong EVEN THOUGH I CLEARLY STATED - BY WAY OF EXPLANATION. Yes, women DO need to adjust to a Man's size if that is possible and with some Men as with me that is not very possible and when I am at work I do tend to want to BE INSIDE COMPLETELY and it is difficult for me NOT TO BE and ONLY BE "partly" in and for the women it is difficult for them when I DO try to go all the way in for my satisification and theirs as well. And a drying out can occur from all the friction.

Do you understand what I am saying and why?

I appreciate you being NON-adversarial and DISCUSSING this as mature adults which is what I try to do all the time. But with some...

Take Care, John H.

Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR

Shut the fuck up you flaming homo. No man has a cock with those proportions. Die already and stop with these stupid, nob Bb related fucking comments. You have never made a BB comment, only gay shit. Fucking jump under a bus.

Mtn,

I can see you can NOT discuss something as a mature adult.

I have no reason to lie about me and how God made me.

I was NOT BRAGGING OR BOASTING - I SAID: BY WAY OF EXPLANATION. To try to help the person solve their problem or understand it and to recommend they get the advice of a Medical Doctor to be sure.

I HAVE written about Bodybuilding subjects and will as time permits me to do so. You are in the "Sexual Health" section which is where all topics relating to Sex are discussed on this IRONMAGAZINE website.

As for the "bus" - maybe you should take your own advice?

John H.