Sexual tips

**VivaLaRocket81** · 04-19-2005, 02:31 PM

hey, i have a question thats open to both genders.

i am 15 years old and me and my gf have been getting pretty intimate, and i almost know for a fact that its going to turn into sex. i am a virgin, and i was wondering, how do u "please" a girl?? sure i know all the technicals and what not but any advice would be great. and please if your going to help me, dont candy coat it, just straight up tell me. and please know that by answering my question and helping me with my "problem" ur not promoting underage sex, i am fully responsible for any consequence that might occur, im just looking for advice.
thanx in advance

**Little Wing** · 04-19-2005, 02:57 PM

with your mouth.

**VivaLaRocket81** · 04-19-2005, 02:59 PM

ive done my homework and have found that oral is very stimulating for the girl and i plan to do alot of it, any other more in-depth tips??

**Little Wing** · 04-19-2005, 03:26 PM

make love to her. don't just dive in the sexy bits. kiss her face , neck, shoulders.... be romantic. think about the setting, any music should be low enough to not be distracting. and the next day do something to show her you feel the same. most young guys fail miserably on this one. if you aren't going to like her just as much after as before then leave her alone.

**VivaLaRocket81** · 04-19-2005, 03:48 PM

yeah ive thought alot about this and i wanted this to be a night she wont forget. i thought about heavy foreplay and kissing for atleast an hour, just teasing, i want it to be a night for her, not me.

**Little Wing** · 04-19-2005, 03:51 PM

teasing is good. sounds like things will go well but i hope she is at least your age. there are a lot of ways you could please each other without going all the way. it's just something to think about.

**shiznit2169** · 04-19-2005, 03:55 PM

first start off with a romantic dinner if you're in the mood. Set some candles and low romantic music with the lights dimmed if possible and maybe you guys should wear nice clothes. Have someone drop her off at your place and surprise her. Have dinner and just talk..after that have some dessert and then start playing around a little bit. undress and start kissing gently and feeling each other up. Hell throw some chocolate syrup on her and whip cream (if its ok with her) and take it from there. You guys will have a great night if all goes well and make sure you call her the next day and talk to her about how great the night before was and show some interest that u still love her. Most guys just ditch them the next day and dont call til 3 days later desperate for more sex and its uncomfortable for the girl thinking she is being "used"

Good luck

By the way, make sure you wear condoms. If she is younger than 18 years old and something happens such as pregancy or her parents finding out...you could get in trouble and may be charged with statutory rape even if she consented. Thats the law and once again...good luck!

Let us know how it goes

**gococksDJS** · 04-19-2005, 04:11 PM

slip your pinkie into her butt, chicks dig that.

**LW83** · 04-19-2005, 06:21 PM

If you are my little sisters' boyfreind, I will tear you apart

**000** · 04-19-2005, 06:24 PM

Originally Posted by gococksDJS

slip your pinkie into her butt, chicks dig that.

..lol

**primus_122** · 04-19-2005, 07:00 PM

i agree with gococksDJS

**Twigz** · 04-19-2005, 07:55 PM

How old is the girl?

**drew.haynes** · 04-20-2005, 03:27 AM

Not an answer, and definately not a response you wanna hear, but I'm 19... not too far off. Consider all pros and cons... emotional, spiritual, physical... don't just let ur dick do the thinking. Nothing wrong with being a virgin.

**VivaLaRocket81** · 04-20-2005, 10:41 AM

shes 14, and i have thought about everything that goes along with sex. to me its not just for plesure, im hoping to connect with this girl, even tho i know im not going to go out with her forever, i just wanna have a emotional connection with her, becouse thats what i need right now, becouse ive been going thru alot.

**gococksDJS** · 04-20-2005, 10:56 AM

watch out, she might have cooties!!!

**naturaltan** · 04-20-2005, 12:58 PM

how about waiting till you're ready

**largepkg** · 04-20-2005, 01:07 PM

Originally Posted by naturaltan

how about waiting till you're ready

That's an interesting concept NT and it could be applied to so many things.

**naturaltan** · 04-20-2005, 01:32 PM

it could be for sure. I think I'm only thinking that way because I have an 11 year old daughter and she'll be going to a jr/sr high school this coming fall.

**naturaltan** · 04-20-2005, 01:36 PM

Viva ... not knocking your decision to have sex, but what if you get this girl pregnant, are you prepared to stand by her side and help raise a baby? If you can honestly answer yes, then you might be ready, but at 15, I'm betting that raising a baby would be a very stressful way of life.

**largepkg** · 04-20-2005, 01:48 PM

Originally Posted by naturaltan

it could be for sure. I think I'm only thinking that way because I have an 11 year old daughter and she'll be going to a jr/sr high school this coming fall.

Good luck with your daughter. I understand completely. I have two nieces 11/12 that I consider my own. The fun is about to begin! I heard the analogy raising a teenager is like nailing jello to a tree.

**VivaLaRocket81** · 04-20-2005, 02:00 PM

belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.

**largepkg** · 04-20-2005, 02:06 PM

To be 15 again...

**crazy_enough** · 04-20-2005, 02:16 PM

Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81

belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.

