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06-13-2005, 11:39 PM #1Registered User
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Ejaculation and Erection problems
Hi all
I am a 24/m and had sex for the first time a few months ago. The problem is I have never ejaculated inside my girlfriend, I have only ejaculated a few time when she stimulates me with her hand. The first few times of intercourse were fun but I found it hard to keep an erection during intercourse. Now during foreplay she can get me very hard (erect) but once I move or try to have penetrative sex with her I go all soft. I am not sure if this is fear because sometime I think that because I failed to ejaculate before I have a lot of pressure to finish properly this time round. Sometimes I think it could be the thought of wearing a condom and it just gets me out of the mood completely. I think my penis works fine because when I masturbate everything seems normal. I love my girlfriend and I don't want to lose her, she say it doesn't matter everytime but I feel I am dissappointing her and giving her the feeling i dont want her or need her. I think this problem is driving her away and I am scared I will lose her. She knows she is my first love and I know she has only been with one man before me and she said she never had problems like this before, I know she feels like that I don't love her or need her. What shold i do now ??? Should i go for viagra
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06-13-2005, 11:43 PM #2Bohemian Extraordinaire ELITE MEMBER
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06-13-2005, 11:52 PM #3You Lack Intensity!!!! ELITE MEMBER
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no Viagra is not the answer bro. Think about it this way, you know for a fact that its not a physiological problem b/c you are able to get hard other times, so its obviously a mental problem. the pressure and stress in eth back of your mind is what is giving you a problem. you need to focus on relieving the pressure. Its you thats feeling like your dissapointing her by "underperforming". you need to just let her help you, that its not about performance, its about the love you two have. its not about teh end result, its about sharing the experience, if can put yourself past the performance anxiety than you will be fine. ya dig. good luck, and enjoy
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06-14-2005, 12:58 AM #5Peelosopher
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completely agree
Originally Posted by gr81
just relax, and don't be afraid to just let her help you. Try having a few sessions where sex isn't the intent: Just have fun with each other, don't worry about having sex for a while. Then maybe in the middle of the "fun" you'll think that it'll be a good time to pop it in and do it.
Ok, so maybe I'm not the biggest romantic but I betcha it'll work
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06-14-2005, 01:00 AM #6Peelosopher
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this is also good advice for the guy whose girlfriend doesn't want to have sex yet, where "fun" = "sleep" Originally Posted by Crono1000
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06-14-2005, 01:34 AM #7You Lack Intensity!!!! ELITE MEMBER
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are we on the same page lately or what..lol.. good timescompletely agree
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06-14-2005, 02:06 PM #9Bohemian Extraordinaire ELITE MEMBER
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Put it in her butt.
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06-14-2005, 03:22 PM #10Voodoo Doll ELITE MEMBER
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another winner. Originally Posted by min0 lee
Don't look back ~ You're not going that way!
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Great 1st post... John H feel free to jump right in.
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Put it in her mouth! Originally Posted by maniclion
Originally Posted by ForemanRules;
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06-14-2005, 03:36 PM #13Magical Apelikemenace ELITE MEMBER
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I'm thinking your problem is 100% psychological
You need to have sex more often...
Practice makes Perfect...
Answer this...
How long have you dated this girl...
How long did she make you wait, since you have known her?
Have you had other GF's with whom you have come close?
How long have you been waiting to have sex?
(IE when did you have to start masturbating so you could sleep at night)
Does she put the condom on, or you?
Have Problems?... Chances are its due to overpopulation
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06-14-2005, 03:42 PM #14Peelosopher
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funny how we automatically assume it's cuz she made him wait Originally Posted by The Monkey Man
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06-14-2005, 03:55 PM #15I'm CEO, Bitch! ADMINISTRATOR
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I agree, Cialis is much better! Originally Posted by gr81
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06-14-2005, 04:00 PM #16Bohemian Extraordinaire ELITE MEMBER
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Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio
I agree, Cialis is much better!
Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
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eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
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06-14-2005, 10:05 PM #17Senior Member ELITE MEMBER
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watch a porno together
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06-15-2005, 03:55 AM #18You Lack Intensity!!!! ELITE MEMBER
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well I gotta say that even better than thpse meds, 2000 mgs of test a week will definately do the trick! lolI agree, Cialis is much better!
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06-15-2005, 12:24 PM #19The Original Jackass
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I'm not so sure that Viagra isn't the answer. A friend of mine had a shitty relationship experience and was having trouble getting an erection after the break up, he went to the doctor took one pill and he never had trouble with it again
I didn't ask him why he thought that was, guess it's just something guys don't get into detail with 
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06-15-2005, 03:35 PM #20Bohemian Extraordinaire ELITE MEMBER
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Taken in conjunction with Anabolic-Matrix Rx right? Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio
I agree, Cialis is much better!
Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012
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06-15-2005, 03:37 PM #21Bohemian Extraordinaire ELITE MEMBER
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Maybe he taped a picture of your sphincter to the headboard of his bed? Originally Posted by irontime
I'm not so sure that Viagra isn't the answer. A friend of mine had a shitty relationship experience and was having trouble getting an erection after the break up, he went to the doctor took one pill and he never had trouble with it again I didn't ask him why he thought that was, guess it's just something guys don't get into detail with
Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
and drag down the features of age,
no folds or creases from unkempt wear
eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012
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06-16-2005, 04:31 PM #22The Original Jackass
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Hey, friends have to help friends, right?
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