I think ure smart enough to understand the conscequences of your actions, sexual or not, thats obvious. But I wonder if u fully grasp the extent of what U just typed!!
If u know u are not gonna be dating this girl forever, then perhaps U shouldnt be considering actions that may have "forever" conscequences, like a child!!! I planned my first pregnancy at the age of 16 and I can pretty much guarantee you than theres no way that u can raise an "unplanned baby "the way it deserves to be raised" at your age, with your ressources...(not just talking finances here!!) Im not trying to put u down, Im only 25, but speaking form experience here!
The emotional bond between the two of youn should actually happen prior to sex...Sex is (usually!!lol) a result or "side effect" of an emotional bond. Remember, chicks are emotional beings, and by having sex with you SHE thinks it means forever!!
Fool around, kiss, play, have fun, if u know ure both clean and healthy, introduce foreplay (hands, mouth ...) but consider holding out on the intercourse part....I hope this doesnt sound like a lecture, it wasnt meant to be one....Just things to think about....

**MTN WARRIOR** · 04-20-2005, 02:33 PM

Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81

hey, i have a question thats open to both genders.

i am 15 years old and me and my gf have been getting pretty intimate, and i almost know for a fact that its going to turn into sex. i am a virgin, and i was wondering, how do u "please" a girl?? sure i know all the technicals and what not but any advice would be great. and please if your going to help me, dont candy coat it, just straight up tell me. and please know that by answering my question and helping me with my "problem" ur not promoting underage sex, i am fully responsible for any consequence that might occur, im just looking for advice.
thanx in advance

Just buy her the big house in the suburbs and a Volvo. Thats where its headed anyway. Might as well skip all the other BULLSHIT!

**largepkg** · 04-20-2005, 02:35 PM

Volvo? Does any lady really want a Volvo?

**crazy_enough** · 04-20-2005, 02:38 PM

Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR

Just buy her the big house in the suburbs and a Volvo. Thats where its headed anyway. Might as well skip all the other BULLSHIT!

LOL

Are u perhaps still in a "bitter" mood buddy?

**gococksDJS** · 04-20-2005, 10:52 PM

Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81

belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.

You can say this now, but you won't think the same thing if your in the situation. Go buy a puppy and raise it on your own. I bought a 5 week old pitbull last summer, and I love him to death but having a puppy is complete hell, they require 24 hour attention, and I imagine raising a child is only abou 10,000 times harder.

**drew.haynes** · 04-21-2005, 12:49 AM

Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81

belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.

For being so smart.. I don't think you really even realize what you are saying. Think about it, you don't even expect to be with her forever. I mean, even if you did, there's a good chance it would NOT happen, but you don't even EXPECT TO BE TOGETHER. You DEFINATELY don't wanna risk forming a permanent bond with someone you are not wanting to be with FOREVER. On top of that, you are 15 man, you've got too much else to do, because you have probably lived 1/4 of your life tops. Just play it safe dude, you do not NEED sex. That's bullshit. Even if you were gonna be with her forever, you have all the time in the world, just chill out and be fifteen while you can, you are probably missing out on alot less than you think.

I mean read what you are saying. Think about it. I've been there man, I know where those words and feelings are coming from. Sometimes your hormones speak so loud you can hardly even think straight, but you just gotta keep that under control. I've had times when I came so close to making the dumbest mistakes ever, and what sucks is that even WHILE my hormones were telling me to do it, I still KNEW I shouldn't.

**Little Wing** · 04-21-2005, 01:01 AM

my daughter is 13. i'd be very sad if i thought her life was going to involve sex next year. she hates girls that age at her school that are having sex. they are commonly referred to by the other school kids as skanks. you might want to give that some thought. i asked her what a skank is and she said "someone who doesn't know enough to want more out of life than some guy on top of them, skanks are the next generation of welfare mothers". i'm raising one smart girlie.

**drew.haynes** · 04-21-2005, 01:11 AM

Originally Posted by rockgazer69

my daughter is 13. i'd be very sad if i thought her life was going to involve sex next year. she hates girls that age at her school that are having sex. they are commonly referred to by the other school kids as skanks. you might want to give that some thought. i asked her what a skank is and she said "someone who doesn't know enough to want more out of life than some guy on top of them, skanks are the next generation of welfare mothers". i'm raising one smart girlie.

Viva, even if you disagree with me, at least be open minded enough to read this and think about things:

That's right. I mean I am freshman Pre-med right now. If I slipped up and got a girl pregnant, I'd be done. Young people just need to start looking at a bigger picture. Someone I know used to always say, discipline is not denying the things you want, it's only delaying them until they are at their best.

People think they should just have sex with someone, that it will bring them together. Those people should not need sex for that. Yeah, for that moment, YOU WILL feel closer to that person, but do you REALLY understand the spiritual/emotional repercussions of the whole thing? You don't know who you will be with forever until you have a ring on their finger, and you don't wanna rush that, not at your age. Think about after you and her are split up. What about the next girl? What about when you do get married to someone you want to be with forever? Do you really want flashbacks of every thing that went on between you and previous girls when you are with your wife? Maybe I am the only one that sees it this way, but it just isn't worth it. Being impulsive rarely gets you anything worth having. If you want the best, you work for it, and you wait for it. That applies in all areas of life: in relationships, in things like lifting, in school, in a career, in a family.

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